QUOTE(ThePicsGuy @ Apr 8 2007, 05:00 PM) [snapback]2851715[/snapback]
God bless you. You will probably die virgin. Young women love fun you know.
well..you think I just made up the story? Seriously, I am going to make a move. so I ask questions.
Okay okay fine. I'll be helpful, for once...
First of DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT try and say something to her in Japanese. No matter who tells you what to say, don't say it. Japanese is a VERY contextual language and chances are whatever you'll come up with will sound wrong and awkward.
DO however look for signs. Check to see if she's concentrating on you when you're talking, not on what you're talking about. See if she's playing with her or fiddling with something while looking at you. Check how often she looks away from you. Best way to assess her interest is from the level of eye contact.
Talk to her about American culture. Tell her about what you do for fun, what your friends do, make stuff up if you have to, but DO NOT DO ANYTHING EMO. Chances are she probably doesn't give a flying fvck about Chinese-American culture even if she says she does (that's out of politeness).
Then if she's making eye contact, playing with her hair (if she has long hair, duh), ask her if she wants to meet you for dinner (AND YOU MUST PAY, going Dutch is not cool in Asia). Pick an EXPENSIVE, EUROPEAN STYLED restaurant.
Then, since you two are on a date officially, flirt.
3 easy steps to flirting even if you're fugly like me:
Maintain eye contact.
Compliments! Compliment things about her that other people might not notice. So if she has Xian sized racks don't compliment her racks. However if she has small beady eyes, says she has beautiful eyes and that they're practically hypnotizing you, or something cheesy like that (Asian girls can stand a little more cheese so lines like that are not too of the wall).
Then, after a few dates, ask her to come over, and that's that.