korean husband are still treat theri wives bad?, i hope korean girls have good husband. Options

[caoyatian]

korean husband are still treat their wives bad????

many of they don't respect women.
sometimes, i think their wives look like their servants.
korean husbands give many pepople bad impression.

i hope korean girls can have good husband.
but first, they should be more independent than they used to be.

This post has been edited by caoyatian: Jan 17 2005, 10:47 AM

[ksurf3rgrl]

what? That's not true (well depending on the guy), my dad treats my mom like god. Where are you getting this from. A lot of Korean guys I know are really sweet.

I don't think you should judge them as a whole, but yes there are bad husbands. But not all of them are like that. Between you know there are the "good" and the "bad" for every ethnic group, right?


hope you're not trying to start something

This post has been edited by ksurf3rgrl: Jan 17 2005, 09:40 AM

[caoyatian]

what?  That's not true (well depending on the guy), my dad treats my mom like god.  Where are you getting this from.  A lot of Korean guys I know are really sweet.

It's said that korean guys treat wives rudely and don't do hourswork,
they drink achohol until night,etc.

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

haha,your mother is a lucky lady.
but you know, U.S.A is different from Korea.

[caoyatian]

what?  That's not true (well depending on the guy), my dad treats my mom like god.  Where are you getting this from.  A lot of Korean guys I know are really sweet.

It's said that korean guys treat wives rudely and don't do hourswork,
they drink achohol until night(11:00),etc.

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

haha,your mother is a lucky lady.
but you know, U.S.A is different from Korea.

[Shanghaibabe@Tor...]

I agree, i had seen a lot of abusive Korean men, and those girls can't speak up. poor girls

first of all, I don't watch Korean movies or Series. I seen all these abusive men from my Korean neighboard, my Korean best friends and so on....

I don't like a control freak husband .

This post has been edited by Shanghaibabe@Toronto: Jan 17 2005, 09:59 AM

[ksurf3rgrl]

no.. my parents met each other growing up in Korea.. until they moved to the states in their early 30's.. then I was born.

Just because you see it on "soap operas" doesn't mean it's true, they're "acting". In real life it's like that for some guys that went through bad situations in life. But no, Korean husbands aren't like that as a "whole".. not all of them are wifebeaters. But yes there are some that are like that.

But remember it's not "just Koreans" like you're making it out to be

This post has been edited by ksurf3rgrl: Jan 17 2005, 09:56 AM

[Adwaregator]

what?  That's not true (well depending on the guy), my dad treats my mom like god.  Where are you getting this from.  A lot of Korean guys I know are really sweet.

I don't think you should judge them as a whole, but yes there are bad husbands.  But not all of them are like that.  Between you know there are the "good" and the "bad" for every ethnic group, right?


hope you're not trying to start something

It's just her usual line of questions...she's posted something like this before also.

So if I notice my chinese+viet friends moms do all the cooking, cleaning, and what not I should suspect them of abuse? I mean they parallel my parents almost exactly. Dad goes work, comes home, mom makes dinner and they watch videos the rest of the night lol. I dunno how that's a servant seeing as how almost every family parallels this situation (except the videos maybe hehe). You know non asians do the same thing??? It's amazing how koreans are always the worst. Ignorance.

hehe, my dad does dishes and vaccum and cooks (what he can...) lol. Mainly beef

This post has been edited by Adwaregator: Jan 17 2005, 10:02 AM

[Florenze]

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

Do u seriously believe everything soap dramas showed u?
As u said, that's SOAP DRAMA.
In Korea, it's still a male dominated world but most men aren't beating their wives up or something.
They may have affairs outside (very common) but they will still bring home the bacon and take care of their families.

This post has been edited by Florenze: Jan 17 2005, 09:59 AM

[ksurf3rgrl]

^

bah.. they're not korean, so how would they know, right?

see for yourself by marrying a korean guy, than judge. lol

it's pretty stupid for some people to judge and really have no experience.. but just by what they see on tv.

[caoyatian]

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

Do u seriously believe everything soap dramas showed u?
As u said, that's SOAP DRAMA.
In Korea, it's still a male dominated world but most men aren't beating their wives up or something.
They may have affairs outside (very common) but they will still bring home the bacon and take care of their families.

sometimes, soap drama can tell us national culture.

[caoyatian]

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

Do u seriously believe everything soap dramas showed u?
As u said, that's SOAP DRAMA.
In Korea, it's still a male dominated world but most men aren't beating their wives up or something.
They may have affairs outside (very common) but they will still bring home the bacon and take care of their families.

many korean guys don't do houswork, ture or not???

This post has been edited by caoyatian: Jan 17 2005, 10:04 AM

[Adwaregator]

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

Do u seriously believe everything soap dramas showed u?
As u said, that's SOAP DRAMA.
In Korea, it's still a male dominated world but most men aren't beating their wives up or something.
They may have affairs outside (very common) but they will still bring home the bacon and take care of their families.

sometimes, soap drama can tell us national culture.

hehe...you've never watched krn soaps and if you did you'd think korea is
1. Filled with people who are trying to get married but their parents don't approve cause he's not of their status
2. That every love story ends with someone dying

My dad vaccums, does light cooking, and does some light cleaning (mainly my bathroom when i'm home since he believes it's so dirty)

This post has been edited by Adwaregator: Jan 17 2005, 10:07 AM

[ksurf3rgrl]

caoyation

but still honey you don't go on believeing everything, unless your gullable. It's acting, it gives a kick to a soap opera.. making it more interesting (not really) for people to watch. Like the movies here in the states alot of violence involved, right? It's just acting.

my dad does house work all the time.. he vaccums, washes the dishes, even cooks sometimes.. does ALOT of outdoor working like what husbands do.


please stop here, you don't know.. so don't go on stressing yourself about it.

This post has been edited by ksurf3rgrl: Jan 17 2005, 10:09 AM

[caoyatian]

caoyation

but still honey you don't go on believeing everything, unless your gullable.  It's acting, it gives a kick to a soap opera.. making it more interesting for people to watch.  Like the movies here in the states alot of violence involved, right?  It's just acting.

my dad does house work all the time.. he vaccums, washes the dishes, even cooks sometimes.. does ALOT of outdoor working like what husbands do.


please stop here, you don't know.. so don't go on.

Your dad does house work all the time????????
Wow ,you have a good dad, i love guys like him~~~~~~~

[caoyatian]

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

Do u seriously believe everything soap dramas showed u?
As u said, that's SOAP DRAMA.
In Korea, it's still a male dominated world but most men aren't beating their wives up or something.
They may have affairs outside (very common) but they will still bring home the bacon and take care of their families.

sometimes, soap drama can tell us national culture.

hehe...you've never watched krn soaps and if you did you'd think korea is
1. Filled with people who are trying to get married but their parents don't approve cause he's not of their status
2. That every love story ends with someone dying

My dad vaccums, does light cooking, and does some light cleaning (mainly my bathroom when i'm home since he believes it's so dirty)

In korean soap drama, i know korean young people respect the old.
if we should not believe soap opera, maybe it's also not ture.

[lovelyfart]

some still treat their wives like $hit, i believe.

[ksurf3rgrl]

caoyation.

omg.. for every drama there are aspects that are TRUE and NOT TRUE. But the whole stereotype about korean husbands treating their wives bad isn't true. There are SOME but not as a WHOLE.. ok? You get what I'm saying?

about my dad doing the housework, yeah he does. But he's just one out of the many. I know his friends who do the same.


Next time.. don't make threads like these, unless you get married to a korean guy and experience this. But because you haven't.. you don't know. So you should.. you know.. zip your mouth.

This post has been edited by ksurf3rgrl: Jan 17 2005, 10:32 AM

[Keymaker]

It's still true to some extent. It's a culture thing that's lingered for a long time. There are changes, but it's still prevalent in Korea.

[Tomboy]

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

Do u seriously believe everything soap dramas showed u?
As u said, that's SOAP DRAMA.
In Korea, it's still a male dominated world but most men aren't beating their wives up or something.
They may have affairs outside (very common) but they will still bring home the bacon and take care of their families.

sometimes, soap drama can tell us national culture.

Oh please! Then should we all watch family matters and think every black family has no problems? We should just tune in to Full House and say every American household is perfect? Jesus, Television is television.
Do Korean men beat their wives?
Some.
Do American men beat their wives?
Some.
Do Japanese men beat their wives?
Some.
Do Chinese men beat their wives?
Some.

Jesus f-king Christ.

[Rad Raz]

An idiotic question from a dumbass.

Lock this thread.