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korean husband are still treat theri wives bad?, i hope korean girls have good husband.
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post Jan 17 2005, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:30 PM)
QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 02:53 PM)
If i were you, i would worry why as high as 70% of married mainland Chinese women have experianced physical violence(beating) by their husbands. Yeah, i read this stats at Url Ban some month ago.
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where is the source? please provide it. This source must be at least 100 years old or at least from The Qing Period, 1644 ...
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I am too lazy to search for it, as it was at about 3 months ago.

Someone posted an article about spousal abouse in mainland China with a link at Url Ban. The article was written by Taiwanese media.
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post Jan 17 2005, 02:54 PM
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you just answered yourself a question. This article wrote by Taiwanese media(I don't belive) but if it is true. then I am not supprised it wrote by Taiwanese. embarassedlaugh.gif you know the battle between China and Taiwan.

you can also come to my old high school in Toronto where the family consultation for abusive husbands for the night class for Korean women

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If i were you, i would worry why as high as 70% of married mainland Chinese women have experianced physical violence(beating) by their husbands. Yeah, i read this stats at Url Ban some month ago.
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where is the source? please provide it. This source must be at least 100 years old or at least from The Qing Period, 1644 ...
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I am too lazy to search for it, as it was at about 3 months ago.

Someone posted an article about spousal abouse in mainland China with a link at Url Ban. The article was written by Taiwanese media.
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post Jan 17 2005, 03:06 PM
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mmm hmm.. we who live very far from Toronto.. and it's ok for you to say that because you know we'll never go there.

Shanghaibabe@Toronto, so you believe the biggest country, CHINA. There are no abusive husbands that beat their wife? ok.

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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:49 PM)
you should come to Toronto. Soooooooooooooo many Korean in here who are new immigrants . very abusive. Back in my high school there is a family consultation for abusive husbands for the night class for Korean women.


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I am not living in Mainland right now. But I visit mainland China at least one a year. my husband's family is there.

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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 02:57 PM)
So far I see none of the married Chinese women being abuse by husbands. and I am Chinese too.

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caoyation calm down
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ok , i hope i can calm ~~~~~~~
and hope more guys are good ,not only korean,but also other nations.
because i 'm a girl.... i don't mean to get you so angry.
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Ok, that's good that you haven't seen chinese spousal abuse while you visit mainland China.

I haven't seen any kind of spousal abouse while i was visiting Korea. So, based on my experiance, can i dare to declare that no Korean husband beats his wife?

How funny, why would a Chinese woman care so much about how Korean men treat their women. If i were you, i would worry why as high as 70% of married mainland Chinese women have experianced physical violence(beating) by their husbands. Yeah, i read this stats at Url Ban some month ago.
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Do you reside in the mainland China? The stats are for mainland China.
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Ok, that's good that you haven't seen chinese spousal abuse while you visit mainland China.

I haven't seen any kind of spousal abouse while i was visiting Korea. So, based on my experiance, can i dare to declare that no Korean husband beats his wife?
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So, based on your experiances, there is no spousal abuse in China, yet you claim that new Korean immigrants in Torono Canada are very abusive.

Let me generalize how abusive Chinese husbands are based on my Chinese neighbor family. You should come to see and hear how often fighting going on
between my Chinese neighbor couple. You would feel ashamed of your self that your are Chinese.

Can i use my Chinese neighbor as an example to say that Chinese are very abusive toward their spouses?
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I am not saying that China does not have it. But I was saying as most and over all in general. of course there is always some bad people and good people in each country. But for some countries they are extream than the other when it comes to abusive their wives.


QUOTE (ksurf3rgrl @ Jan 17 2005, 04:06 PM)
mmm hmm.. we who live very far from Toronto.. and it's ok for you to say that because you know we'll never go there.

Shanghaibabe@Toronto, so you believe the biggest country, CHINA.  There are no abusive husbands that beat their wives?  ok.

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post Jan 17 2005, 03:15 PM
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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:54 PM)
you just answered yourself a question. This article wrote by Taiwanese media(I don't belive) but if it is true. then I am not supprised it wrote by Taiwanese. embarassedlaugh.gif  you know the battle between China and Taiwan.

you can also come to my old high school in Toronto where the family consultation for abusive husbands for the night class for Korean women

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QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 02:53 PM)
If i were you, i would worry why as high as 70% of married mainland Chinese women have experianced physical violence(beating) by their husbands. Yeah, i read this stats at Url Ban some month ago.
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where is the source? please provide it. This source must be at least 100 years old or at least from The Qing Period, 1644 ...
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I am too lazy to search for it, as it was at about 3 months ago.

Someone posted an article about spousal abouse in mainland China with a link at Url Ban. The article was written by Taiwanese media.
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Are you accusing Taiwanese media of falsefying Stats to look mainland China look bad?
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post Jan 17 2005, 03:20 PM
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Shanghaibabe@Toronto

So what country are you claiming to be the most abusive? Korea? A country 10 times smaller than China. If so, you have to be kidding me.

Btw. there is nothing positive that comes out of your mouth about Koreans or Japanese. As far as reading your posts.
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post Jan 17 2005, 03:22 PM
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QUOTE (Adwaregator @ Jan 17 2005, 10:55 AM)
QUOTE (ksurf3rgrl @ Jan 17 2005, 11:22 AM)
what?  That's not true (well depending on the guy), my dad treats my mom like god.  Where are you getting this from.  A lot of Korean guys I know are really sweet.

I don't think you should judge them as a whole, but yes there are bad husbands.  But not all of them are like that.  Between you know there are the "good" and the "bad" for every ethnic group, right?


hope you're not trying to start something icon_confused.gif
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It's just her usual line of questions...she's posted something like this before also.

So if I notice my chinese+viet friends moms do all the cooking, cleaning, and what not I should suspect them of abuse? I mean they parallel my parents almost exactly. Dad goes work, comes home, mom makes dinner and they watch videos the rest of the night lol. I dunno how that's a servant seeing as how almost every family parallels this situation (except the videos maybe hehe). You know non asians do the same thing??? It's amazing how koreans are always the worst. Ignorance.

hehe, my dad does dishes and vaccum and cooks (what he can...) lol. Mainly beef
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You know Adwaregator has point there. Tell me how many cultures in the world have the gender roles reversed? Where the men do the housework, and the women brining in money for the family.


QUOTE (caoyatian @ Jan 17 2005, 11:03 AM)
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QUOTE (caoyatian @ Jan 17 2005, 10:42 AM)
i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.
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Do u seriously believe everything soap dramas showed u?
As u said, that's SOAP DRAMA.
In Korea, it's still a male dominated world but most men aren't beating their wives up or something.
They may have affairs outside (very common) but they will still bring home the bacon and take care of their families.
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many korean guys don't do houswork, ture or not???
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Do you know what a housewife is?
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you see, if you use a common sense you can answer that question as well. There are so much fighting between these two places. I just don't want to go too deep into the politic, I am not good in politic.

It is about time, I must end here. I have to go now.


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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:54 PM)
you just answered yourself a question. This article wrote by Taiwanese media(I don't believe) but if it is true. then I am not surprised it wrote by Taiwanese. embarassedlaugh.gif  you know the battle between China and Taiwan.

you can also come to my old high school in Toronto where the family consultation for abusive husbands for the night class for Korean women

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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:30 PM)
QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 02:53 PM)
If i were you, i would worry why as high as 70% of married mainland Chinese women have experianced physical violence(beating) by their husbands. Yeah, i read this stats at Url Ban some month ago.
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where is the source? please provide it. This source must be at least 100 years old or at least from The Qing Period, 1644 ...
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I am too lazy to search for it, as it was at about 3 months ago.

Someone posted an article about spousal abouse in mainland China with a link at Url Ban. The article was written by Taiwanese media.
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Are you accusing Taiwanese media of falsefying Stats to look mainland China look bad?
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post Jan 17 2005, 03:29 PM
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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 04:23 PM)
you see, if you use a common sense you can answer that question as well. There are so much fighting between these two places. I just don't want to go too deep into the politic, I am not good in politic.

It is about time, I must end here. I have to go now.


QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 04:15 PM)
QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:54 PM)
you just answered yourself a question. This article wrote by Taiwanese media(I don't believe) but if it is true. then I am not surprised it wrote by Taiwanese. embarassedlaugh.gif  you know the battle between China and Taiwan.

you can also come to my old high school in Toronto where the family consultation for abusive husbands for the night class for Korean women

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QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 02:53 PM)
If i were you, i would worry why as high as 70% of married mainland Chinese women have experianced physical violence(beating) by their husbands. Yeah, i read this stats at Url Ban some month ago.
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where is the source? please provide it. This source must be at least 100 years old or at least from The Qing Period, 1644 ...
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I am too lazy to search for it, as it was at about 3 months ago.

Someone posted an article about spousal abouse in mainland China with a link at Url Ban. The article was written by Taiwanese media.
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Are you accusing Taiwanese media of falsefying Stats to look mainland China look bad?
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So, based on my comman sense, anything negative about mainland China from Taiwanese source is not true and is for polical propanda?
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let the Chinese males answer that question since I don't want to go into politic.

I am out for now. see you tomorrow. icon_wink.gif


QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 04:29 PM)
QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 04:23 PM)
you see, if you use a common sense you can answer that question as well. There are so much fighting between these two places. I just don't want to go too deep into the politic, I am not good in politic.

It is about time, I must end here. I have to go now.


QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 04:15 PM)
QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:54 PM)
you just answered yourself a question. This article wrote by Taiwanese media(I don't believe) but if it is true. then I am not surprised it wrote by Taiwanese. embarassedlaugh.gif  you know the battle between China and Taiwan.

you can also come to my old high school in Toronto where the family consultation for abusive husbands for the night class for Korean women

QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 03:51 PM)
QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:30 PM)
QUOTE (Gahwe @ Jan 17 2005, 02:53 PM)
If i were you, i would worry why as high as 70% of married mainland Chinese women have experianced physical violence(beating) by their husbands. Yeah, i read this stats at Url Ban some month ago.
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where is the source? please provide it. This source must be at least 100 years old or at least from The Qing Period, 1644 ...
*



I am too lazy to search for it, as it was at about 3 months ago.

Someone posted an article about spousal abouse in mainland China with a link at Url Ban. The article was written by Taiwanese media.
*


*




Are you accusing Taiwanese media of falsefying Stats to look mainland China look bad?
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So, based on my comman sense, anything negative about mainland China from Taiwanese source is not true and is for polical propanda?
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QUOTE (YManchun @ Jan 17 2005, 04:22 PM)
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QUOTE (ksurf3rgrl @ Jan 17 2005, 11:22 AM)
what?  That's not true (well depending on the guy), my dad treats my mom like god.  Where are you getting this from.  A lot of Korean guys I know are really sweet.

I don't think you should judge them as a whole, but yes there are bad husbands.  But not all of them are like that.  Between you know there are the "good" and the "bad" for every ethnic group, right?


hope you're not trying to start something icon_confused.gif
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It's just her usual line of questions...she's posted something like this before also.

So if I notice my chinese+viet friends moms do all the cooking, cleaning, and what not I should suspect them of abuse? I mean they parallel my parents almost exactly. Dad goes work, comes home, mom makes dinner and they watch videos the rest of the night lol. I dunno how that's a servant seeing as how almost every family parallels this situation (except the videos maybe hehe). You know non asians do the same thing??? It's amazing how koreans are always the worst. Ignorance.

hehe, my dad does dishes and vaccum and cooks (what he can...) lol. Mainly beef
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You know Adwaregator has point there. Tell me how many cultures in the world have the gender roles reversed? Where the men do the housework, and the women brining in money for the family.


QUOTE (caoyatian @ Jan 17 2005, 11:03 AM)
QUOTE (Florenze @ Jan 17 2005, 10:59 AM)
QUOTE (caoyatian @ Jan 17 2005, 10:42 AM)
i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.
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Do u seriously believe everything soap dramas showed u?
As u said, that's SOAP DRAMA.
In Korea, it's still a male dominated world but most men aren't beating their wives up or something.
They may have affairs outside (very common) but they will still bring home the bacon and take care of their families.
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many korean guys don't do houswork, ture or not???
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Do you know what a housewife is?
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yeah you have a point. Husband raises money to feed the family and pay the house bills. While the mom does the house work. There's nothing abusive about that. It's about equal. Just the way of living & survivng.

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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 03:36 PM)
let the Chinese males answer that question since I don't want to go into politic.

I am out for now. see you tomorrow. icon_wink.gif


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I'm sure we wouldn't mind if you just didn't come back at all. Stop the rubbernecking.
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QUOTE (caoyatian @ Jan 17 2005, 10:42 AM)
QUOTE (ksurf3rgrl @ Jan 17 2005, 10:22 AM)
what?  That's not true (well depending on the guy), my dad treats my mom like god.  Where are you getting this from.  A lot of Korean guys I know are really sweet.
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It's said that korean guys treat wives rudely and don't do hourswork,
they drink achohol until night,etc.

i get to know it from many korean soap operas, korean ladies and so on.

haha,your mother is a lucky lady.
but you know, U.S.A is different from Korea.
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Which Korean soap opera is this? I've seen a lot of Korean dramas and I haven't seen any with abusive husbands... at least I didn't see Korean men treating their wives any differently from how other Asian men (Far East Asians & Southeast Asians) treat their wives.
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I got 19 so far, you?
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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 01:09 PM)
No, no,nono.gif not all men do that. from my experiences learn from Chinese Mainland. you can find a lot and a lot of mainland Chinese men treat their wives like a Queen, and as a reverse the wives treat their husband and his mother could be like a sh!t.

QUOTE (Tomboy @ Jan 17 2005, 01:06 PM)
What's the point of your story tho? Yea, some Korean men beat their wives, use them, and act like asses but so do a lot of men.
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shanghaibabe......you can't use the relationship of men and women in shanghai to compare
shanghainese are a special case embarassedlaugh.gif
in most part of the world (including the west) its still basically the same damn thing
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NO , NOT in Shanghai. But I am even talk about the country, very country side in Hubei for example.

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No, no,nono.gif not all men do that. from my experiences learn from Chinese Mainland. you can find a lot and a lot of mainland Chinese men treat their wives like a Queen, and as a reverse the wives treat their husband and his mother could be like a sh!t.

QUOTE (Tomboy @ Jan 17 2005, 01:06 PM)
What's the point of your story tho? Yea, some Korean men beat their wives, use them, and act like asses but so do a lot of men.
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shanghaibabe......you can't use the relationship of men and women in shanghai to compare
shanghainese are a special case embarassedlaugh.gif
in most part of the world (including the west) its still basically the same damn thing
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wow this topic is on fire today. i didnt even bother reading any of it. Also im sure a majority of korean men treat their wives fine.
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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 05:50 PM)
NO , NOT in Shanghai. But I am even talk about the country, very country side in Hubei for example.

Ok I am off for now. see you tomorrow



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QUOTE (Shanghaibabe@Toronto @ Jan 17 2005, 01:09 PM)
No, no,nono.gif not all men do that. from my experiences learn from Chinese Mainland. you can find a lot and a lot of mainland Chinese men treat their wives like a Queen, and as a reverse the wives treat their husband and his mother could be like a sh!t.

QUOTE (Tomboy @ Jan 17 2005, 01:06 PM)
What's the point of your story tho? Yea, some Korean men beat their wives, use them, and act like asses but so do a lot of men.
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shanghaibabe......you can't use the relationship of men and women in shanghai to compare
shanghainese are a special case embarassedlaugh.gif
in most part of the world (including the west) its still basically the same damn thing
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You can deny it all you want, but my experience and stats tells otherwise.

Speaking of trustworthyness of media, i would rather believe Taiwanese media then Communists controlled mainland Chinese media. Remember how Sars case was initially handled and reported by the Chinese government?

You can come back for more and make an @$$ out of yourself.

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