Do you put on weight, after you get into a relationship? |
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Do you put on weight, after you get into a relationship? |
 Jan 4 2005, 03:31 AM
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AF Pro  Group: Members Posts: 1,985 Joined: 20-June 04 From: Singapore  |
this is what happened to alot of my friends. after they enter a relationship they start to grow sideways. it's like they just spend their dating time eating n eating! maybe when they're in love they feel good and so they eat more??
 or maybe they don't care abt their appearance once they're in a relationship? i don't know cos it has never happened to me. maybe becos i always get into unhappy relationships. LOL  what abt you? do you grow sideways when you're in a relationship? |
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Jan 4 2005, 04:03 AM
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AF Pro Group: Members Posts: 1,326 Joined: 3-November 04 From: Singapore |
i'm so envious...
 i couldn't put on weight no matter how hard i try... even stuffing my self with food.
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Jan 4 2005, 05:13 AM
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AF Pro Group: Members Posts: 1,977 Joined: 30-July 04 From: Ayers Rock |
Na not me
 My girl texts me sometimes or calls me in the morning and i dont answer right away, she then sends a second text message were she's pretty sh!tty  . She goes man where you at but its usually cause im jogging or at the gym in the morning or training at night 2 I jog and go gym to stay healthy not to look good cause im at a desk job and thats the opposite of healthy so whether im in a relationship or not i'll still do those things. I seen what desk jobs do to people once they hit 30 and it aint pretty nor does it look healthy 
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Jan 4 2005, 06:02 AM
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AF Guru  Group: Members Posts: 3,159 Joined: 30-September 04 |
Nope, don't put on weight in relationships. I think the reason some girls do is because they're trying to diet and keep fit so that they can attract a guy. Once they've got the guy they're so exhausted that they just quit. I'm not like that because I don't diet or try to keep fit. The only excercise I ever get is dancing at clubs, and I enjoy that so being in a relationship doesn't stop it. As for dieting, I don't diet. I'm not obsessed with food so I don't really think about it. Apart from being vegan, for entirely non-health-related reasons, I don't give diet much thought.
This post has been edited by Nadja: Jan 4 2005, 06:03 AM |
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Jan 4 2005, 06:11 AM
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AF Pro Group: Members Posts: 1,326 Joined: 3-November 04 From: Singapore |
QUOTE (Nadja @ Jan 4 2005, 08:02 PM) Nope, don't put on weight in relationships. I think the reason some girls do is because they're trying to diet and keep fit so that they can attract a guy. Once they've got the guy they're so exhausted that they just quit. I'm not like that because I don't diet or try to keep fit. The only excercise I ever get is dancing at clubs, and I enjoy that so being in a relationship doesn't stop it. As for dieting, I don't diet. I'm not obsessed with food so I don't really think about it. Apart from being vegan, for entirely non-health-related reasons, I don't give diet much thought.  how often do u club, Nadja? |
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Jan 4 2005, 06:49 AM
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AF Pro Group: Members Posts: 1,985 Joined: 20-June 04 From: Singapore |
QUOTE (chatterbox @ Jan 4 2005, 06:03 PM) i'm so envious... i couldn't put on weight no matter how hard i try... even stuffing my self with food. all my friends tell me...just wait for the big 3. QUOTE (Nadja) Nope, don't put on weight in relationships. I think the reason some girls do is because they're trying to diet and keep fit so that they can attract a guy. Once they've got the guy they're so exhausted that they just quit. but these are the ppl who DON'T exercise at all! i have 2 friends who totally don't work out but remained slim, but when they get into a relationship/marriage, they started "ballooning", and i just go "you must be v contented & happy in the relationship." i guess the ppl who don't put on weight are the ones who retain their daily routine after attachment? This post has been edited by HikaruVenus: Jan 4 2005, 06:51 AM |
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Jan 4 2005, 06:52 AM
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AF Elite  Group: Banned Posts: 8,057 Joined: 18-August 04 |
if i was in a relationship, i'd be having lots of sex so id get plenty of exercise and be even skinnier than i am now
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Jan 4 2005, 06:56 AM
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AF Fiend Group: Banned Posts: 416 Joined: 25-December 04 |
QUOTE (DetunedRadio @ Jan 4 2005, 07:52 AM) if i was in a relationship, i'd be having lots of sex so id get plenty of exercise and be even skinnier than i am now Suuuuuuuure you would. That's a pretty big IF isn't it? |
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Jan 4 2005, 07:31 AM
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AF Geek  Group: Members Posts: 131 Joined: 30-December 04 From: Louisiana |
Metabolism, self-image and activities could all play certain roles for those who gained in their relationships. You always hear that when you get married you gain weight, but i know a lot of people who are have gained weight in relationships b/c they eat out all the time (there's a clue!).. and people who are more fit in relationships cuz they have someone to work out with. Sometimes being in a relationship does not change them at all. I guess it depends on the person and how being in a relationship affects you, as i've heard people in relationships that are not as happy and get depressed eat to feel better, therefore gain weight. Personally, being in a relationship has not changed my weight, if anything its less now.
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Jan 4 2005, 09:21 AM
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AF Pro Group: Members Posts: 2,446 Joined: 17-May 04 From: over there ---> |
my gym habits don't change just because i'm in a relationship
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Jan 4 2005, 09:40 AM
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AF Elite  Group: Members Posts: 9,480 Joined: 17-March 04 From: Atlanta |
i gained 30 lbs when i got into this relationship...only b/c whenever he visited meh we would go out to eat then go to sleep haha...and thats how i got fat...but now we go to the gym whoo hoo hehe
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Jan 4 2005, 09:43 AM
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AF Guru Group: Members Posts: 3,072 Joined: 13-July 04 From: Sex in the City |
No, Not me, I am always the same. Coz may be I work out every single day. I eat everything.
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Jan 4 2005, 09:44 AM
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AF Elite Group: Members Posts: 9,480 Joined: 17-March 04 From: Atlanta |
yea i never worked out when i was living at home...
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Jan 4 2005, 09:58 AM
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AF Pro Group: Members Posts: 1,326 Joined: 3-November 04 From: Singapore |
QUOTE (HikaruVenus @ Jan 4 2005, 08:49 PM) QUOTE (chatterbox @ Jan 4 2005, 06:03 PM) i'm so envious... i couldn't put on weight no matter how hard i try... even stuffing my self with food. all my friends tell me...just wait for the big 3. during my jc days, my teacher told us that most of the students gained weight after they graduated... i was so happy, i tot that would happen to me. But it didn't. Then, pple in their 20s told me "Oh... u will gain weight as u age". But when i'm now in my 20s, i never gain weight. Esp, after landing myself in a super high stress job, where everyone falls sick and shrinks.  Now i've got weight stunt problem. I dun think i'll gain much weight even after i reach 30 or give birth. Tatz what all my friends tell me now...
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Jan 4 2005, 10:01 AM
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AF Elite Group: Members Posts: 9,480 Joined: 17-March 04 From: Atlanta |
gurl don't worry ill donate some fat to you haha...so it'll all balance out hah..
i had a cousin like you...she is veryyyyyyyy skinny...flat on both sides ugh haha..then she got pregnant and gained like a few lbs...everybody complimented her on how she looked cuz now she finally had some meat on her bones...then after she gave birth it all went away and shes still very skinny..like a walking stick |
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Jan 4 2005, 10:21 AM
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AF Pro Group: Members Posts: 1,326 Joined: 3-November 04 From: Singapore |
QUOTE (GawtxJenny @ Jan 5 2005, 12:01 AM) gurl don't worry ill donate some fat to you haha...so it'll all balance out hah.. Everyone is hoping they could transfer some fats to me. QUOTE (GawtxJenny @ Jan 5 2005, 12:01 AM) i had a cousin like you...she is veryyyyyyyy skinny...flat on both sides ugh haha..then she got pregnant and gained like a few lbs...everybody complimented her on how she looked cuz now she finally had some meat on her bones...then after she gave birth it all went away and shes still very skinny..like a walking stick I'm very short and petite, so my thinness is still ok... at least i'm not the boney thin kind. Is B too flat for a tiny person like me? your cousin needs to give birth to another kid. My cousin-in-law was really skinny. She's skinnier than me. After her first kid, she puts on weight but slimmed down after a while. It's only after her second that she starts looking shapely. 
This post has been edited by chatterbox: Jan 4 2005, 10:22 AM |
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Jan 4 2005, 10:48 AM
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AF Fiend  Group: Members Posts: 376 Joined: 6-July 04 |
i started gainin weight like in the middle of my relationship. but i dont think its because of that orw atever. i stopped doin sports for skool this year. so yea. ha.. oh well.. as long as i dont gain too much im all good
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Jan 4 2005, 01:38 PM
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AF Elite Group: Members Posts: 5,902 Joined: 27-December 04 From: in front of my computer |
QUOTE (Nadja @ Jan 4 2005, 01:02 PM) The only excercise I ever get is dancing at clubs, and ... lol you call that exercising ?? hehehe |
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Jan 4 2005, 01:38 PM
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AF Pro Group: Members Posts: 2,446 Joined: 17-May 04 From: over there ---> |
QUOTE (hakseng @ Jan 4 2005, 03:38 PM) QUOTE (Nadja @ Jan 4 2005, 01:02 PM) The only excercise I ever get is dancing at clubs, and ... lol you call that exercising ?? hehehe it can be |
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Jan 4 2005, 01:50 PM
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AF Elite Group: Members Posts: 5,902 Joined: 27-December 04 From: in front of my computer |
well yeah when they start to poke each other , then I'll call it exercise. I LOVE IT !
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