How to REALLY attract guys! help me out boys..., a challenge to oni-mx... Options

[blisskiss]

you read his supposition here: http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=13482

I want to challenge his "advice."

I state that girls:
1. Health is always an important thing, but that is in accordance with your own body type. guys don't all like just one thing (ie skinny girls) so why should all girls look the same? many body types are healthy.
--Make sure you are healthy, i.e. fit and as slim as u can be w/o being anorexic.
If you are fat and ugly then ur hopeless.--

2. Girls should be outgoing without being too slutty. Fashion should be attractive, if not extremely trendy. Many guys like laid back girls, and gaming girls are often attractive to guys cause its something they can easily relate with!
--Make sure u are not a prude, have great fashion sense, be stylish but not overly so like some spanish chicks who always dresses like Christina Agulillera, who looks like a whore neway. Please take time to read up and follow fashions, dont be a nerd/ game-freak.--

3. How you carry yourself is important, i agree there. girls shouldn't fake hip-swinging though. girls often naturally have a nice hip swing!
--Have great posture, walking, seating, etc. Sit straight, walk with ease and elegance, and please, loosen those hips!--

4. Confidence is very attractive. I think if a girl's personality is a strong woman, guys think that can be hot too. Having a sense of humor never hurt either.
--Be confident, but not arrogant. Nothing turns a guy off like a feminist pigs. Head-strong/ stubbornness really does multiplies ugliness, not lessens it, remember that.-- (oh, and oni? "male chauvenists aren't exactly sexy either )

5. Guys do like a girly side to a girl, but don't fake it. just let your inner girl out!
--Be a girl, i.e. feminime, girlish, shy but fun, and a bit flirtatious/ sexy. Don't be an ice block.--

6. Most guys say they like natural girls, but if there is a feature that bothers you, bring attention to the features you like. Guys will notice your good features too!
--If there's a feature u think is really hideous, i.e. your giant flary nose, or your round hippo @$$, dont hesitate to get it fixed by your local surgeon. Unlike some prudes and self-proclaimed puritans in this world, this is the new millenium, u can do whatever u want, as long as it doesnt harm anyone.--

7. Having a positive attitude will make your face glow! If you are cursed with bad skin, visit your local dermatologist, but do it for YOU! (clean and clear's morning glow moisturizer doest hurt either!)
--Make sure u have good skin, a healthy glow on your face will really help your apperance.--

8. Some guys like glasses, some don't. i really think this is a matter of preference, not rule.
--If you wear glasses, loose them and get contacts. Unless you are a supermodel, glasses will make u look dorky.--

9. Great hair doesn't mean overstyling is necessary! have it look natural and a cut that fits your face.
--Have great hair, spend time to blow dry them, curl them a bit, and color them. Nothing says sexy more than a great hair that u can toss around to tease guys.--

10. Smile! <--agreed!

In conclusion girls, look and act natural, happy, outgoing, and YOURSELF! I doubt any guys will say that these things aren't attractive.

[oni-mx]

Honestly, she just repeated pretty much what I said, just said it in a "flowery" manner.

I don't kiss @$$ or sugarcoat my words.

But thanks kiss, for reinforcing my points. Good job!

I will take that comment in a positive light. I wasn't trying to say all your points were wrong. i did agree with most of it! I just think that some of the more superficial things you said weren't necessary. Girls should be themselves as much as guys.

Don't you just love it when you approach your elders/ seniors and asked them for advice on how to make yourself more attractive, or how to make a girl like you, etc, and they answered" Just be yourself and she will like you."




I mean, can we be specific here? And try to be helpfull as supposed to be politically correct?