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how to attract your friend
platinumk
post Apr 26 2008, 12:03 AM
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hey guys. im filipino canadian born in Phil raised in Canada. i have a really cute ladyfriend whos 4 years younger than i am. she hasnt graduated yet but i have. you do the math. i really like her. scratch that, i really LOVE her. i blew my chances to get her rigth when i said i love her unconditionally. i fell TOO FAST for her. and now she just wants to be friends only. fu-k that! i still want her. im willing to do anything to be with her. any suggestions on how i can attract her?

keep in mind that i hev already told her i dont like her anymore just to cover up my trail. i told her that i fall in love with the girl i hev a fling with and EVENTUALLY mellows out to just a crush. i doubt she beleives me entirely but ill get the benefit of the doubt. any suggestions on what i should do to hold her in my arms? i really need your guyz opinion.

also keep in mind that filipino courting is totally different from canadian courting. so please do not give me filipino advices. they do NOT work out here in canada. be as white as u guys can get please....
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post Apr 26 2008, 12:06 AM
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QUOTE(platinumk @ Apr 26 2008, 06:03 AM) [snapback]3661890[/snapback]
hey guys. im filipino canadian born in Phil raised in Canada. i have a really cute ladyfriend whos 4 years younger than i am. she hasnt graduated yet but i have. you do the math. i really like her. scratch that, i really LOVE her. i blew my chances to get her rigth when i said i love her unconditionally. i fell TOO FAST for her. and now she just wants to be friends only. fu-k that! i still want her. im willing to do anything to be with her. any suggestions on how i can attract her?

keep in mind that i hev already told her i dont like her anymore just to cover up my trail. i told her that i fall in love with the girl i hev a fling with and EVENTUALLY mellows out to just a crush. i doubt she beleives me entirely but ill get the benefit of the doubt. any suggestions on what i should do to hold her in my arms? i really need your guyz opinion.

also keep in mind that filipino courting is totally different from canadian courting. so please do not give me filipino advices. they do NOT work out here in canada. be as white as u guys can get please....

Wait for her to graduate.
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post Apr 26 2008, 12:31 AM
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I reckon it's too late....she already wants you to be her friend only and thats almost impossible to change.
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post Apr 26 2008, 03:27 AM
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sorry, but you're stuck in friend zone

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post Apr 26 2008, 05:26 AM
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LOL @ guys steadily owning themselves... Dude, you are older than her by a pretty big gap you should know by now that you should NEVER EVER say "i love you" to a girl if they dont say it first. They will EAT YOU UP. Sorry, but I dont know anybody that ever got out of the friend zone yet.
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post Apr 26 2008, 06:18 AM
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ignore her and she'll come crawling back to you
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post Apr 26 2008, 06:25 AM
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QUOTE(purple @ Apr 26 2008, 07:18 AM) [snapback]3662282[/snapback]
ignore her and she'll come crawling back to you

yea this should work, my style. embarassedlaugh.gif
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post Apr 26 2008, 06:34 AM
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maybe she's abit creeped out by you because you told her how you feel way too soon. but really, i still think its ok to get stuck in friend zone. at least she'd have you to confide in & you can influence her mind somewhat.
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post Apr 26 2008, 07:19 AM
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QUOTE(purple @ Apr 26 2008, 08:18 PM) [snapback]3662282[/snapback]
ignore her and she'll come crawling back to you

nice. it's risky but effective sometimes.

if it doesnt work,.. well.. YOU crawl back at her again... embarassedlaugh.gif OR move on! icon_wink.gif
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post Apr 26 2008, 08:52 AM
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the best way to do it is to come out with it! the best way to do this is when you are drunk make her fall for you, spoil her, make her feel special and give her some loving not like in sexual way but in a gentlemen way well just for now. Make it mean it when you say it, say this ' I have to be honest with you and come out with it. you may not know but i really like you, you make my day every time i see you, you brighten up each time Im with you and you make me feel special. I would just like to say that i love you more than a friend loves a friend! if you dont feel the same as me it will be fine with me but i have to be honest and tell you that i love you.' if she b!tches it wif her friends on how foolish you were saying that! she is not worth it as a friend or a lover.
just a simple advice. because this worked with me. even though it is very dorky lol
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post Apr 27 2008, 07:16 AM
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QUOTE(purple @ Apr 26 2008, 07:18 AM) [snapback]3662282[/snapback]
ignore her and she'll come crawling back to you



Yeah ok, that would certainly make them fall in love with you. LMAOOOO.


You know that only works if the girl likes you right?. The girl already put her on the friend zone. Nothing is impossible in this world but this aint no filipino movie where unrealistic stuff happens.....
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post Apr 27 2008, 12:25 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lhcgd1Go7u4 biggthumpup.gif
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post Apr 27 2008, 01:05 PM
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i know now what i must do... thank u guys... u guys hev been a great help =)
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