Hi All on AF,

I am pleased to have joined this forum and I look forward to knowing more about it.

My topic here is related to Marriage to Indonesian girl. I have been looking for quite some time on ways to correspond with my match from Indonesia through some sites. It turned up to be a mirage.

I am an engineer, working in the industrial services business in MENA and make good income and I'm anxious to find my match from Indonesia. I'm a very romantic person, caring and loving. my friends say that I'm good looking (wow).
I am looking for a romantic, caring and sincere muslim Indo girl who would be ready to correspond with me prior to meeting her and hopefully take our relationship to a higher level.. Marriage.

The usual dating and bride sites are hawks for me....
Anyone knows how I could "safely" search for my partner to be???

Thank you all in advance.

Mitch

Hi Imitch. Welcome to AF.

First of all, why does it have to be an Indonesian Woman?Where do u come from?What's wrong with marrying a woman from ur own country?

Hallo Imitch... Welcome to AF

Yeah, Bhas rite... why indonesian woman?
Did u have a great experience with Indonesian woman?

Aduh, teh haqqy...u have such a pure heart, u're always husnudzon...I'm kinda ashamed, 'cos I'm the exact opposite, I'm always suudzon...

Which part u mean Bhas?

Hi,

I thank those who replied....

As for the question " Why Indonesian?". Well yes I have a good experience with Indonesians in general (not just females). I visited that country twice (on business) and got a very good impression on family ties and family relations. I appreciate Asian cultures and I felt at ease when discussing issues related to marriage and love relations.
The country itself is breathtaking.... Nature has done a good work there.

As for me... I am mixed blood (German, Lebano).
Does that answer your questions?

thanks again, keep it coming please!

Oh ok....
Nice to know u

Are you muslim ?
What u know about Indonesian women ?

Hallo, wie geths?
Warum suche sie keine frau im Indonesia?
Why dont you look for a woman in Indonesia?

Haqine,

Same here... I'm always pleased to get to know new people....

Yes I am Muslim.

What I know about indonesian women??? hmmmm.... I guess my list is CONFIDENTIAL.... but what the heck..

Indonesian women are:

- Smart
- Witty and joyful
- Sweet and caring
- Sincere WHEN tey truly fall in LOOOOVE
- Supportive
- understanding
and the are willing to give more than they take.... (I'm still wondering about that... afterall.. they are still women...lol)

Is my list too short??? I held back may be 3 qualities.....hehee

Imitch

Del,

Es geht mir gut... und Du?

was meinen Sie damit??? I suche doch eine Frau von Indonesian....

That's what I have been trying to say... I am searching for a life partner from Indonesia...
I guess you got confused ...right??? or is it me? you wrote: why dont you look for a woman in Indonesia?? did you not??? hehe

Thanks anyways

a yes, i meant why don't you go to Indonesia and find one yourself?
Entschuldige sie mir fur meine Deutsch, ich bin ein kasskopf.

im supposed to marry an indo girl too man!

uuuh... you're searchin for a woman on the INTERNET who you want to marry?!
don't you think that's a bad idea?
you should find someone in real life first...

Hi Mitch,

I have someone if you are really interested. She is really great and somehow pretty. She is a Javanese and currently going out with an Italian guy but she's not sure about that guy.

She 27. Interested please PM me

hi mitch my name is LaLa aka Santa. i am 21 years old currently presiding in ontario canada and originally from jakarta indonesia. i am indonesian, 5'11 in height and 215 lbs. are u interested? if u are, juz call this number (905) 6969696. my address is 9669 "Bakla Ka" street, Supot-Kawaga Ontario Canada.

liar!!!

You can try mail order brides...there's a Russian one here, a Filipino one here, a Mexican one here, a Chinese one here, a Brazilian one here, even one for Kuta Cowboys!!! Yikes!!

oh ye u wont regret me! im yummy!

I want to comment on SOME replies as follows:

- those who are making fun of this may be enjoying it but I'm not... Esp. the Ontario 96969696 number.. and the 200 pounds lady... wow what an imagination.... execuse my ignorance !

- I am not seeking a wife on the internet... but i surely want to start somewhere then if we click, travel there and meet in person if that is possible.

- Yes I want to go to Indonesia but hopefully not to post ads in the NP ... more to present myself to someone and to someone's family knowing that we talked prior to that and there are lots of things that we share

- Brides on the Internet???? Thanks but no Thanks.... I'm not that desperate...lol...... and surely I'm not that stupid.

I've met arab girls. they are almost as rough as a man. no wonder many arabs looking for a wife from the far east. SEA woman are polite and caring compare to the arab woman.

I've met arab girls too, they are not rough like a man. It's juz that their culture and behavior is more nomadic in origin, so they can be come across as rude, testy and a power play all the time. I find this kind of behavior from muslim west africans too. it's desert mentality.

Arabs are some of the most generous peoples on earth. How do u think they have partake of their oil so cheaply for so many decades until recently?

I agree with Tangawizi on most of what he said except for the "Arabs are Smart".... I don't mean Arabs are not smart... but they are not smart...
As for Malay Guy.... I had a similar feeling towards feminenity of Arab women... most are roughing to an extent..... reason why my search is somewhere else.

you can order a bride

Eva holic will be agood wife for u.....

WAHAHAHAHAHHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA! dats a good one!

LOL u know im playin with u man!

dont take it to heart!

Santoloco,

no worries.... I know when someone is kidding and when not... esp. from you Santo-Loco.... I guess in PI they say "loco loco" right?

Keep it coming Santo.... i can take ur witty replies...

they say canada has lotsa strip clubs. true?

ye thats what we say!

dont wrry wont do it to u anymore!!!

since ur serious and u want this thread seriously, u got it!



never been and never will. i guess there is!

Yes santa is quite the joker.
Luckily there are serious people, like me.

Butta, we can't arrange you a girl, you all got to do it yourself.
An internetcontact can be quite disappointing, so go for the real deal.

Santoloco... nooo... a bit fun is healthy.... i like (40%) your comments...

Del... I will never give up..... thanks for that great tip.

so wats the point of dis then?

No aranadhel, it's not completely useless as you can allways hope.

Imitch probably knows it himselves the change would be minimal, but he hoped there was a woman like this on our forum. Posting this on a forum is a bit desperate and it looks like an act of a loser, but i know he will do better in the future. ( this comment is a present from your ''direct-to-the-point'' Dutch neighbour, my German friend)
But even then, the woman they proving to be, could be an hairy fat man in his late 60's looking for some male attention, like Tangawizi. So watch out with it.

WAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAHAAH!

but if you want an indonesian girl then im sure a lot of indonesian girls will be flattered by your interest. indonesian girls are very humble compared to arab girls etc. I can see why you like them. Just please dont hurt them. my dad told me something

o?...

40%? whats wrong with the 60% left?

ur like new to this site, how would u know my posts?

guess he aint as new as you thought :b

I have 5 female friends who married to an arab man. 4 of them already divorce. ask why? they say their former arab husbands treat them like a trash.

you all are right to an extent:

- What's the point in posting this?: Asia Finest / Indonesian chat, so I thought, may have given me some guidelines / directions on DECENT chat sites where one could safely meet Indo singles. Whether that happens or not, i'm glad joining Asia finest and chatting with you guys.
- My intentions for an Indonesian women are very straight forward. I like and respect them and will honor my relation with the ONE. Divorce is a result..... that's why I'm not looking for a hot sexy Indo women who is hollow inside.... but one (asian beauty is very much OK) with whom i can be at ease and be myself and build a lasting partnership.

Bandung: thank you... I'm flattered too... as for the hurting thing..... I'm not like that and never will be... I'm very peaceful and caring....

Santoloco: you're right... I'm New here but I sensed your wittiness.... the 60% arein the 215 pounds... that mean the 40% are somewhere around 140 pounds... good no??? lol

Del: first part of your reply is correct... it was a long shot but it was worth it... I'm not a loser... but may be a perfectionist... so bare with me all..

I think if u want to start a good relationship with all of us, sincerity and honesty are the way to go. You can start with telling us how old are you, what is your occupation, what are u looking for in a woman (occupation, age, height, B/W/H, etc), ur plans for ur future wife, etc..
Who knows, maybe we can help u out!

where in the world are you from?

Bhaskara,

I thought I did introduce myself in my posting.... anyhow...

I'm 44 yo, Engineer Academ, work in industrial systems field... i'm Exec Dir in the company and love my work. I'm 5'9, 174 lbs, white complexions, dark brown hair, green eyes, multilingual. My friends say i'm not bad looking, soft spoken, good personality, understanding.. I believe them...lol.

My match: 5'1-5'3, speaks english.. not necessarily fluent but can communicate... joyful, likes travelling, an in and outdoor person, Muslim ....

I was advised by a member to visit Indonesia for 2-3 month and seek friendships which might lead to meeting my match. i can make a visit for 4-5 weeks not more due to my work. During the visit I could follow that advise and hope for the best.

my future plans if I find HER.... get engaged as per indonesian culture and habbits, know eachother better, hopefully then get married.... live together abroad.... arrange for a set up in indonesia to make her and her family feel comfortable with the future....

That's it.

I see. How about her age?her education?her occupation?her hobby, maybe?

It is hard to seek a wife from the internet. But maybe if u make friends here, they could introduce u to their relatives matching ur category. Who knows

Aranadel, sorry I missed replying to your question. I'm a mixed Blood German-Lebano male. I'm working for a US co in MENA region.

Bhaskara, Age? I'd rather not refine it in age.... as long she is mature. Education: I'm not familiar with Indonesia Edu system, but if she's somehow educated then I dont mind... if she is highly educated then great. Occupation: anything.. that's not my worry... no occupation / jobless is ok. Hobbies? finding me...hehehe... I told you b4, travelling is one.... in / outdoor activities, hi-tech staff like PCs Cell Ph.... movies, swimming.... I can adapt easily.

lots of decent singles use internet to start a relation... I'm just trying... may be I get lucky.... if not then travelling there is in my plans.

dude, Indonesia has a pop. of 250 mil & rising. out of that Im guessing half or more are women. from that around lets say 5 mil who are eligible to be your soon be to gf/wife. Good luck!

Is it that hard to go to a bar?

Why not German or Lebanese girls? Are they rough?

You're gonna make cute babies! Trust me Arab-Indo mixes are just the hottest people here...

gimme an example?

Haha, sorry Imitch, i said it only looks likes, not that you are.
So yeah, you should really visit Indonesia, it's ten and a half times better.
You will also have a better story to tell if someone asks you: ''how did you two met?'' ..I posted on a forum that i wanted a woman. Then the question-demand thing happened, o i had a reply. I flew her over to my country, but because we didn't had enough money to fly her back home we decided to marry and..........Not a good story.