QUOTE(PeasantYi @ May 22 2007, 05:46 PM)

Few years ago, the white guy who was found to put semen in drinks of asian women had a wife who was asian.
Asian women who date white guys are either sellouts, disgrace to their korean roots or are too white or white washed. That is all.
i don't know to what extend it is True in Your country whether it is an Asian country or USA...
are you a sell out too because you live in USA?? or any foreign country ?? don't you have no Shame at all to say what you said !!
oups sorry i just get a little angry and feel harmed by what you just said, so let me apologies and let me explain something...
I am white and i date my gf who IS french but come from Asian background, China in her case. Never in my life i would treat her badly, never i my life i belittle her or use any racist comment wherever we argued together, we stayed 8 year together, we are still friend, and i like a lot her parents and they like me too .
I respect her much and i respect anybody, or i try my best too. i would never abuse a women, whatever her origine or skin color. are you some kind of religious fanatic who believe in the White Devil ?
there are good people in "White" race, in "Black" race and in "Yellow" race... and they are Evil people too in all those race. if you don't want to mix that your own problem and i don't think anyone ask you to...
but whether you state that some asian girl are too ashamed by not being virgin anymore and have to marry the white raper because of her asian culture.
This is belittleling Asian Woman, do you Mister Male think Asian women are just b!tch or sellout that they have no pride or can't be able to make a decision by themself ?? that if an Asian woman choose someone who is not Asian she is stupid, manipulated or "White", what the fu-k does it mean white?? if you can stand white maybe you better leave USA and find a reclused Asian country where there is no tourism and no mixing, of course hating white isn't racism, everyone know that only white people are raciste it is in their genes...
Asian are so superior that they don't need to be racist, how can an Asian women not be able to understand that she belong to a suprior race and that date a white is a shame for her , and her superior culture... i really don't understand, maybe you are true, maybe they really are stupid.....
for myself i don't give a fu-k about color, but it is true that culture Is important, and respect Is very important too.
it is hard to live with someone who has no culture and no respect But it is really possible to live with someone who has a different culture and respect.
PS: now that i cleared this point. I totally agree that no one should belittle his own culture or the people who share his own culture as well as people who share other culture too. respect yourself, respect your parents, respect others, respect difference.... the only important thing is mutual respect.
if she doesn't respect herself or other people (whether asian or not) she then isn't worth me defending her. i just feel sorry for her.....