Our mental health and self image of body, our daily struggle Options

[PeterKChan]

All our lives we been taught that Asian and black features are nasty and not the norm in US society (I am sure this is the case for other Western nations too). many of us desire a white or Latino woman because of their Caucasoid facial features. We hate and self-spit our own. Why? This is a mental illness many of us might carry to the grave.

I have had sexual relations with some extremely pretty white and Latina women ( a lot paid and some genuine love). I had to admit the sex and lust was more intense on my part. Why? Why I can only have maximum erection with women not my own race?

This is why I tell my single friends to stay away from strip clubs, hostess bars, etc. because the more interracial sex you have, the more you come to abandon your own kind and desire more of the opposite races. it is a mental addiction. It is all about lust, felt like I was trapped in a black hole for a long time.

Now I keep an open mind. My self-hate was just a temporary phase I went through. I was led astray for a long time. Be careful of our media images. It was not made for people like you and me. I long ago declined my subscription to Maxim. I was poisoned to worship not my own kind. I needed to break free from the madness.

[ReginaRae]

This is strange. No where else but the Asian community does being attracted to people of other races translate into self hate. I think these guys feel snubbed when one of their own goes elsewhere for love and relationships. So they have to come up with a reason why. Why does he/she prefer a white, black, or Hispanic over an Asian? Then they come to the conclusion that oh....it must be because they hate who they are. They date outside of their race because they think Asians are ugly and they hate themselves. Following this logic, I must be extremely unhappy with who I am because my last 3 boyfriends have all been Asian.

And to think, this whole time I thought I liked them because they were considerate, attractive, intelligent and funny. But not really...It was only because I hate myself.