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simplemind
So everyone knows that girls tend to like taller guys.

But, for girls, do you also have an age preference? and why?

My crazy 20 cousin is seriously dating a 19 yr old boy, and her family is planning to disown her at any time now embarassedlaugh.gif
riversouth
i don't see a problem with older girls dating younger guys. is it?

if you like each other, age/race/religion should not be a factor.

then again, i date anything that can walk. laugh.gif
simplemind
i think it has something to do with the ASIAN FAMILY

like girls are NOT SUPPOSE to be superior than guys .... so in marriage, the husband must be older
rizzacusi
i had a boyfriend two years younger than me....
that was ok.. though i thought (at first) that he was only one year younger... i later discovered (when we broke up) that he was two years younger...
lovidentity
I'm a girl and would NEVER date a guy younger than me...in fact, I wouldn't even date one my own age b/c guys are just too immature, and I don't want to end up babysitting. icon_wink.gif I usually go for guys 3-5 yrs older than me.
simplemind
personally though .... I prefer OLDER guys

10 years is my maximum (he has to be good looking to be this extreme though) embarassedlaugh.gif
riversouth
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 14 2007, 11:01 PM) [snapback]2944994[/snapback]
i think it has something to do with the ASIAN FAMILY

like girls are NOT SUPPOSE to be superior than guys .... so in marriage, the husband must be older

are you asian?

i think so.

simplemind
QUOTE(lovidentity @ May 14 2007, 11:03 PM) [snapback]2945000[/snapback]
I'm a girl and would NEVER date a guy younger than me...in fact, I wouldn't even date one my own age b/c guys are just too immature, and I don't want to end up babysitting. icon_wink.gif I usually go for guys 3-5 yrs older than me.

high fives*

we are on the same boat ...... the boat with the title "ppl with daddy complex" embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif
Red Fox Ace
I'm not sure where I stand on this.

I'm more traditional, and would realistically go for a girl who is 1-2 years younger than me. Yet, a part of me is somehow attracted to the idea of going for a girl who's older than me. Or maybe a girl who would be quite a bit younger than me - i.e., I would be maybe 8-10 years older (I'd maybe be 30+ years old by then, and she'd be in her early/mid-20's.)


For reference, I am 19 years old right now.
simplemind
QUOTE(riversouth @ May 14 2007, 11:04 PM) [snapback]2945002[/snapback]
are you asian?

i think so.


yep shifty.gif
simplemind
QUOTE(Red Fox Ace @ May 14 2007, 11:06 PM) [snapback]2945010[/snapback]
I'm not sure where I stand on this.

I'm more traditional, and would realistically go for a girl who is 1-2 years younger than me. Yet, a part of me is somehow attracted to the idea of going for a girl who's older than me. Or maybe a girl who would be quite a bit younger than me - i.e., I would be maybe 8-10 years older (I'd maybe be 30+ years old by then, and she'd be in her early/mid-20's.)
For reference, I am 19 years old right now.


embarassedlaugh.gif are you looking for a mother figure?
Red Fox Ace
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 14 2007, 11:08 PM) [snapback]2945018[/snapback]
embarassedlaugh.gif are you looking for a mother figure?


No, I said I'm looking for a younger girl.
lovidentity
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 15 2007, 12:05 AM) [snapback]2945006[/snapback]
high fives*

we are on the same boat ...... the boat with the title "ppl with daddy complex" embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif


haha beerchug.gif, but shhhh~ someone will try to offer us therapy icon_wink.gif
Red Fox Ace
QUOTE(lovidentity @ May 14 2007, 11:26 PM) [snapback]2945055[/snapback]
haha beerchug.gif, but shhhh~ someone will try to offer us therapy icon_wink.gif



I'm jumping on the daddy complex boat too. embarassedlaugh.gif
Takashi
I prefer older women.
AJLee613
lol seriously? im a guy and i find girls my own age and even older girls too immature. they think like little kids still believe fairytails come true so when u do somthing amazing for them they are like omg im in love.

when i hit 23 or so it'll probably be alright.

most guys are probably hella stupid too but since im not gay i wouldn't pay attention. im just sayin girls aint that much better.

3 years younger is the max for a girl. and older girls even tho sometimes there have been girls 2 eyars older who were attracted and ppl said we could make it together, usualy they say guys even at that age are hella stupid and they dont want someone too old but i had to grow up way to fast when i was young and it hurt a lot but it sorta pays off later not being so damn ignorant.

i wouldn't go wit agirl more then a year older then me tho. dates are fine i've gone on dates with girls as much as 4 years older then me and we had a fun time but u kno i wouldn't call them back.

age shouldn't matter but hey no ones perfect haha
riversouth
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 14 2007, 11:07 PM) [snapback]2945013[/snapback]
yep shifty.gif

nothing, just a typical asian girls.

i notice white girl don't care about age that much.

personal opinion, age is just a number. shrug.gif
simplemind
yea I know, but it just ticks me off when I know that I have a bit more life experience than him

which comes to the question such as ... How can you take care of me (the girl) when you're younger than me?
Takashi
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 15 2007, 06:14 AM) [snapback]2945145[/snapback]
yea I know, but it just ticks me off when I know that I have a bit more life experience than him

which comes to the question such as ... How can you take care of me (the girl) when you're younger than me?

Take care of you in what sense?
riversouth
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 15 2007, 12:14 AM) [snapback]2945145[/snapback]
yea I know, but it just ticks me off when I know that I have a bit more life experience than him

which comes to the question such as ... How can you take care of me (the girl) when you're younger than me?

it all comes down to $$$ again embarassedlaugh.gif
simplemind
QUOTE(riversouth @ May 15 2007, 12:17 AM) [snapback]2945151[/snapback]
it all comes down to $$$ again embarassedlaugh.gif


LOL embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif

well YES

but also what about MENTALLY, and PHYSICALLY
riversouth
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 15 2007, 12:26 AM) [snapback]2945161[/snapback]
LOL embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif

well YES

but also what about MENTALLY, and PHYSICALLY

mentally, guys know how to protect himself/s.o. at the age of 14.

physically, 14 years guy is stronger than an 18 years old girl.

what is there to worry about? nothing! icon_smile.gif
simplemind
how about mentally as in .... how can you comfort me I'm bawling my eyes out? .... I think younger guys don't now how to deal with this ... they sneak away
AJLee613
let me tell u u can die of old age without ever growing up.

the age of the mind and the age of the body is completly different.
Looter
My girlfriend's 20 and I'm 19 shrug.gif
riversouth
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 15 2007, 12:38 AM) [snapback]2945169[/snapback]
how about mentally as in .... how can you comfort me I'm bawling my eyes out? .... I think younger guys don't now how to deal with this ... they sneak away

give your shoulder to her and say 'everything will be all right'

c'com bring it, i can counterattack any scenerio you throwing at me embarassedlaugh.gif
AJLee613
it really depends why u were crying, if it was somthing actualy serious then i'd really show wat it means to be happy even if its just for a little while. there re a lot of things ppl can do to be extreamly happy, but usualy the feeling fades as time goes on.

i wont give away the secrets of the game, but let me tell u i've made girls jump with joy after a parent died. anything is possible.

its not easy. it takes years to learn the ways
riceshotey
the guy must be at least 2 years younger and prombley 5 years older.
Takashi
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 15 2007, 06:38 AM) [snapback]2945169[/snapback]
how about mentally as in .... how can you comfort me I'm bawling my eyes out? .... I think younger guys don't now how to deal with this ... they sneak away

And this is why I don't date younger women, they come out with some of the stupidest $hit.
simplemind
QUOTE(Takashi @ May 15 2007, 11:40 AM) [snapback]2945846[/snapback]
And this is why I don't date younger women, they come out with some of the stupidest $hit.


for you, it might be,

for some guys, it's the reason why they date younger girls.
EmeraldFlame
another repeat thread :/
theng
18---------31 years old
ham_let
17/2=8.5
8.5+7=15.5

lol. 15.5 is the loweat i'd go.
Meine Ehre heißt Treue
the younger the better, older then 12 is a prerequisite though.
YoungOne
I have a range of 10 years. 2 years younger (usually 5, but I don't wanna go to jail) and 8 years older (usually 5 too, but gotta fill out the 10 years). Right now I'd to the younger range if I was really desperate, but in 5 years or so it might be normal.
HanulSky
One year younger is good for me.

As for older up to 8 years. But I prefer 4-5 years older.
Takashi
QUOTE(simplemind @ May 15 2007, 06:32 PM) [snapback]2945904[/snapback]
for you, it might be,

for some guys, it's the reason why they date younger girls.

Stupidity is a reason to date someone? icon_rolleyes.gif

Only to those that are stupid embarassedlaugh.gif
Disco Gestapo
I don't have a huge age preference anymore, I used to though. Now I say that as long as I'm attracted it doesn't matter. Of course, I tend to not to be attracted to people over their 40's or under their 20's (there are exceptions, but generally not) so I guess I still have preferences. shrug.gif
winterman
QUOTE(lovidentity @ May 14 2007, 11:03 PM) [snapback]2945000[/snapback]
I'm a girl and would NEVER date a guy younger than me...in fact, I wouldn't even date one my own age b/c guys are just too immature, and I don't want to end up babysitting. icon_wink.gif I usually go for guys 3-5 yrs older than me.


i like going for a girl 5 - 12 yrs younger than me.
As a guy grows older, he is more likely to date younger girls,
the younger the better
Takashi
QUOTE(winterman @ May 16 2007, 07:50 AM) [snapback]2947173[/snapback]
As a guy grows older, he is more likely to date younger girls,
the younger the better

Only after a certain point.
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