Money is what we all want and what we need to possess since we are in a competitive world right now. (Just knowing what and where we as "Hmong" have been.) But still why do we seek to know about one's finacial stability before any other concerns. Given a situation that doesn't concern money as much, the very first thing we think of and ask of is one's finacial stability. Especially when it's families and in our own homes. Why can't we leave such an act outside of our own homes and away from our families? I do understand that we work hard for our money and money shows how hard working a person is especially in the Hmong culture, but does that justify the rightfulness to act in such a way in your own home...with families?