better to married a viet girl in vietnam Options

[SoCal]

If a person is smart, he/she would look for a potential mate any where.

stop lying xixon

it is like Chung Vô Diệm being picky on her selection.

[fried]

I've acquainted other guys who are quite good-looking, come from good families, and do well in school, but I rejected their date invitations because I knew they were like what you said. They like girls first for the physical attractiveness, then personality second.

hold on a second. So basically you're implying that you're physically attractive? Sorry but please don't embarrass Vietnamese men and women (or any other Asian men and women for that matter) like that. You're average looking at best. Look at your avatar. And avatar is quite small. I'm sure you'll look way worse if we get to see a better quality and medium size picture of you because then we'll see more of the flaws you have. You cannot tell me you're physically attractive from that avatar of yours. Your face is not what physically attractive Vietnamese/Asian women look like even with a small avatar like that. Physically attractive Vietnamese/Asian women look a lot better than you. You're making Vietnamese women look bad and ugly, and you're making rich, good background Vietnamese men look bad because I'm sure you're not physically attractive to them. If you say you're physically attractive, then you're making Vietnamese women look ugly.

Let's be honest here. You look like a 12 year old anorexic boy in your picture. No one in their right mind would call you physically attractive. Average looking, maybe, but not physically attractive and definitely not hot. Now please stop embarrassing the Vietnamese/Asian community.

I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. I saw your comment yesterday but I tried to hold it in. Now I can't help it but to reply.

This post has been edited by fried: Mar 24 2011, 12:28 PM

[SoCal]

You don't need to be so mean. Let her live in her fantasy world.

hold on a second. So basically you're implying that you're physically attractive? Sorry but please don't embarrass Vietnamese men and women (or any other Asian men and women for that matter) like that. You're average looking at best. Look at your avatar. And avatar is quite small. I'm sure you'll look way worse if we get to see a better quality and medium size picture of you because then we'll see more of the flaws you have. You cannot tell me you're physically attractive from that avatar of yours. Your face is not what physically attractive Vietnamese/Asian women look like even with a small avatar like that. Physically attractive Vietnamese/Asian women look a lot better than you. You're making Vietnamese women look bad and ugly, and you're making rich, good background Vietnamese men look bad because I'm sure you're not physically attractive to them. If you say you're physically attractive, then you're making Vietnamese women look ugly.

Let's be honest here. You look like a 12 year old anorexic boy in your picture. No one in their right mind would call you physically attractive. Average looking, maybe, but not physically attractive and definitely not hot. Now please stop embarrassing the Vietnamese/Asian community.

I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. I saw your comment yesterday but I tried to hold it in. Now I can't help it but to reply.

[XigonCongchua]

LMAO These low-life bastards here are funny. First of all, I don't care whether you think I'm attractive through avatars. Second of all, I never insisted I was. And third, I don't need to lie about these sorts of things. What's the point? I merely told somebody to not use his mentality to judge the rest of the guys in this world. As for you, LeslieYeung, you need to stop patrolling Viet Chat. Aren't you supposed to be in bed having sex with your hottest whores? kekeke

[fried]

LMAO These low-life bastards here are funny. First of all, I don't care whether you think I'm attractive through avatars. Second of all, I never insisted I was. And third, I don't need to lie about these sorts of things. What's the point? I merely told somebody to not use his mentality to judge the rest of the guys in this world. As for you, LeslieYeung, you need to stop patrolling Viet Chat. Aren't you supposed to be in bed having sex with your hottest whores? kekeke

I know you didn’t say outright that you’re physically attractive. You implied it, which is even worse. You said the rich, good looking Viet men you encountered are superficial and care about physical attractiveness first. Then you said that these same Viet men asked you out on dates. Being the shallow, superficial men that they are, they must have only asked you out because you’re physically attractive. This means that you think you’re physically attractive to be able to get these superficial men to ask you out. Am I right?

I’m not saying you’re lying that these Viet men asked you out. I’m implying that those men are not as superficial and shallow as you say they are. If they are that superficial and only cared about looks, there’s no way they would’ve asked you out because you’re nowhere near to being physically attractive. You get me now? Geez.

Oh and I ain’t LeslieYeung. Would I be praising the looks of Vietnamese if I was him? If I’m LeslieYeung, I would highly praise you as a hot girl by Vietnamese standards to bring down the general attractiveness of Viet girls. Use your brain. I hate conceited people like you who have nothing to be conceited about. Please girl, you ain’t physically attractive by any Asian standard.

[XigonCongchua]

"guys who are quite good-looking, come from good families, and do well in school"

Did I say they were rich? Did I say they were Viet? LMAO Should I start mentioning the ethnicities of those guys? Why the hell are you so insecure?

And if you really like a girl for who she is, you wouldn't ask her to dinner alone after only a few days of meeting her because a few days aren't enough for you to get to know the kind of person she is. I'm not walking on the night road with any guy only to have him leave me walking that road alone in the next few weeks. I'm not sitting in any park or any restaurant with any guy knowing that he'll be gone by the next month. Sorry if I offended you, okay?

[fried]

"guys who are quite good-looking, come from good families, and do well in school"

Did I say they were rich? Did I say they were Viet? LMAO Should I start mentioning the ethnicities of those guys? Why the hell are you so insecure?

You're right. I just assumed the guys you were talking about were Viet. That was my fault, so I apologize. No I don't care the ethnicities of those men. My views stay: You're not physically attractive by any Asian standard so I can care less their ethnicities.

And if you really like a girl for who she is, you wouldn't ask her to dinner alone after only a few days of meeting her because a few days aren't enough for you to get to know the kind of person she is. I'm not walking on the night road with any guy only to have him leave me walking that road alone in the next few weeks. I'm not sitting in any park or any restaurant with any guy knowing that he'll be gone by the next month. Sorry if I offended you, okay?

That's your own thoughts about those men and I can care less. What annoyed me was that you clearly implied you're physically attractive when you're not. That was what irked me.

I agree with SoCal. Continue living in your fantasy world. I was simply here to snap you out of your delusion. This is my last post to you because I don't want to waste my time having a conversation with you.

[XigonCongchua]

That wasn't what I implied. You just took it the wrong way. I guess it's not out of ordinary here for somebody to misunderstand another person's post. I'm sorry for causing all this to you.

[asean.asia]

and if a person is not pretty and not smart. hello xixon

If a person is smart, he/she would look for a potential mate any where.

[FieryOFTheEast]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgAaRf1W3AI

[strongbad]

Vietnamese girls in viet nam think viet kieus are romantic, I can see why vietnames girls in viet nam would think viet kieus are romantic.

This post has been edited by strongbad: Mar 24 2011, 08:47 PM

[samnang]

i'm not manly enough to keep a modernized girl in line.

any girl with a shred of self-will and confidence threatens me as a man.

that's why i'm marrying some dumb and totally submissive peasant.

[2vnspirit]

I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. I saw your comment yesterday but I tried to hold it in. Now I can't help it but to reply.

- Guys ! Should NEVER critisize ANY girl's appearance in an open forum, especially it's called "AsiaFinest" , and even more "stupid" if us guys are Vietnameses flaming one another !

- Eventhough I've seen XigonCC and others gals have been openly "made fun" of us guys through poems, picx etc. , I would just 'sigh' and then move on or get along with other better topics !

[lauman]

How does that response got anything to do with the original point I talked about? Is your head full of bả đậu? Whoever you consider attractive and will marry is not in discussion here, but what I talked about was how you treat the girl you marry. You obviously won't treat her as a soulmate because if you do, you would let her freely explore and discuss about whatever she likes if that's her interest. But you don't. You obviously won't want her to place her hands into your businesses either. You just want her to bear children and take care of you. You can marry a beautiful girl with good personality and treat her with respect, let her do whatever she can as long as it doesn't bring any harm. Anyway most girls in Vietnam today have strong personality and they're always ready to place their hands into businesses that are thought to be traditionally preserved for men. Hey, this is not a new trend. Viet women in the past have often been like this. Good luck with finding a docile girl who does little besides house chores and bearing children. Such girls who pretend to be docile and please you are only after your money. Tadaa.

sorry but what are you talking about, I said that I am not interest or looking for a girl that are intelligence and like to discuss politics, so how can I not let her discuss politics or whatever she likes, when she is not interest in politics, the girl I choose

remember you change this thread to: boys want to change the girl and take control over the girl..........
but the thread is more about the girl we want or looking for is like this........because I am not going to find a smart intelligence girl and change her to a stupid girl.

and con trai always thich con gai hien lanh, not the smart 1 that are making trouble or like to fight......

[SoCal]

i'm not manly enough to keep a modernized girl in line.

any girl with a shred of self-will and confidence threatens me as a man.

that's why i'm marrying some dumb and totally submissive peasant.

Some dumb and totally submissive peasant!


You are so delusional.

[XigonCongchua]

i'm not manly enough to keep a modernized girl in line.

any girl with a shred of self-will and confidence threatens me as a man.

that's why i'm marrying some dumb and totally submissive peasant.

You're joking, right?

Anyhow, I detest men who look for submissive women as wives. They act as if women are lower than men and have to be submissive to men

sorry but what are you talking about, I said that I am not interest or looking for a girl that are intelligence and like to discuss politics, so how can I not let her discuss politics or whatever she likes, when she is not interest in politics, the girl I choose

Nói vậy còn nghe được.

remember you change this thread to: boys want to change the girl and take control over the girl..........
but the thread is more about the girl we want or looking for is like this........because I am not going to find a smart intelligence girl and change her to a stupid girl.

Vậy tại sao you muốn kiếm stupid girl? Để dễ bị you dụ hả? Để sau này you có ngược đãi con người ta thì con người ta cũng không có cách nào thoát hả?

and con trai always thich con gai hien lanh, not the smart 1 that are making trouble or like to fight......

Con trai thích cái gì thì mặc xác con trai chứ. Con gái hiện diện trên thế gian này đâu phải là để phục vụ con trai đâu mà phải chiều theo ý thích của con trai?

[SoCal]

Con trai thích cái gì thì mặc xác con trai chứ. Con gái hiện diện trên thế gian này đâu phải là để phục vụ con trai đâu mà phải chiều theo ý thích của con trai?

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This post has been edited by SoCal: Mar 25 2011, 10:18 AM

[XigonCongchua]

Vợ SoCal đâu rùi?

[strongbad]

Vietnamese girls in viet nam think viet kieus are đẹp trai giả mang and romantic.

Vợ SoCal đâu rùi?

đâu rùi? isnt it đâu rồi?

[XigonCongchua]

Dạ biết. Cố tình viết vậy mừ.

Vợ SoCal chạy đâu mất tiêu rồi nên nãy giờ SoCal hông thèm trả lời.

This post has been edited by XigonCongchua: Mar 25 2011, 10:59 AM