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what is real love
ClassicalMusic
post Apr 28 2011, 02:57 PM
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Real love is learning to love others for who they are and what they are not.
You can't change the way people look physically, you have to look and learn
to love people for who they are inside as an individual. If you say you love
a person and you try to change them than you don't really love them. Unless,
it had to do with a bad quality they had to fix.

When you love someone, you should know how to gives back to that other person
what they have given to you. If they cook for you, you should also cook for them
when you can. This is called learning how to receive and return love. It is just as
important with supporting your partner in receiving and returning. No one like to
be return with nothing.
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post Apr 28 2011, 03:07 PM
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wow that sounds terrible.

i'll stick to loveless relationships.
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post Apr 29 2011, 01:28 AM
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Real love is not giving up on someone even if they've done so to you.
Real love is looking beyond their expanding waist or short comings in life.
Real love is unconditional despite the $hitty situations it might throw you into.
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post Apr 30 2011, 05:31 PM
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Falling in love is like getting addicted to a drug. You feel very happy and excited but you also get stomachaches and diminished appetites.
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post May 1 2011, 12:00 AM
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QUOTE (Mizz_Luv3r @ Apr 29 2011, 02:28 AM) *
Real love is not giving up on someone even if they've done so to you.

Real love is unconditional despite the $hitty situations it might throw you into.

Can it be real love if only one person is in love with the other??

Real love isn't self sacrifice.
That's just stupidity and "marriage" to be put in crummy situations just for someone you thought you loved

Real love is one that supports growth for the better
Unconditional love is what mothers have for their babies

You make love sound like a dog's loyalty to his owner.
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post May 1 2011, 12:02 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0YXuq25BMVI
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post May 1 2011, 10:35 AM
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QUOTE (ClassicalMusic @ Apr 28 2011, 08:57 PM) *
Real love is learning to love others for who they are and what they are not.
You can't change the way people look physically, you have to look and learn
to love people for who they are inside as an individual. If you say you love
a person and you try to change them than you don't really love them. Unless,
it had to do with a bad quality they had to fix.

When you love someone, you should know how to gives back to that other person
what they have given to you. If they cook for you, you should also cook for them
when you can. This is called learning how to receive and return love. It is just as
important with supporting your partner in receiving and returning. No one like to
be return with nothing.


Thanks for yet another tip, Casanova
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post May 12 2011, 01:47 PM
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QUOTE (avisitor @ May 1 2011, 12:00 AM) *
Can it be real love if only one person is in love with the other??

Real love isn't self sacrifice.
That's just stupidity and "marriage" to be put in crummy situations just for someone you thought you loved

Real love is one that supports growth for the better
Unconditional love is what mothers have for their babies

You make love sound like a dog's loyalty to his owner.



Yes, real love can be one sided. It can remain when you care deeply for the welfare of someone, but self preservation demands that it remain one-sided in order to support the growth you mentioned - of both parties. It is far from ideal, but it is real love.

Unconditional love of a mother for their child is another one of those myths. Giving birth does not magically imbue a person with the ability to love, much less to love unconditionally. If it did there would be far less child abuse and abandoned infants in this world.

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post May 14 2011, 02:09 PM
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Love is that state of confusion between two people before they really get to know each other.
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post May 18 2011, 08:18 PM
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QUOTE (mya89 @ May 1 2011, 10:35 AM) *
Thanks for yet another tip, Casanova


Why do you call me Casanova, thanks for the comment though.

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post May 19 2011, 12:38 AM
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QUOTE (ClassicalMusic @ May 18 2011, 06:18 PM) *
Why do you call me Casanova, thanks for the comment though.


haha
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post Jan 17 2012, 04:01 AM
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True Love is forever... ( we usually dont want it to end right? )
True Love was always thereforever before , is here now and will always be.
True Love Is creative, artistic and full of dreams and wishes. ( Geneses) (We all have these gifts in us, because we were and are being created in his image.) )
True Love warns you when your about to get hurt.
True Love Stays around when your ashamed and left, ( We just care about our kids our moms dads, spouses)it will ask, where are you?Why are you hiding from me?
True Love Listenes and can hear even the silent crys from far far away. (Abels blood cried out to God and God heard him when Cain killed Able)( sometimes we wish that it was heard but its hard to believe anyone hears. )
True love wants you to notice them and never forget them. (Praying, Praise.)( We've all felt alone)
True Love wants you to listen .
True Love weaps and cries when you have left. ( ever broken up with a boyfriend.)
True Love will try to win you back and even give you the steps to stay and not leave.( Thats how it should be anyway, but we find ourselves lost in this world. )
True Love will hold you thru the worst storm. ( Build this ark)( Ever have to bounce back after a loved one died?)Ouch.
True Love has beautiful promises and gifts . ( The rainbow)( Hope that never lets go)
True Love Likes new beginnings.( Believe , when you fall get back up.)
True Love Is angry and weaps and is shamed when you disagree and do not love back. ( The Old Testemant)( Ever been angry because you cared?)
True Love will do anything to meet you where you are. (His forgivness and covenant thru the times. ) , (Even Leave Heaven and go to your planet and Hell)
True Love would go without and risk so much to be with you. (The life of Christ)( How far we go sometimes , thru mountains and oceans to be with someone. )
True Love would spend its whole life with you and promise you forever.
True Love has so much to teach you.
True Love is a light in the dark.( This world is lost and dark)
True Love will heal your broken heart and body .
True Love will forgive your most deepest sin.
True Love can show you so many wonders and miracles , its magic.
True Love can make you move a mountain, can make you walk on water.
True Love can get you drunk with water!
True Love will be humble and drop his stone when everyone else will throw it at someone for doing wrong.
True Love Loves your most finest precious gifts, even your precious perfumes and your hair and even knows you so much, but most of all, true love Loves You! ( Marry Magdalenes Alabaster Box)
True Love is afraid,true loves weeps and at times does not want to go thru what love must have to in order to keep Love alive! ( " Please pass this cup from me!"Jesus said as he wept.)
True Love suffers. ( Jesus at the cross)
True Love dies.
True Love rises from death. ( Jesus rose from the dead. )
True Love will never give up. ( Jesus is comming back and his spirit is here now. )








Jesus is Love .

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post Jan 17 2012, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE (avisitor @ May 1 2011, 03:00 AM) *
Can it be real love if only one person is in love with the other??

Real love isn't self sacrifice.
That's just stupidity and "marriage" to be put in crummy situations just for someone you thought you loved

Real love is one that supports growth for the better
Unconditional love is what mothers have for their babies

You make love sound like a dog's loyalty to his owner.

Bitter much? Lol

Real love, though not reciprocated at times, is still real love that you have for someone. However, what I meant about $hitty situations does not mean I am one to stick around an abusive situation or what not. I meant obstacles that we can overcome together.
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post Jan 17 2012, 02:25 PM
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one sided love = potential stalker/headcase

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post Jan 17 2012, 02:33 PM
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QUOTE (SemperFidelis @ Jan 17 2012, 04:25 PM) *
one sided love = potential stalker/headcase

Dude that's on an extreme creepy end.
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post Jan 18 2012, 03:26 PM
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Is there any other end for 1 sided love?
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It can remain when you care deeply for the welfare of someone, but self preservation demands that it remain one-sided in order to support the growth you mentioned

Love is a balanced emotional investment between 2 people. If only 1 person has feelings, there is no balance. How can the investor grow when he gets no return on his investment? He's throwing his emotions into a black hole and getting nothing out of it. Meanwhile the other person either doesnt care, enjoys the attention or or pities the investor.
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post Jan 18 2012, 05:39 PM
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QUOTE (SemperFidelis @ Jan 18 2012, 05:26 PM) *
Is there any other end for 1 sided love?

Love is a balanced emotional investment between 2 people. If only 1 person has feelings, there is no balance. How can the investor grow when he gets no return on his investment? He's throwing his emotions into a black hole and getting nothing out of it. Meanwhile the other person either doesnt care, enjoys the attention or or pities the investor.

love can be one sided without anything in return. There's a couple of people that I love to the core even if they don't feel the same. I'm happy that they're happy, and I don't obsess myself with them. Sure, we all want something in return. But that's the beauty of real love, you don't need anything in return for it. Now, this works out if you're emotionally balanced. If not, sucks for you.
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post Jan 19 2012, 06:28 AM
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in what sense do you love them? i was under the impression that this topic is about romantic love
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post Jan 19 2012, 02:07 PM
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QUOTE (SemperFidelis @ Jan 19 2012, 09:28 AM) *
in what sense do you love them? i was under the impression that this topic is about romantic love

I love these guys lol romantically. But circumstances are in the way, so we can't be together. No matter what, I still love them. I can love them and also accept why we can't be.
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post Jan 21 2012, 04:43 PM
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would you feel the same way if you were with someone? or would you instead devote that emotion to the person you are with?
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