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Our mental health and self image of body, our daily struggle
PeterKChan
post Jun 27 2011, 02:10 AM
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All our lives we been taught that Asian and black features are nasty and not the norm in US society (I am sure this is the case for other Western nations too). many of us desire a white or Latino woman because of their Caucasoid facial features. We hate and self-spit our own. Why? This is a mental illness many of us might carry to the grave.

I have had sexual relations with some extremely pretty white and Latina women ( a lot paid and some genuine love). I had to admit the sex and lust was more intense on my part. Why? Why I can only have maximum erection with women not my own race?

This is why I tell my single friends to stay away from strip clubs, hostess bars, etc. because the more interracial sex you have, the more you come to abandon your own kind and desire more of the opposite races. it is a mental addiction. It is all about lust, felt like I was trapped in a black hole for a long time.

Now I keep an open mind. My self-hate was just a temporary phase I went through. I was led astray for a long time. Be careful of our media images. It was not made for people like you and me. I long ago declined my subscription to Maxim. I was poisoned to worship not my own kind. I needed to break free from the madness.
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ReginaRae
post Jun 30 2011, 03:06 PM
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This is strange. No where else but the Asian community does being attracted to people of other races translate into self hate. I think these guys feel snubbed when one of their own goes elsewhere for love and relationships. So they have to come up with a reason why. Why does he/she prefer a white, black, or Hispanic over an Asian? Then they come to the conclusion that oh....it must be because they hate who they are. They date outside of their race because they think Asians are ugly and they hate themselves. Following this logic, I must be extremely unhappy with who I am because my last 3 boyfriends have all been Asian.

And to think, this whole time I thought I liked them because they were considerate, attractive, intelligent and funny. But not really...It was only because I hate myself.
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- PeterKChan   Our mental health and self image of body   Jun 27 2011, 02:10 AM
- - YourMuDoIsWeak   Sometimes we make our own problems.   Jun 27 2011, 02:52 AM
- - AsiaticGlory   QUOTE (PeterKChan @ Jun 27 2011, 02:10 AM...   Jun 27 2011, 04:30 AM
|- - txoomsuab2   virgin, where the hell u from? lol   Jun 27 2011, 12:15 PM
|- - SemperFidelis   There are beautiful women in all races, I see no r...   Jun 27 2011, 04:11 PM
- - AsiaticGlory   QUOTE (txoomsuab2 @ Jun 27 2011, 12:15 PM...   Jun 30 2011, 07:47 AM
- - mastaping   QUOTE (PeterKChan @ Jun 27 2011, 02:10 AM...   Jun 30 2011, 08:20 AM
- - ReginaRae   This is strange. No where else but the Asian commu...   Jun 30 2011, 03:06 PM
|- - KojTusMeHavnim   QUOTE (ReginaRae @ Jun 30 2011, 01:06 PM)...   Jun 30 2011, 04:03 PM
- - scrapes   lol i barely find anyone that isn't asian attr...   Jun 30 2011, 06:24 PM
- - SacredG   QUOTE (ReginaRae @ Jun 30 2011, 01:06 PM)...   Jun 30 2011, 11:01 PM
- - tangawizi   QUOTE (PeterKChan @ Jun 27 2011, 10:10 AM...   Jul 1 2011, 03:15 AM
|- - yiming2000   QUOTE (tangawizi @ Jul 1 2011, 03:15 AM) ...   Jul 1 2011, 11:51 AM
- - AsiaticGlory   QUOTE (scrapes @ Jun 30 2011, 06:24 PM) l...   Jul 1 2011, 04:38 AM
- - scrapes   QUOTE Are you Asian? yeah ~____~   Jul 1 2011, 06:21 PM
- - Metropolitan   QUOTE (PeterKChan @ Jun 27 2011, 03:10 AM...   Jul 1 2011, 07:43 PM
|- - Zdrav   QUOTE (Metropolitan @ Jul 1 2011, 07:43 P...   Jul 2 2011, 03:23 AM
- - PeterKChan   When can Asian men and Asian women really honestly...   Jul 2 2011, 04:43 PM
|- - txoomsuab2   QUOTE (PeterKChan @ Jul 2 2011, 05:43 PM)...   Jul 2 2011, 05:19 PM
- - AsiaticGlory   QUOTE (PeterKChan @ Jul 2 2011, 04:43 PM)...   Jul 3 2011, 03:35 AM
- - AsiaticGlory   QUOTE (scrapes @ Jul 1 2011, 06:21 PM) ye...   Jul 3 2011, 03:46 AM
|- - txoomsuab2   QUOTE (AsiaticGlory @ Jul 3 2011, 03:46 A...   Jul 3 2011, 09:19 PM
- - SemperFidelis   You can sculpt your body through nutrition and exe...   Jul 4 2011, 04:53 AM
- - mastaping   QUOTE (AsiaticGlory @ Jul 3 2011, 03:35 A...   Jul 5 2011, 09:39 AM
- - AsiaticGlory   QUOTE (SemperFidelis @ Jul 4 2011, 04:53 ...   Jul 7 2011, 03:45 AM
- - AsiaticGlory   QUOTE (mastaping @ Jul 5 2011, 09:39 AM) ...   Jul 7 2011, 03:49 AM
- - BirdFeed   QUOTE (PeterKChan @ Jun 27 2011, 06:10 PM...   Jul 11 2011, 09:18 AM
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