Zdrav
Mar 17 2008, 07:54 PM
This is largely inspired by Wong Fu's famous vignette.
Both guys have to deal with similar stereotypes: nerdy pursuits, traditional families, "funny" accents, etc. Indians are indeed Caucasians and have some White features, but they also have dark skin, so it's not like they have any kind of physical advantage over Asians.
From my experience, Indian guys are much "cooler" and "laid back" about their ethnic issues. They do tend to be ethnically cliquey, but I think it's more common to see an Indian guy mixing with people of all races as opposed to an Asian guy (and I say this as an Asian guy who has a multicultural group of friends). Even if it's just a facade, Indian guys seem to be more comfortable in their skin.
mndeg
Mar 17 2008, 07:56 PM
None of this makes sense because it's all on an individual basis. To say that a race is anything is just stupid. If you live in CALI you should see the rest of the USA before making generalizations. Cali is some kind of weird asian paradox.
Zdrav
Mar 17 2008, 07:56 PM
From your personal experience then.
mndeg
Mar 17 2008, 07:57 PM
Fobs are fobby and non-fobs aren't? wtf? see how it's got nothing to do with race? at my uni there are more indian fobs so they are more visible. they dress stereotypically nerdy and we also have chinese mainlanders that dress peasant-y.
iyahcure
Mar 17 2008, 07:57 PM
isn't indian asian?
BiblicalWhore
Mar 17 2008, 07:58 PM
Indian guys are more comfortable in their skins.
Many Asian dudes suffer from an inferiority complex.
ExpressYourself
Mar 17 2008, 08:00 PM
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 17 2008, 07:58 PM) [snapback]3574417[/snapback]
Indian guys are more comfortable in their skins.
Many Asian dudes suffer from an inferiority complex.
The grass is greener on the other side, hey.....
You would be surprised at the inferiority complexes some Indian guys have.
BiblicalWhore
Mar 17 2008, 08:15 PM
Hmm, come to think of it, I barely even know any Indian guys.
JakeCutter
Mar 17 2008, 08:16 PM
QUOTE(ExpressYourself @ Mar 17 2008, 06:00 PM) [snapback]3574426[/snapback]
The grass is greener on the other side, hey.....
You would be surprised at the inferiority complexes some Indian guys have.
Such as?
bigboy
Mar 17 2008, 08:17 PM
wait a minute...
isnt india in asia?
BiblicalWhore
Mar 17 2008, 08:18 PM
Indian people are Asians, but I group them with Arabs.
iyahcure
Mar 17 2008, 08:19 PM
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 17 2008, 08:18 PM) [snapback]3574497[/snapback]
Indian people are Asians, but I group them with Arabs.
for?
ExpressYourself
Mar 17 2008, 08:20 PM
QUOTE(JakeCutter @ Mar 17 2008, 08:16 PM) [snapback]3574490[/snapback]
Such as?
I see you're familiar with Type O..

Well, South Asians (Indo-Pak, etc) also look up to white people as being better looking like other Asians on this forum do, they think white girls and latin girls are infinitely hotter, they complain about how their own race is ugly, how other races don't like them, they brag about being mistaken for Italian...you know.
BiblicalWhore
Mar 17 2008, 08:22 PM
iyahcure: Their looks. What else?
Having slanted eyes is a requirement to be Asian.
JakeCutter
Mar 17 2008, 08:22 PM
It seems no one is happy about they way they look.
iyahcure
Mar 17 2008, 08:25 PM
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iyahcure: Their looks. What else?
Having slanted eyes is a requirement to be Asian.
didn't know that was the qualification.
bigboy
Mar 17 2008, 08:26 PM
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 17 2008, 06:22 PM) [snapback]3574515[/snapback]
iyahcure: Their looks. What else?
Having slanted eyes is a requirement to be Asian.
asian means from asia
so anything from 'asia' is considered 'asian'
because the continent is called 'asia' where there are 'asians'
doesnt matter which area it is, as long as its in 'asia' its still 'asian'
FrenchVanillaNYC
Mar 17 2008, 08:27 PM
QUOTE(Zdrav @ Mar 17 2008, 08:54 PM) [snapback]3574396[/snapback]
Both guys have to deal with similar stereotypes: nerdy pursuits, traditional families, "funny" accents, etc. Indians are indeed Caucasians and have some White features, but they also have dark skin, so it's not like they have any kind of physical advantage over Asians.
...because apparently magical "White features" are what decides attractiveness and dreaded dark skin negates any physical positives about a person.
Adee
Mar 17 2008, 08:31 PM
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 18 2008, 01:18 AM) [snapback]3574497[/snapback]
Indian people are Asians, but I group them with Arabs.
They're definately not Arabs.
BiblicalWhore
Mar 17 2008, 08:32 PM
No offense to any black posters, but my mom always preaches about how having pale skin accounts for 50% of attractiveness. Actually, the majority of Asia-born Asian people feel that way.
When people say tall, dark, and handsome. Dark does not get any darker than a tanned white person.
mndeg
Mar 17 2008, 08:34 PM
stop making accounts xb you're pretty much the female equivalent of DR
ExpressYourself
Mar 17 2008, 08:36 PM
QUOTE
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 18 2008, 01:18 AM)
Indian people are Asians, but I group them with Arabs.
I group you with the dollar whores....not the high class vegas ones..mhmm.
BiblicalWhore
Mar 17 2008, 08:39 PM
Whether Indian people are classfied as Asians or not is of no concern to me.
They do not look typical Asian, and that is my opinion.
warrhero
Mar 17 2008, 08:42 PM
indians ARE asians and I think they consider them selfs asian
plus india is a country how would you compare a country with a continent
this thread fails
JakeCutter
Mar 17 2008, 08:48 PM
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 17 2008, 06:18 PM) [snapback]3574497[/snapback]
Indian people are Asians, but I group them with Arabs.
lol you remind me of a friend who shouts, "TERRORIST!" every time he sees a Punjab.
ExpressYourself
Mar 17 2008, 08:49 PM
QUOTE(JakeCutter @ Mar 17 2008, 08:48 PM) [snapback]3574598[/snapback]
lol you remind me of a friend who shouts, "TERRORIST!" every time he sees a Punjab.
You mean people who belong to the Sikh religion? Not all Punjabis dress like that, because they can be any religion.
FrenchVanillaNYC
Mar 17 2008, 08:56 PM
QUOTE(mndeg @ Mar 17 2008, 09:34 PM) [snapback]3574556[/snapback]
stop making accounts xb you're pretty much the female equivalent of DR
Which one is xb?
JakeCutter
Mar 17 2008, 09:00 PM
QUOTE(ExpressYourself @ Mar 17 2008, 06:49 PM) [snapback]3574605[/snapback]
You mean people who belong to the Sikh religion? Not all Punjabis dress like that, because they can be any religion.
The majority of the Punjabis here do. I guess most of them belong to the Sikh religion.
Najjiah
Mar 17 2008, 09:01 PM
tbh, indian guys very rarely date outside their race. RARELY. and if they do its very temporary as they are restricted to who they are to marry. parents come first. so really theres no comparrison.
dont believe me? this is what an indian guy usually does with a non-indian girl-->
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?...t&p=3364526like i said. they stay w/ their own kind.
iyahcure
Mar 17 2008, 09:02 PM
QUOTE(Najjiah @ Mar 17 2008, 09:01 PM) [snapback]3574641[/snapback]
tbh, indian guys very rarely date outside their race. RARELY. and if they do its very temporary as they are restricted to who they are to marry. parents come first. so really theres no comparrison.
dont believe me? this is what an indian guy usually does with a non-indian girl-->
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?...t&p=3364526like i said. they stay w/ their own kind.
what about indian girls?
Najjiah
Mar 17 2008, 09:02 PM
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 17 2008, 05:58 PM) [snapback]3574417[/snapback]
Indian guys are more comfortable in their skins.
Many Asian dudes suffer from an inferiority complex.
indians are south asians. arabs are entirely different racial phenotype.
bigboy
Mar 17 2008, 09:04 PM
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 17 2008, 06:39 PM) [snapback]3574568[/snapback]
Whether Indian people are classfied as Asians or not is of no concern to me.
They do not look typical Asian, and that is my opinion.
a typical asian would by anybody from the continent called 'asia'
and india is in asia
Najjiah
Mar 17 2008, 09:04 PM
QUOTE(iyahcure @ Mar 17 2008, 07:02 PM) [snapback]3574645[/snapback]
what about indian girls?
same. they might fool around in college & hs, but they always end up happily arranged. unless they r mixed like me. im in limbo. lolz!
JakeCutter
Mar 17 2008, 09:05 PM
QUOTE(Najjiah @ Mar 17 2008, 07:01 PM) [snapback]3574641[/snapback]
tbh, indian guys very rarely date outside their race. RARELY. and if they do its very temporary as they are restricted to who they are to marry. parents come first. so really theres no comparrison.
dont believe me? this is what an indian guy usually does with a non-indian girl-->
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?...t&p=3364526like i said. they stay w/ their own kind.
What about in your case?
ExpressYourself
Mar 17 2008, 09:06 PM
QUOTE
QUOTE(iyahcure @ Mar 17 2008, 07:02 PM)
what about indian girls?
White and black d!ck for fun. Desi d!ck for marriage and having babies
QUOTE(JakeCutter @ Mar 17 2008, 09:00 PM) [snapback]3574640[/snapback]
The majority of the Punjabis here do. I guess most of them belong to the Sikh religion.

Then, you would say Sikh only. A Punjabi can be a Hindu, Christinan, Muslim, Jewish or Sikh.
iyahcure
Mar 17 2008, 09:06 PM
QUOTE(Najjiah @ Mar 17 2008, 09:04 PM) [snapback]3574651[/snapback]
same. they might fool around in college & hs, but they always end up happily arranged. unless they r mixed like me. im in limbo. lolz!
i've been with some,and they were kool. It was always me that ended up leaving and some were muslims.
iyahcure
Mar 17 2008, 09:07 PM
QUOTE(JakeCutter @ Mar 17 2008, 09:05 PM) [snapback]3574654[/snapback]
What about in your case?
she's the exception!!
Najjiah
Mar 17 2008, 09:08 PM
QUOTE(JakeCutter @ Mar 17 2008, 07:05 PM) [snapback]3574654[/snapback]
What about in your case?
what about me? indian guys dont like me, period. i get called kanjari, choot, basically all meaning halfie whore, to some extent. i get better luck with pakistanis but im not into desi guys anyways, anymore. plus lately im really digging my flip side. i like east asian men, black boys, and a few white boys.
JakeCutter
Mar 17 2008, 09:09 PM
QUOTE(ExpressYourself @ Mar 17 2008, 07:06 PM) [snapback]3574658[/snapback]
Then, you would say Sikh only. A Punjabi can be a Hindu, Christinan, Muslim, Jewish or Sikh.
Let me put it this way. If he sees an Indian, any Indian, he thinks they're Taliban. I try explaining that they are from different countries, and have completely different cultures, but I'm only wasting my time doing so. Hell, I don't know what religion they belong to, because I don't ask. The point is he lumps south asians and middle easterers together. It's more of a racial misconception.
ExpressYourself
Mar 17 2008, 09:11 PM
QUOTE(Najjiah @ Mar 17 2008, 09:08 PM) [snapback]3574664[/snapback]
what about me? indian guys dont like me, period. i get called kanjari, choot, basically all meaning halfie whore, to some extent. i get better luck with pakistanis but im not into desi guys anyways, anymore. plus lately im really digging my flip side. i like east asian men, black boys, and a few white boys.
Weren't all those guys on RD complimenting you back in the day? Dude, their tastse are so bipolar. One day, they love you..the next day they try to insult you.
I remember when everybody was drooling over Ligi and her body...now they started saying she looks like a horse..wtf?
iyahcure
Mar 17 2008, 09:16 PM
QUOTE(ExpressYourself @ Mar 17 2008, 09:06 PM) [snapback]3574658[/snapback]
White and black d!ck for fun. Desi d!ck for marriage and having babies
Then, you would say Sikh only. A Punjabi can be a Hindu, Christinan, Muslim, Jewish or Sikh.
lol,hehehe!!
Najjiah
Mar 17 2008, 09:16 PM
QUOTE(ExpressYourself @ Mar 17 2008, 07:11 PM) [snapback]3574671[/snapback]
Weren't all those guys on RD complimenting you back in the day? Dude, their tastse are so bipolar. One day, they love you..the next day they try to insult you.
I remember when everybody was drooling over Ligi and her body...now they started saying she looks like a horse..wtf?
yeah its like a deep madonna/whore complex. its like the way nikhil would compliment ur intelligence, but then go on to say ur a whore for having been with a foreign boy. you either have to be sati savitri or gtfo. it hasnt changed. nevermind that these r the same desi boys that frequent strip clubs & get bj's from blonde stripper skanks.
SugarandSpice
Mar 17 2008, 09:17 PM
QUOTE(BiblicalWhore @ Mar 17 2008, 07:58 PM) [snapback]3574417[/snapback]
Indian guys are more comfortable in their skins.
Many Asian dudes suffer from an inferiority complex.
I agree!! They always bring up how they are inferior to whites. Not all of them do, but the most I've seen. That's why a lot of them try to act white. But Asian/chinese men are much cutier then indian men. Sorry but its true.
JakeCutter
Mar 17 2008, 09:18 PM
QUOTE(Najjiah @ Mar 17 2008, 07:08 PM) [snapback]3574664[/snapback]
what about me? indian guys dont like me, period. i get called kanjari, choot, basically all meaning halfie whore, to some extent. i get better luck with pakistanis but im not into desi guys anyways, anymore. plus lately im really digging my flip side. i like east asian men, black boys, and a few white boys.
No I meant with your parents. How did it work out between them?
ExpressYourself
Mar 17 2008, 09:21 PM
QUOTE(Najjiah @ Mar 17 2008, 09:16 PM) [snapback]3574685[/snapback]
yeah its like a deep madonna/whore complex. its like the way nikhil would compliment ur intelligence, but then go on to say ur a whore for having been with a foreign boy. you either have to be sati savitri or gtfo. it hasnt changed. nevermind that these r the same desi boys that frequent strip clubs & get bj's from blonde stripper skanks.
A foreign boy? Who was he talking about?
Najjiah
Mar 17 2008, 09:21 PM
QUOTE(JakeCutter @ Mar 17 2008, 07:18 PM) [snapback]3574699[/snapback]
No I meant with your parents. How did it work out between them?
my dad is 2nd generation indian from PI. he's already sold out, so to speak. its not like s'pore or malaysia where theres solidarity & enough to form a community. they met, fell in love, and had 3 kids. im the youngest.
Mona
Mar 17 2008, 09:21 PM
QUOTE(Zdrav @ Mar 17 2008, 07:54 PM) [snapback]3574396[/snapback]
This is largely inspired by Wong Fu's famous vignette.
Both guys have to deal with similar stereotypes: nerdy pursuits, traditional families, "funny" accents, etc. Indians are indeed Caucasians and have some White features, but they also have dark skin, so it's not like they have any kind of physical advantage over Asians.
From my experience, Indian guys are much "cooler" and "laid back" about their ethnic issues. They do tend to be ethnically cliquey, but I think it's more common to see an Indian guy mixing with people of all races as opposed to an Asian guy (and I say this as an Asian guy who has a multicultural group of friends). Even if it's just a facade, Indian guys seem to be more comfortable in their skin.
i thought that indians were asians too
Najjiah
Mar 17 2008, 09:24 PM
QUOTE(ExpressYourself @ Mar 17 2008, 07:21 PM) [snapback]3574705[/snapback]
A foreign boy? Who was he talking about?
the black kid. he was shocked u had been with a black guy & he exprssed his disbelief to me over the phone. lolz! he was shocked that u werent even a virgin to begin with & ur younger than him. he's an idiot. but hot.
ExpressYourself
Mar 17 2008, 09:27 PM
QUOTE(Najjiah @ Mar 17 2008, 09:24 PM) [snapback]3574720[/snapback]
the black kid. he was shocked u had been with a black guy & he exprssed his disbelief to me over the phone. lolz! he was shocked that u werent even a virgin to begin with & ur younger than him. he's an idiot. but hot.

I don't even remember what I said..When was this? I thought I was older than him. I honestly don't remember half of the stuff I said on AD, except for him and Specialist making flirtatious comments towards me.
Najjiah
Mar 17 2008, 09:31 PM
QUOTE(ExpressYourself @ Mar 17 2008, 07:27 PM) [snapback]3574730[/snapback]
I don't even remember what I said..When was this? I thought I was older than him. I honestly don't remember half of the stuff I said on AD, except for him and Specialist making flirtatious comments towards me.
nikhil is about 25/26 now. he was 23 when we first stated talking/camming. i think specialist was nirav. nirav is jain & guju. he's even more judgemental & restrictive in his beliefs. but yeah... everybody flirts w/ u. even the muslim kids. desi boys are flirtatious by nature.
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