Does anyone else have this dilemma;

I've noticed recently that my physical standards for women have grown somewhat... 'lower' in a way
It's not like I'm starting to see ugly girls as hotties, but I've pretty much stopped gauging them out of 10

There only seems to be two standards left; fu-kable or non-fu-kable
At the same time, it seems I'm starting to place a lot more importance in mental and emotional stimulation, the choice of words she uses, her game and her ability to (attempt) charm me, etc.

It seems that I'm starting to value inner traits much more then outer traits... even when choosing fu-kbuddies.
Does it come with age? Am I getting old ? Or am I just going through another phase?

I feel the same way. Don't forget friend, the power is yours!

maybe you are becoming less shallow.

I am a saint

heh, at least I aint the only one then

Before I even wondered if this was actually the first step of becoming gay




Why? Was I really shallow before?

Subo's growing up and becoming a mature gentleman. I'm pretty dang proud of you, I must say. ;']

Aww! Our little boy is growing up! He's a MAN now hahaha

Ya, comes with age or when you actually really like someone. All that stuff kind of disappears. Rather more in highschool with all the rating and stuff.

The balance has shifted for me as well. I'm glad.

Kinda funny really, I can't actually recall how long I've been thinking like this, it seemed like a gradual change.
But hey come on the word 'mature' is starting to making me feel old and the word 'gentleman' is cramping my style

no, but i mean your tastes have matured. you like to chill with low maintenance girls now instead of the batty nutjobs with emotional problems. new year, new thoughts.

Good for you subo cause if you see it this way you're on the way of becoming a good player.



Anyways yeah beauty and looks does come with age. Someday when you're old you'll realize looks are not so important after all.

You're casting a bigger net now.

Go get em!

I don't gauge women out of 10 anyway, never have, it's just stupid. Either I'd shag her or I wouldn't.

lol, i dont see this as a problem... to me its a plus because your taste in women just became broader.... you wont be able to miss women that you would generally miss when you used to only focus on the jessica albas...

dat only happen wen u havent got ANY...

u start to feell mo despparate..

Don't worry man, you're just maturing a bit. Just get rid of those 'fu-kable' and 'non-fu-kable' standards and your on way to being okay.

No, then he would have no standards.

Thank you Captain Planet!!!


Subo did you hit your head or something? Drunken flight down some stairs maybe?

It doesn't come with age, it comes with maturity and conjunctions with your true values in a woman. Believe me once you crossed over it's hard to be with a woman with the intelligence of a primate. I.e. 50% of women. Haha j/k ladies, no seriously those b!tches are dumb as dirt....

yeah...you are becoming a man, in the true since of the word.

What's wrong with that?

What's wrong with not having any standards?

Are you aware of how stupid that question is?

LOL, Mummble just tickles you everytime his fingers touch the keyboard, huh?

He's unbelievably stupid

^lol Takashi's bane

You're just subconsciously realizing that you've been aiming too high before. Lot of kids in high school are misled by their hormone-driven peers that they aim too high, but reality settles down in the following years and to cope with that, people lower their standards -- not everyone is gorgeous.

It's not like I've always priced physical attraction above a woman's inner depth in the past, or failed to noticed women with top notch personalities. It's more like just a steady change of priorities and general attitude, maybe someone taught me this or maybe I learnt it on my own... hell can't be sure these days

i gotyaa..

but imo.. in orderr.. when it come to woman..

-LOOKZZ
-PERSONAALITY
-STAATUS

if you go fo personalityy or status.. den u just LOWERR your standardd.. BELIEVEE IT!!

I used to go for the physical features first.. I didn't care for personality much.. but as i got older.. i found myself looking for personality more than looks. Of course i would still have to find her attractive.. but even cute would do. I would much rather go for a cute girl with a great personality than a banging hot girl who's personality STINKS! I remember my female cousin telling me back then that she doesn't even care for handsome guys anymore.. she's looking for personality.

^ i understand that.. but that stuff only apply to grown ups such as yourself n others..

my list order apply to teens such as my age in a sense. i'm sure i'll be like you guys soon.. ^^ go for personality den lookz etc.. i have to find her attractive of course..

i think it's part of growing older, the worst thing is it's only going to get worst,
snag whatever decent person you can get now and don't let go

Dunno about you, but the reason it changed for me after highschool was because I was stopped looking for a girl to fu-k, I was looking for a girl I could be with. Cause obviously, how much of her personality will you see when you're having sex? Sounds shallow, but it's true. Now you want to date her, personality is kind of more important. It really does come with age and it only gets worse. Cause after a while, it won't be a girl you want to date, it'll be the girl you want to marry.

Ya, thank god I'm not that old yet.

that's why you don't love me anymore

shut up. i r be loving you forever

But you still have a no fat chicks policy, right?

Gotta have a no fat chicks policy.

yes i agree and practice this order. Looks---->Personality----->Status----->(then for Asian girls-----Ethnicity) Some i do not like to associate with.

Wow, Subo. I was just thinking the other day too, while I was reading some of your topics, that your topics have changed a lot.

I think that's wonderful the way you're thinking. Besides having that sexual attraction between man and woman, it's really important to have a mental/emotional attraction as well. What the hell else are you going to do in between sex?

its great to see a pretty face but if you can't relate to them or they don't have their own personality and only follow trends..they become boring and predictable.

You're just growing up mate. Attraction based on how 'hot' someone is, is ok in high school and maybe early 20's but women are people, and who they are as a person is just as attractive/sexy as any physical features. It's basically common sense, everyone ages and no one looks 'hot' forever (although everyone tries to hang on) so you gotta go with someone who's personality turns you on b/c that will stand the test of time.......