Girls jealous of those that are less attractive Options

[cloudyski]

You all notice this too?:

I've noticed that a number of unprovoked females seem to be overly jealous of others that are less attractive than the norm.

They seem to think that because you are less attractive, your life should be miserable like them and you should suffer like they do or even more than they do since they are unhappy with their looks, you should be too.

Like for instance:

girl A: how can so many guys like her? i dont get what they see in her
girl B: how can her boyfriend like her?
girl C: do you see how hot her boyfriend is and what she looks like?

etc etc
etc

etc
etc
etc

[Federico]

lol, i think they want them to be more miserable than them. Sorta like a "i'm hotter than you so i should be happier than you" type of mentality.

This post has been edited by Federico: Feb 17 2007, 09:23 PM

[cherry_tree]

who cares. the important thing is they are less attractive then you

[cloudyski]

lol, i think they want them to be more miserable than them. Sorta like a "i'm hotter than you so i should be happier than you" type of mentality.

YES! exactly


women are evil. its not about everyone being happy. its about doing 1 up on your fellow (wo)man




i actually know some girls who imo are ok and should be happy because they are older and married etc. their lives should have moved on past this point. but frequently, they turn 'bitter' at the most unexpected moments and they kind of lash out

like ~ how can you be happy? how can you be satisfied with life?
don't u want more???? etc etc

sad thing is. some people's own mother's do it to them.
i've seen some girl's moms say some of the most outrageous things.. you'd think it came out of an episode of the O.C. or something

[Jagger]

You all notice this too?:

I've noticed that a number of unprovoked females seem to be overly jealous of others that are less attractive than the norm.

They seem to think that because you are less attractive, your life should be miserable like them and you should suffer like they do or even more than they do since they are unhappy with their looks, you should be too.

Like for instance:

girl A: how can so many guys like her? i dont get what they see in her
girl B: how can her boyfriend like her?
girl C: do you see how hot her boyfriend is and what she looks like?

etc etc
etc

etc
etc
etc

Aren't men also jealous when they say things like "how did that ugly guy end up with a hot chick like her?"

[cloudyski]

^ i dunno...

i didn't know guys did that. i thought guys were more supportive like

damn boy! u did good.

and they objectify the woman in that case, like the guy must teach them tricks for bagging hot @$$



(at least this is what i see in movies)

This post has been edited by cloudyski: Feb 17 2007, 10:13 PM

[ninpoo]

You look into what other people think too much. Just focus on your life cloudyskeet.

[Jagger]

^ i dunno...

i didn't know guys did that. i thought guys were more supportive like

damn boy! u did good.

and they objectify the woman in that case, like the guy must teach them tricks for bagging hot @$$



(at least this is what i see in movies)

It's the other way round, guys usually get jealous more easily than girls. But we don't mind teaming up with other guys when it comes to bagging chicks (no, I don't mean gangbangs).

This post has been edited by Jagger: Feb 17 2007, 10:48 PM

[cloudyski]

^ guys do?

you mean of each other??
i haven't really seen much of this but its something to observe


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ninpoop` no kidding

This post has been edited by cloudyski: Feb 18 2007, 09:22 AM

[starry]

Sadly, I've been guilty of the "who does she think she is" mentality. Especially in the teen years, when it's an unwritten rule that a girl is not supposed to show that she thinks well of herself.

[BlueAway]

^ guys do?

you mean of each other??
i haven't really seen much of this but its something to observe
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ninpoop` no kidding

no men suck. I actually working with girls unless they're like super hot and attractive, then I get intimidated as hell. But if they're average to attractive looking, I can handle it.

men have a lot of jealousies too. we just dont show it in front of each other but if a guy is jealous of you, you can usually tell through their subtle actions and behavior.

however, social-wise, i prefer guys than girls. i dont know how to socialize with girls.

This post has been edited by BlueAway: Feb 18 2007, 11:40 AM

[AgentBach]

You all notice this too?:

I've noticed that a number of unprovoked females seem to be overly jealous of others that are less attractive than the norm.

They seem to think that because you are less attractive, your life should be miserable like them and you should suffer like they do or even more than they do since they are unhappy with their looks, you should be too.

Like for instance:

girl A: how can so many guys like her? i dont get what they see in her
girl B: how can her boyfriend like her?
girl C: do you see how hot her boyfriend is and what she looks like?

etc etc
etc

etc
etc
etc

from your example the girls are jealous at the fact that an ugly girl has a guy, not that attractive girls are actually jealous of ugly chicks.

[deeme2000]

I've heard friends say things like, "she's fat and ugly how can she have that guy spending all that money, attention and time on her"

It's usually frustration over the fact that their own bf's won't do the same for them...so instead of taking a closer look at their own personalities, they think its all about looks.

I can't even tell these friends that if they were less b!tchy towards their guys, maybe they wouldn't be scoffing at other girls. but whatever...I stopped giving advice to lost cases a long time ago.

just smile and change the subject when it comes to bashing like that.

[Mizz_Luv3r]

I don't judge out of jealousy, I judge out of dismay. It's like seeing an alien or something. I'm just shocked and amazed, but never jealous.

I just find it funny that most attractive guys that date "ugly" girls are not that intelligent or has some kind of insecurity issue....lol

This post has been edited by Mizz_Luv3r: Feb 19 2007, 07:50 AM

[Ichigo_Zangetsu]

I stoped comparing myself to other girls the day i bought a vibrator..

lol

who cares... life is happy...

[Gatts]

I stoped comparing myself to other girls the day i bought a vibrator..

lol

who cares... life is happy...

lol

[ExpressYourself]

Never heard of this, but okay...I'm more used to girls complimenting "less attractive girls" and even kissing their @$$.

[cloudyski]

Sadly, I've been guilty of the "who does she think she is" mentality. Especially in the teen years, when it's an unwritten rule that a girl is not supposed to show that she thinks well of herself.

i don't think you are like what i mean though

i know girls who will rip others apart (even supposed friends)
for no good reason

for instance, i had a friend who used to make fun of this other girl i knew a lot behind her back - even though she was friends to her face. she would constantly say things like i don't see why her bf likes her, she's not even pretty. she's not even nice. etc. etc. yadda yadda

men have a lot of jealousies too. we just dont show it in front of each other but if a guy is jealous of you, you can usually tell through their subtle actions and behavior.

men get jealous of girls?

i always thought that opposite genders tend to work best together



This post has been edited by cloudyski: Feb 19 2007, 09:48 PM

[Suijen]

^ Well of course, she's female. That's what women do.

[cloudyski]

from your example the girls are jealous at the fact that an ugly girl has a guy, not that attractive girls are actually jealous of ugly chicks.

yes but its not just always about having a bf