I am only observing, this is not the problem in my relationship, but I am observing other relationships.



If a girl insists on being b!tchy, what can a guy do to keep her under control? Modern society will not allow a guy to do much, because it's perceived as "abusive."


Talk quietly and firmly to her? Uh, I haven't seen it go very far. What can you do? No physical violence (only a cad would raise his hand to a lady,) and threatening isn't nice, and doesn't work either. Withhold stuff from her? I don't like that.

b!tchy? elaborate...
flirting or f*cking other guys?

leave her

Well first thing is to never take $hit from women.

You punish her by being indifferent to her for awhile. Say you got into an argument.

Girl: *b!tches about why she sucks at life*
You: You know what this is a stupid argument. I'm done with this if you want to go on then you can do it alone in the corner.

Now walk home or whatever. Don't call her until she calls you again. Don't give her any emotional reactions just be indifferent.

Yes, it looks like she won but who's really in control? Of course it's you, you're the one that stopped it. This is like child training they do good you reward them, when they do bad it's punishment.

The bolded is an example of punishment.

run away ><

Sit her arse down. You don't have to hit her, but be forceful with your voice.

I don't think whatever u try will ever keep her under control since she probably doesn't give a $hit about what u and what u will think of her in the first place.If I want to make a good impression on a certain guy,I won't act b!tchy whenever he is around.

OK, thanks. But what if there's a situation in which you can't "walk away" as a way of disciplining her?

And some forms of b!tchiness require active involvement, not "passive walking-away."


Finally, I'm not sure that withdrawing is the way to handle things.

^ Be firm with her. If you had a friend who was being a b!tch, you'd tell him to knock it off wouldn't you?

Sounds good. Talk firmly but quietly.


The proposal of "withdrawing and walking away" sounds more like a bad idea than a good one. I think a guy should get more involved (talking more connectedly with his girl), rather than less involved (walking away.)

In all honesty, if you let her talk down to you and you become soft to her, then she'll find you less attractive. She has to respect you otherwise her behavior will get worse. Just be firm and adamant.

If a man start barking orders at me he's likely to get a door in his face. Seriously NO.


But then I'm a stubborn cow....XD

A light slap?

then you're an @$$hole

I like the idea of slapping.

Slap her butt.

put downs.....or a good fu-king.......

As for the former.....I think that "well-meaning put downs" are appropriate. Harmful or belittling put downs are bad, but firmly and meaningfully putting someone in the proper place are good.


As for the latter......if you force it on her, you might get charged with date rape or something.

Yes, slap her butt. Or give her a spanking.

show her whos boss and lay down the law

b!tchy in what sense?

slap the living sh!t out of them.

diss threaddd LMAO

A good back hand.

"How to keep a b!tchy girl under control?"

with your joystick - you can use it to satisfy and it can serve as punishment *whip*~*slap*

Yeah, use the cat.

Argue to the point of make up sex

You people are all mysognistic bastards

I like sassy plucky girls you can slap me any time ^_^

I'm a b!tchy girl most times, and if you slap me when I'm being b!tchy towards you, I'd probably take a bat and hit you with it. Then I'd leave you.

If you just walk away from me, then I'd figure that you can't handle me at all. And then I won't talk to you anymore. So basically I leave you.

If you try to talk calmly with me when I'm b!tchy, I'd probably be understanding about it and calm down.... IF I'm not in too much of a bad mood.

The only way to deal with b!tchy girls is to give in to them. You read it right. Some of the guys in here might bash me for saying this, but I'm just being honest. Basically be sweet to her. She'll appreciate it later and love you more. It worked for me. But don't forget that there are just some cold-hearted b!tches out there who will never appreciate what a good guy does for her.

But seriously, if you just want to be sweet to her because you want to see how much you can get her to love you, then you can go to hell.

Wrong...

Do whatever you want mister.

That would relegate you to "push over" status.

Cool

*slap!*

So guys should just let a b!tchy girl run roughshod all over them?

Imagine how this would sound if it were the other way around:


How to deal with guys who are jerks:


"The only way to deal with guys who are jerks is to give in to them. Basically be sweet to him and give him whatever he wants."


Nobody would buy that, so why should we think that the proper thing to do with b!tchy girls is to give in to them?

What the hell? You guys don't know anything. Nevermind, I'll let you all figure it out for yourself.

yourgrl, they don't know anything about YOU

I think i missed the part about the chick being a b!tch and in a mood that the guy cant do anything right unless he can read her mind, and even then its not good enough.

I think the chick needs to grow up and change that off putting personality trait as it does no one any good and expecting a man to work around your flaw and leaving him because you are the one at fault who puts no effort in to not being an @$$....... thats fu-ked up



if your chick is a b!tch, and you just got into a relationship. walk away and let her grow up in her own time where she doesnt have the mindset to be so controlling or negative... now if she is hot.... tap that then run away

Haven't you seen the movie "My Sassy Girl"? I guess you can say that I'm kinda like her.

Yourgrl, movies are typically unrealistic. A relationship may not work out "happily ever after" it does in movies, and a b!tchy girl may not find guys who are so accommodating in real life. In real life, a b!tchy girl may be considered hostile and demanding, rather than cute.



By the way, Jeon Ji Hyun is one of my favorite actresses.

Red Fox Ace, I know reality is definitely not like in the movies. I'm just saying that I'm kinda like her. Besides, hopefully you don't misunderstand that I'm being b!tchy for no reason. When I'm b!tchy, it's usually when the guy does something to piss me off or if something else makes me angry. Other than that, I'm pretty nice. And one more thing, I don't believe in "happily ever after".

Oh, definitely. I’m not accusing you of being b!tchy for no reason – I think that the vast majority of girls are also not b!tchy unless it’s for good cause. And guys definitely have their share of problems, which is why guys need to learn to communicate with girls and to examine themselves for flaws.


And I’m glad you spoke your mind on this forum, even though most people (including me) rather disagreed with you. Speak whatever's on your mind, we appreciate it.

If you can't handle the heat, take your hand off her snatch.

yes.

If my friends were ever b!tchy towards me for no reason, I'd just choke them out.

First find out why she is that way. Did you do something wrong? If she is always like that, then I think its best to end it, unless you think she has something really special to offer. There is no way that you can change a person, unless they willingly want to change.

break up with her, she is only being a b!tchy cuz she knows she got u WHOOPED.


leave her for no reason just say lets break up and let her think over why you would leave. if she just lets u go just like that without even asking you why u did it later on after she thinks about it then she obviously really did have u whooped like a dog and never felt a thing towards u so its best off thsi way anyways.

and hitting a lady is wrong, but a b!tchy girl is no lady. its a dog. rolled up news papers man.

How to keep a b!tchy girl under control?

Look hot. (if you're ugly then it's just too bad)
Don't act b!tchy yourself. (There's nothing a b!tchy girl hates more than a b!tchy guy.)
Be smarter than her. (Even b!tchy girls have a soft side. If you're smart enough you'll bring out her good side.)

wow great advice... "look hot"