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KAHWIN CAMPUR..., But family disagree...
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post May 29 2006, 09:32 PM
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What is your comment????
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post May 29 2006, 09:41 PM
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too bad for the family because they live under the coconut shell lah..lah..lah.
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post May 29 2006, 09:48 PM
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Intermarriage normally refers to marriage between people belonging to different religions, tribes, nationalities or ethnic backgrounds. It has also been used to mean the opposite, namely marriage within a small group.

Intermarriage can also refer to the practise of continuous marriage between a relatively small number of families. Many royal families would continually intermarry, amongst themeselves or with other royal families. Intermarriage, in this fashion, was often practised for political reasons (to consolidate power or to improve trade), as well as the fact that many royal families felt it was beneath them to marry anyone else who was not also royalty. This type of intermarriage led to inbreeding where certain physical and genetic characteristics become more prominent with each passing generation.

Although majority of Malaysian that used to marry with the same race or intra-marriage, however
perkahwinan campur (inter-marriage) is not a new social phenomenan. The interesting thing is this marriage got different reaction from different society and also something their family dont agree with it...
Do you have any comment on inter marriage within malaysian rakyats???



QUOTE(rx7boy @ May 29 2006, 06:41 PM) [snapback]1898505[/snapback]

too bad for the family because they live under the coconut shell lah..lah..lah.




rx7boy...do you have any idea how can i solve this prob??
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post May 29 2006, 10:11 PM
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^easy. if you got ALOT of money and properties. semua boleh jalan.
oh I'm only joking.. dont take me seriously. icon_smile.gif

I never jump into someone's family problem. icon_neutral.gif if the family doesnt agree. what can you do meh? if you kawin lari , tak best la dan tak berkat. icon_redface.gif
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post May 29 2006, 10:19 PM
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to me its simple...if u think that u really have made the best disicion then go ahead with it but then again u must know whatever u are about to aproach is somthing u will never regret in your life
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post May 30 2006, 12:26 AM
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Thanx guys..but u guys know what..actually i would like to make my desire come true bcoz b4 this they (my family) do not take care me at all..but now, when we saw me success in my carieer then they are trying to "campur tangan"...juz help if u could
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post May 30 2006, 08:26 AM
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depends on your family.. but i wouldn't go against my family. esp. for something as big as marriage.
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post May 30 2006, 08:37 AM
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OH YES YOU WOULD.. UNGRATEFUL BEING!
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post May 30 2006, 08:46 AM
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Well,if your family disagree you have only 2 choices.One is to somehow make your family change their mind or 2,just forget bout it.For me,family is more important than love.I dont want my parents to hate me or me unable to see them again since they are agaisnt the marriage.
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post May 30 2006, 09:02 AM
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or.... ermm... you can make a tiny banner and write down "I WONT GET MARRIED ANYMORE UNLESS WITH (your gf/bf name)!!" and tie it around your forehead everyday. make sure you both do it. wait for another 2 years. and see if your family change their mind. good luck.

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post May 30 2006, 09:12 AM
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In opinion, if my parents refuse to let me marry, i work hard, collect lots of money, marry using my own money so that no need to burden my parents. And then go back to them later, I am sure they'll eventually accept you coz they can't do anything meh.

My uncle actually did that, he married his Swiss wife and told my grandparents about their marriage later. They were OK with it, but my mom and uncle are sure that if my uncle meet my granparenst before they were married, my grandparents would have refused let them marry.
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post May 30 2006, 02:35 PM
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The question I have about ALL MARRIAGES (not just Kahwin Campur) is this :

ARE U MARRYING THE PERSON OR HIS/HER FAMIILY??? icon_neutral.gif
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post May 30 2006, 05:08 PM
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QUOTE(Aranadhel @ May 30 2006, 11:37 PM) [snapback]1900178[/snapback]

OH YES YOU WOULD.. UNGRATEFUL BEING!


shut the hell up turd face

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The question I have about ALL MARRIAGES (not just Kahwin Campur) is this :

ARE U MARRYING THE PERSON OR HIS/HER FAMIILY??? icon_neutral.gif


the family.. it's a given. unless the family lives in another state or country.
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post May 30 2006, 06:04 PM
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I agree with u Forestcat. However, AzureOfSky, im an orphan...only family members that "campur tangan"...me 2 giant bro and 2 sis
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post May 31 2006, 03:53 AM
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Hey it is about u and your love one. Why bother????

Sometimes external factor and parties will damage a relationship. Let nothing to interfere , LIFE IS SHORT 'DO' IT HARD embarassedlaugh.gif
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post May 31 2006, 04:50 AM
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Sorry to hear that vas. icon_neutral.gif

owh well,i also became anak yatim last month.My father just passed away. bawling.gif
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post May 31 2006, 07:18 AM
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sorry to hear that..
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post May 31 2006, 06:04 PM
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Doesnt matter samheisfl...AzureOfSky....im ok..dont worry...the fate is there..just accept it
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post May 31 2006, 10:06 PM
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dont listen to advice from purple. evil.
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post May 31 2006, 10:38 PM
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hehe..u r rite aranadhel
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