Asian guys who never attracted to other ethnic girls., Anyones like me ? Options

[yagoogong]

As an Asian guy(presicely Korean) who has a stable job with more than average education from upper-middle class family background,
I just found myself never attracted to other ethnic ladies.

When I look at other race girls , I feel they are beautiful or they look cool but never found myself eager to approach them.
Actually I had many chances to do so and the girls didn't mind or wanted me to approach them.
Precisely speaking , I usually attracted to only East Asian girls. (Korean,Chinese and Japanese)
I really have no idea why.

I don't think I am close minded and I really like conversation for many kind of topics , I think I can be very cool and royal to my girl.
I don't think I'm in low competitive in attraction to other ethnic girls but I just found myself not feel like doing that.

I talked to many of my friends (yes Korean men ) and I just realized thats not only me.

Any guys like me ? Do you guys think I have a problem like my subconscious world very closed ?

[Imtherealsugarba...]

most guys only like east asian or white chicks so your preference isnt shocking at all
thats normal thinking for the average male
The majority of guys are like you so you dont have to feel like an outcast
most people would probably think its more weird for you to have a preference for something other than white or asian

This post has been edited by Imtherealsugarbaby: Aug 20 2011, 07:25 AM

[samnang]

i'm kinda getting a crush on leona lewis.

[mastaping]

There are a couple guys on here that are not attracted to non EAsian females. Hey you can like what you like theres nothing wrong with it.
I for one only like EAsian males. Its called preference. Nothing wrong with it.

[AsiaticGlory]

Welcome to the club. I'm just into Asian Mongoloid women.

[mastaping]

Welcome to the club. I'm just into Asian Mongoloid women.

I was waiting for you to show up~

[SemperFidelis]

What do you look for in a girl?

[Zdrav]

I think most Asian guys would date a non-Asian girl in the abstract sense. However, unfair circumstances make it so that an Asian guy has to work a lot harder to get a desirable non-Asian girl than to get a desirable Asian girl. And since Asian girls are incredibly attractive anyway, the cost-benefit ratio of risking rejection and humiliation when going after non-Asian girls is unfavorable.

[FluffyFuab]

There's nothing wrong w/it. I've always been attracted to all sorts of Asians.

[rahul1000]

There is absolutely nothing to worry about. I think its funny that we live in such a diverse, liberal and multicultural world that you worry you only like girls of your own ethnicity.

There is nothing wrong with it, the majority of people in the world prefer people of their own community, it should be nothing to be ashamed of at all.

[KraterosHellas]

that's normal. but the problem is far too many non-asian men are into asian women these days. the supply and demands don't meet up.

[CAsian]

most of people like their own race and ethnicity, that is standart ethnic psychology
but Korean show business demonstrates not typical Korean looks, celebrities make plastic surgeries making eyes bigger and noses more prominent. Doesn't it mean that Korean people don't like their own appearance and they want to look differently?

This post has been edited by CAsian: Sep 9 2011, 05:40 AM

[ElapsePride]

Precisely speaking , I usually attracted to only East Asian girls. (Korean,Chinese and Japanese)

I dunno why people like to group Korean, Chinese and Japanese people together in regard to physical appearances. we don't look the same, we just share some similarities and that's all that is.

I think many Asian guys are attracted to other ethnic girls, but they're not confident enough to make a move, or don't speak fluent english such as myself.
I used to like only my own kind (strict speaking, only girls from my own province) but after living abroad for fairly enough time, I started to find many other ethnics beautiful as well.

This post has been edited by ElapsePride: Sep 9 2011, 07:06 AM

[CAsian]

I dunno why people like to group Korean, Chinese and Japanese people together in regard to physical appearances. we don't look the same, we just share some similarities and that's all that is.

I think many Asian guys are attracted to other ethnic girls, but they're not confident enough to make a move, or don't speak fluent english such as myself.
I used to like only my own kind (strict speaking, only girls from my own province) but after living abroad for fairly enough time, I started to find many other ethnics beautiful as well.

may be OP meant the Nothern Asian type of beauty?

just want to say: guys, don't be shy

[AsiaticGlory]

that's normal. but the problem is far too many non-asian men are into asian women these days. the supply and demands don't meet up.

I see it as a culling. Hollywood brainwashing is the new Siberian Ice Age. lol
The Asian women who are easily brainwashed breed with non-Asians while weaker Asian men don't make children. In the end, strong/smart Asian men and Asian women breed with each other.

most of people like their own race and ethnicity, that is standart ethnic psychology
but Korean show business demonstrates not typical Korean looks, celebrities make plastic surgeries making eyes bigger and noses more prominent. Doesn't it mean that Korean people don't like their own appearance and they want to look differently?

true
As for Korea, it is probably because of the Western influence. American influence on Japan/South Korea is like Russian influence on your country. I heard that Turkic people use the word "mankurt" to describe the ones who are Russified.

It seems white worship is a problem amongst Asians worldwide.

I dunno why people like to group Korean, Chinese and Japanese people together in regard to physical appearances. we don't look the same, we just share some similarities and that's all that is.

Compared to the Caucasoid, Negroid, and Australoid races, Koreans/Chinese/Japanese might as well be the same. The differences among East Asians, Altaic nomads, Eskimos, and some Southeast Asians aren't even that significant if you compare them to Europids, Semitics, Persians, Indo-Dravidians, Aborigines, Negritos, Polynesians, Negroids, etc.

I think many Asian guys are attracted to other ethnic girls, but they're not confident enough to make a move, or don't speak fluent english such as myself.
I used to like only my own kind (strict speaking, only girls from my own province) but after living abroad for fairly enough time, I started to find many other ethnics beautiful as well.

As an Asian raised in America, I am going to say that white women really ain't that attractive. Asian men back in East Asia, Southeast Asia, and Central Asia should be happy they have access to plenty of single Asian women.

may be OP meant the Nothern Asian type of beauty?

just want to say: guys, don't be shy

The OP is probably just talking about Mongoloids. In America, "Asian" is used as a synonym for "Mongoloid." Americans just use "Arab" for Middle Eastern people as well as for South Asians.

This post has been edited by AsiaticGlory: Sep 9 2011, 08:45 AM

[CAsian]

true
As for Korea, it is probably because of the Western influence. American influence on Japan/South Korea is like Russian influence on your country. I heard that Turkic people use the word "mankurt" to describe the ones who are Russified.

It seems white worship is a problem amongst Asians worldwide.

yes, this word means a person who forgot his/her motherland, language, and history of his/her people. This is a real threat for turkic peoples who were russified. We paid big price for that.



This post has been edited by CAsian: Sep 9 2011, 09:18 AM

[AJLee613]

if you had traditional korean style childhood you would find a bond with people of similar culture. and it is drilled into your mind to find a korean lover when you become older and honor your family line by raising a good child. growing up, my father would be home maybe twice or three times per year for 1-3 days each time. he told me to marry a korean girl when i grow up for the sake of preserving our culture. these sometimes unspoken sentiments are constantly given to people of the asian race, where as more western culture doesn't really seem to care if their child goes off to some far away land and marries someone of strange and/or exotic ethnicity etc.

as a fellow korean i agree with you, i am also only attracted to asian females, there are some south east asian females who are an exception, but those exceptions are usually due to their resemblance to the east asian ethnicities.

[ThoughtsOfMine]

Nah, it's normal to be only attracted to one's own race/ethnicity. I don't think it makes you close-minded, I just think that's your personal preferences--like how some people prefer sweet foods over salty foods. It doesn't make them close-minded, it just means that's what they're into.

Like for me personally, I prefer East Asian men over any other race when it comes to dating and relationships. It doesn't mean I hate other races, it just means I find Asian guys more attractive than guys of other races. Just how I would find the color blue to be more attractive than the color green. It's all a matter of taste

[hugo boss]

I think it's natural to be attracted to people that are your own ethnic group or culture

This post has been edited by hugo boss: Dec 17 2011, 06:22 PM

[Mizz_Luv3r]

I'm strictly into Asians. Nothing against non-Asians, but I just feel as if things would go smoother dating/marrying a fellow Asian.