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barbarian
Simple question.
To Malays: Do you hate other ethnics in Malaysia? If answer is yes, why?
To Chinese/Indians: Same question above.

Let's be open. Be yourself and talk frankly.
Ringo
I dont think the Malays hate the chinese and the chinese or indians hate the malays. Ive been to Malaysia and it seems everyone is togethere as 1 .

During Hari Raya The chinese and indians visited their malays friends homes

and this goes to to chinese and indians festival they all go to each other houses.

But in other countries yes i think there have been some race war . But not Malaysia
Ringo
I dont think the Malays hate the chinese and the chinese or indians hate the malays. Ive been to Malaysia and it seems everyone is togethere as 1 .

During Hari Raya The chinese and indians visited their malays friends homes

and this goes to to chinese and indians festival they all go to each other houses.

But in other countries yes i think there have been some race war . But not Malaysia
Shirui
I don't hate them.I just think that I(along with other Chinese)deserve to be treated equally.And there were times I looked down on those Mat Rempits or poor Malay families with many kids.Stop breeding
fadlee
i hate people because of their behaviour not because of their race..

QUOTE(Shirui @ Dec 25 2007, 12:52 AM) *
I looked down on those Mat Rempits or poor Malay families with many kids.Stop breeding

u r damn arrogant.. u cant live with people with such attitudes..
Shirui
QUOTE(fadlee @ Dec 25 2007, 08:40 PM) *
u r damn arrogant.. u cant live with people with such attitudes..

Trying to lecture me?Who do u think u are?Has anyone ever told u how ugly u looked in your avatar?
fadlee
QUOTE(Shirui @ Dec 26 2007, 12:14 AM) *
Trying to lecture me?Who do u think u are?Has anyone ever told u how ugly u looked in your avatar?

im ur mommy u d!ckhead!! awww is that the best u cud say from that genius brain of yours? hahaha
to be honest, ure not worth mentioning..
youre just a lonely kid who feels left out from society and in need of attention..
some advice from me.. be friendly and just be confidence of how fuking ugly u look like.. hahahahaha
Shirui
learn how to type properly before trying to talk to me again


fadlee
QUOTE(Shirui @ Dec 26 2007, 12:59 AM) *
learn how to type properly before trying to talk to me again

oh well i kept on replying on such stupid comments by stupid ppl.. just fuk off n die icon_smile.gif looser..
Suijen
Yes I do despise the Malays.
Mid-Night_Sun
hmm, on a personal level, i dont think i know any, therefore no opinion. on a...Chinese level i dont think they are worth thinkin about anyway. although i do know they did some fuked up shyt cuz they couldnt play on the Chinese immigrants level. so i guess if i had any opinion it would be more on the negative side.
Mr. Tree
I dont actually hate the Malays, but i do fu-ken hate what they did in the past and do hold a grudge with those that did those things and support it; that said, mostly against the indonesians.
swingdoctor
QUOTE(Shirui @ Dec 24 2007, 11:52 AM) *
I don't hate them.I just think that I(along with other Chinese)deserve to be treated equally.And there were times I looked down on those Mat Rempits or poor Malay families with many kids.Stop breeding

Why do you look down on them? Why are you better then they are?
FryCrab
Dear barbarian,

You started this thread but I don't see your opinion. You kept asking people why, what and how and I see you as someone who is holding a fan and is trying to fan a fire.

So, quit fanning and trying to be a smart @$$. You want frank opinions, this is mine of you.
Shirui
QUOTE(Suijen @ Dec 26 2007, 03:25 AM) *
Yes I do despise the Malays.

Bob,I heard that Malay girls have the tightest pussies *wink* *wink* laugh.gif

QUOTE(swingdoctor @ Dec 27 2007, 05:17 AM) *
Why do you look down on them? Why are you better then they are?

Mat Rempits - They are a waste of space.Their existence is an excruciating embarrassment to this country.I don't think I need to do anymore elaboration on the reasons why I look down on them. laugh.gif

Malay families with many kids - Seeing how they struggle to cope with poverty and how bad their living conditions are they shouldn't have given birth to so many kids knowing that they can't provide the best for their kids.Kids that grow up in bad neighbourhoods with inadequate love,education and poor parenting leads to social problems later.
Well my parents provided the best education for me and my siblings.I am blessed with their unconditional love.I am productive and will contribute to this society one day.I know what birth control and contraception are.I am just that condescending laugh.gif
Adalah
QUOTE(Shirui @ Dec 26 2007, 09:09 PM) *
Malay families with many kids - Seeing how they struggle to cope with poverty and how bad their living conditions are they shouldn't have given birth to so many kids knowing that they can't provide the best for their kids.Kids that grow up in bad neighbourhoods with inadequate love,education and poor parenting leads to social problems later.
Well my parents provided the best education for me and my siblings.I am blessed with their unconditional love.I am productive and will contribute to this society one day.I know what birth control and contraception are.I am just that condescending laugh.gif


I think it's quite harsh to blame Malay family for having many kids, thus contributing to most of social problems. What about the gangsterism , like 'along', mostly chinese i believe. I wonder what happened to their childhood life
Shirui
QUOTE(Adalah @ Dec 27 2007, 10:39 AM) *
I think it's quite harsh to blame Malay family for having many kids, thus contributing to most of social problems. What about the gangsterism , like 'along', mostly chinese i believe. I wonder what happened to their childhood life

What's wrong with "along"?They are like us,trying to earn a living,just that what they do is illegitimate.LOL We should put the blame on ppl that pinjam money from them.There's demand, there's supply embarassedlaugh.gif

Geez I don't feel like writing an esei for my Pengajian Am paper
swingdoctor
QUOTE(Shirui @ Dec 26 2007, 09:09 PM) *
Bob,I heard that Malay girls have the tightest pussies *wink* *wink* laugh.gif
Mat Rempits - They are a waste of space.Their existence is an excruciating embarrassment to this country.I don't think I need to do anymore elaboration on the reasons why I look down on them. laugh.gif

So how are they different from the Ah Bengs and Ah Kuah's in Malaysia? They are also an embarressment to Malaysia. Why single out Mat Rempits?


QUOTE(Shirui @ Dec 26 2007, 09:09 PM) *
Malay families with many kids - Seeing how they struggle to cope with poverty and how bad their living conditions are they shouldn't have given birth to so many kids knowing that they can't provide the best for their kids.Kids that grow up in bad neighbourhoods with inadequate love,education and poor parenting leads to social problems later.
Well my parents provided the best education for me and my siblings.I am blessed with their unconditional love.I am productive and will contribute to this society one day.I know what birth control and contraception are.I am just that condescending laugh.gif

Show me any study that shows that people in larger families have less love and suffer from poor parenting. I agree that poor parenting is an issue which can lead to social problems but this can also be contributed by parents who both work. Larger families are usually associated with lower education but it is not the only reason, cultural differences are another major factor. Simply put Malays see children more as a blessing from god and as a result have less of an issue when it comes to the size of their families. Undoubtedly a lower level of education is also likely to be a contributing factor but rather then gloating about those less fortunate, you should be finding more ways to help them.
You should consider yourself fortunate that your parents are in a financial position to to provide the best education for you and your siblings. I don't know about your siblings but from what I see here I can assure your parents didn't do a good job in making you a good person, maybe you are a product of bad parenting. And you are right you are just that condasending.
Adalah
QUOTE(Shirui @ Dec 26 2007, 09:53 PM) *
What's wrong with "along"?They are like us,trying to earn a living,just that what they do is illegitimate.LOL We should put the blame on ppl that pinjam money from them.There's demand, there's supply embarassedlaugh.gif

Geez I don't feel like writing an esei for my Pengajian Am paper


Are you trying to justify their crimes, you should consider the suffering caused by their action. There even a case where a father killed his child before he commit suicide, after so much pressure from this so call "along"
Betong
Adalah sikit-sikit. I think every have think feeling but I can still contain it.
Crystallised Dream
QUOTE(Adalah @ Dec 27 2007, 10:16 PM) *
Are you trying to justify their crimes, you should consider the suffering caused by their action. There even a case where a father killed his child before he commit suicide, after so much pressure from this so call "along"


I'd say both sides are to be blamed.

The Along, because of their brutal payback method; and because even if you're a good debtor who pays back his debts on time there's chances they'll take advantage on you and charge you higher interests to cover up their loses from those who do not pay back their debts.

The Debtor, because even after knowing the dangers of borrowing from the Along they are willing to take the risk just for temporary financial relief. And it's not even a small amount - 5,000, 50,000, 500,000, you name it.

+ Maybe even the Bank, for their very strict loan policies. I don't they're the main problem-makers here but it'll probably do the society (especially the poor) some good if the Bank loosen its collars a little.

+ Police? What do you think? Again I don't think they're the main source of problem either.


But I think the Debtors ought to get more of the blame because they are the ones that keep the Along business thriving. I'm not sure if there's such a thing as 'completely no choice' ... but I suppose those who go to the Alongs are mostly those that are driven by desperation and turn to the Alongs as a last resort. What do you guys think?
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