Our mental health and self image of body, our daily struggle Options

[PeterKChan]

All our lives we been taught that Asian and black features are nasty and not the norm in US society (I am sure this is the case for other Western nations too). many of us desire a white or Latino woman because of their Caucasoid facial features. We hate and self-spit our own. Why? This is a mental illness many of us might carry to the grave.

I have had sexual relations with some extremely pretty white and Latina women ( a lot paid and some genuine love). I had to admit the sex and lust was more intense on my part. Why? Why I can only have maximum erection with women not my own race?

This is why I tell my single friends to stay away from strip clubs, hostess bars, etc. because the more interracial sex you have, the more you come to abandon your own kind and desire more of the opposite races. it is a mental addiction. It is all about lust, felt like I was trapped in a black hole for a long time.

Now I keep an open mind. My self-hate was just a temporary phase I went through. I was led astray for a long time. Be careful of our media images. It was not made for people like you and me. I long ago declined my subscription to Maxim. I was poisoned to worship not my own kind. I needed to break free from the madness.

[YourMuDoIsWeak]

Sometimes we make our own problems.

[AsiaticGlory]

All our lives we been taught that Asian and black features are nasty and not the norm in US society (I am sure this is the case for other Western nations too). many of us desire a white or Latino woman because of their Caucasoid facial features. We hate and self-spit our own. Why? This is a mental illness many of us might carry to the grave.

Funny because I think Caucasoid features are kind of boring but that could be b/c I see them everyday.

I have had sexual relations with some extremely pretty white and Latina women ( a lot paid and some genuine love). I had to admit the sex and lust was more intense on my part. Why? Why I can only have maximum erection with women not my own race?

This is why I tell my single friends to stay away from strip clubs, hostess bars, etc. because the more interracial sex you have, the more you come to abandon your own kind and desire more of the opposite races. it is a mental addiction. It is all about lust, felt like I was trapped in a black hole for a long time.

This is why people should stay as virgins until they find that special someone.

Now I keep an open mind. My self-hate was just a temporary phase I went through. I was led astray for a long time. Be careful of our media images. It was not made for people like you and me. I long ago declined my subscription to Maxim. I was poisoned to worship not my own kind. I needed to break free from the madness.

So you are coming back to Asian women?

[txoomsuab2]

virgin, where the hell u from? lol

This post has been edited by txoomsuab2: Jun 27 2011, 12:15 PM

[SemperFidelis]

There are beautiful women in all races, I see no reason to discriminate against any, whether it be your own race or another.

This is why people should stay as virgins until they find that special someone.

Why does virginity matter so much? So many people are desperate to keep it until someone special, so many people are desperate to lose it ASAP. To me, it happens when it happens, whether or not its someone special means nothing to me. Its all a mental thing that makes no sense to me. You undergo no physical changes and gain no advantages. I'm with someone special and I dont see how I could please her as well as I do if I was a virgin with no experience.

This post has been edited by SemperFidelis: Jun 27 2011, 04:14 PM

[AsiaticGlory]

virgin, where the hell u from? lol

I live in Texas. No, I don't live in Houston or Dallas where the Asians are more common.

[mastaping]

All our lives we been taught that Asian and black features are nasty and not the norm in US society (I am sure this is the case for other Western nations too). many of us desire a white or Latino woman because of their Caucasoid facial features. We hate and self-spit our own. Why? This is a mental illness many of us might carry to the grave.

I have had sexual relations with some extremely pretty white and Latina women ( a lot paid and some genuine love). I had to admit the sex and lust was more intense on my part. Why? Why I can only have maximum erection with women not my own race?

This is why I tell my single friends to stay away from strip clubs, hostess bars, etc. because the more interracial sex you have, the more you come to abandon your own kind and desire more of the opposite races. it is a mental addiction. It is all about lust, felt like I was trapped in a black hole for a long time.

Now I keep an open mind. My self-hate was just a temporary phase I went through. I was led astray for a long time. Be careful of our media images. It was not made for people like you and me. I long ago declined my subscription to Maxim. I was poisoned to worship not my own kind. I needed to break free from the madness.

I think your right.... I think I'm trying to get over the same problem... Members of the opposite sex can kind of be like a drug sometimes...

[ReginaRae]

This is strange. No where else but the Asian community does being attracted to people of other races translate into self hate. I think these guys feel snubbed when one of their own goes elsewhere for love and relationships. So they have to come up with a reason why. Why does he/she prefer a white, black, or Hispanic over an Asian? Then they come to the conclusion that oh....it must be because they hate who they are. They date outside of their race because they think Asians are ugly and they hate themselves. Following this logic, I must be extremely unhappy with who I am because my last 3 boyfriends have all been Asian.

And to think, this whole time I thought I liked them because they were considerate, attractive, intelligent and funny. But not really...It was only because I hate myself.

[KojTusMeHavnim]

This is strange. No where else but the Asian community does being attracted to people of other races translate into self hate. I think these guys feel snubbed when one of their own goes elsewhere for love and relationships. So they have to come up with a reason why. Why does he/she prefer a white, black, or Hispanic over an Asian? Then they come to the conclusion that oh....it must be because they hate who they are. They date outside of their race because they think Asians are ugly and they hate themselves. Following this logic, I must be extremely unhappy with who I am because my last 3 boyfriends have all been Asian.

And to think, this whole time I thought I liked them because they were considerate, attractive, intelligent and funny. But not really...It was only because I hate myself.

I agree with you, Regina...
Asian females who hate Asians and date other races is true to some but not all.

[scrapes]

lol i barely find anyone that isn't asian attractive.

[SacredG]

This is strange. No where else but the Asian community does being attracted to people of other races translate into self hate. I think these guys feel snubbed when one of their own goes elsewhere for love and relationships. So they have to come up with a reason why. Why does he/she prefer a white, black, or Hispanic over an Asian? Then they come to the conclusion that oh....it must be because they hate who they are. They date outside of their race because they think Asians are ugly and they hate themselves. Following this logic, I must be extremely unhappy with who I am because my last 3 boyfriends have all been Asian.

And to think, this whole time I thought I liked them because they were considerate, attractive, intelligent and funny. But not really...It was only because I hate myself.

That makes two of us. I'm in a relationship with a Latina because I find her attractive, intelligent, compassionate, sensitive, open-minded, spontaneous and witty. But the real reason she's my girlfriend is because I have a mental health problem because some dude claims he dates outside of his race stems from self-hatred, therefore that also apply to me. Come to think of it, my girlfriend probably hates herself too because she chooses to be with an Asian guy as opposed to being with a Latino... like how healthy, sane and normal Latinas should be.

All this time I thought I went for her because of attraction and of mutual interests. But no, it was because I can't accept myself.

[tangawizi]

This is why I tell my single friends to stay away from strip clubs, hostess bars, etc. because the more interracial sex you have, the more you come to abandon your own kind and desire more of the opposite races. it is a mental addiction. It is all about lust, felt like I was trapped in a black hole for a long time.

Now I keep an open mind. My self-hate was just a temporary phase I went through. I was led astray for a long time. Be careful of our media images. It was not made for people like you and me. I long ago declined my subscription to Maxim. I was poisoned to worship not my own kind. I needed to break free from the madness.

Wow, so how did u get out of the mental addiction to lust and broke free?

[AsiaticGlory]

lol i barely find anyone that isn't asian attractive.

Are you Asian?

[yiming2000]

Wow, so how did u get out of the mental addiction to lust and broke free?

He didn't say. Even if he did, it would be breaking free not from lust but
from lusting after women of other ethno-cultural brands. It is like a Chinese
smoker breaking free from Marlboro, Lucky Strike and Kent and no longer
feeling unsatisfied puffing zhongnanhai, hongtashan and Double Happiness.

[scrapes]

Are you Asian?

yeah ~____~

[Metropolitan]

All our lives we been taught that Asian and black features are nasty and not the norm in US society (I am sure this is the case for other Western nations too). many of us desire a white or Latino woman because of their Caucasoid facial features. We hate and self-spit our own. Why? This is a mental illness many of us might carry to the grave.

I have had sexual relations with some extremely pretty white and Latina women ( a lot paid and some genuine love). I had to admit the sex and lust was more intense on my part. Why? Why I can only have maximum erection with women not my own race?

This is why I tell my single friends to stay away from strip clubs, hostess bars, etc. because the more interracial sex you have, the more you come to abandon your own kind and desire more of the opposite races. it is a mental addiction. It is all about lust, felt like I was trapped in a black hole for a long time.

Now I keep an open mind. My self-hate was just a temporary phase I went through. I was led astray for a long time. Be careful of our media images. It was not made for people like you and me. I long ago declined my subscription to Maxim. I was poisoned to worship not my own kind. I needed to break free from the madness.

The source of this is called Western Imperialism or Euro-centrism. We get rid of this problem by exterminating those that impose the problem.

[Zdrav]

The source of this is called Western Imperialism or Euro-centrism. We get rid of this problem by exterminating those that impose the problem.

No we don't. We fix the problem by putting up counter-images.

[PeterKChan]

When can Asian men and Asian women really honestly say they are fine and OK with their own features, body image, etc.? We take lie detector tests right now and the results will be discouraging. A lot of the mental issue is self imposed and influenced by external racism/ridicule. We just have to fight it or live with it

[txoomsuab2]

When can Asian men and Asian women really honestly say they are fine and OK with their own features, body image, etc.? We take lie detector tests right now and the results will be discouraging. A lot of the mental issue is self imposed and influenced by external racism/ridicule. We just have to fight it or live with it

nobody is ever fine with themselves, doesn't matter if it has to do with race

[AsiaticGlory]

When can Asian men and Asian women really honestly say they are fine and OK with their own features, body image, etc.? We take lie detector tests right now and the results will be discouraging. A lot of the mental issue is self imposed and influenced by external racism/ridicule. We just have to fight it or live with it

You sure about that? Actually, I think Asians look better. Despite living in Texas away from the Asians, I still think Asian women are the epitome of female beauty. It is one of the reasons why I have an obsession with racial preservation. Although I should mention that I prefer a more intellectual woman over one that just had "t!t$ and @$$."

I think us Asian guys look good too. Sometimes I catch myself staring at the mirror. Hairy chests are actually kind of gross so I am happy that us Asian guys are not hairy. We just need more muscle but that is more of a nutrition thing.