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chymali
I went blueberry picking today with a good friend of the family who is caucasian. We went to her in-law's farm, where four generations of the family resides. (90 year old great-grandpa, grandpa, son/daughter, grandson/granddaughter)

I had fun, so on. I went home. But later on in the day, she came by to apologize because apparently, the great-grandpa had made some rude remarks about Chinese people (I am Chinese).

The grandpa was extremely mad at his father, who was making a lot of racist remarks. I didn't hear them, as I was playing with some little kids in the backyard. She told me, "Oh, you know he's old, and I guess older people are more racist."

The fact he was racist is kind of offending, but what got to me more, was the fact that his racism could be because of his age. Does anyone care to disagree or agree with the comment?

Older people are more prone to racism than other people?
Rinni
QUOTE(chymali @ Aug 3 2008, 05:26 PM) *
I went blueberry picking today with a good friend of the family who is caucasian. We went to her in-law's farm, where four generations of the family resides. (90 year old great-grandpa, grandpa, son/daughter, grandson/granddaughter)

I had fun, so on. I went home. But later on in the day, she came by to apologize because apparently, the great-grandpa had made some rude remarks about Chinese people (I am Chinese).

The grandpa was extremely mad at his father, who was making a lot of racist remarks. I didn't hear them, as I was playing with some little kids in the backyard. She told me, "Oh, you know he's old, and I guess older people are more racist."

The fact he was racist is kind of offending, but what got to me more, was the fact that his racism could be because of his age. Does anyone care to disagree or agree with the comment?

Older people are more prone to racism than other people?


Well either way I think that definitely grew up in a time where it was much more socially exceptable to be racist and say racist things. It does seem like they are more prone to say things like that though, however wrong it may be. Luckily for me all of my older relatives are not racist nor do they say racist things. My grandparents on my mothers side actually were quite involved in the civil rights movement back in the day as young college students.
yhellothar
Are old people racist? No. Old white people are often racist.

Rinni
QUOTE(yhellothar @ Aug 3 2008, 05:53 PM) *
Are old people racist? No. Old white people are often racist.


Oh but it goes all ways... older people of any race tend to be have more racist tendencies... old black people because of the things they went through, old irish people racist against the polish, and on and on. If you really think it has to do with only white people you are clearly ignorant of many things. Go ask an older asian person what they think of black people...
yhellothar
I asked all of them in my family and they think they are all poor oppressed people who were just not given a chance.

I've spent my whole life around black people and I know they are some of the most hateful, bigoted people on the planet.

The only old Asian who hates blacks is someone who has probably lived long enough to be insulted or attacked many times by blacks.
chymali
QUOTE(Rinni @ Aug 3 2008, 03:48 PM) *
Well either way I think that definitely grew up in a time where it was much more socially exceptable to be racist and say racist things. It does seem like they are more prone to say things like that though, however wrong it may be. Luckily for me all of my older relatives are not racist nor do they say racist things. My grandparents on my mothers side actually were quite involved in the civil rights movement back in the day as young college students.


I agree. He definately lived through a type where it was more socially accpetable to be racist and say racist things.

That is why I wonder how older people feel about other races. For instance, my grandparents feel caucasians are weird, but they don't hate them. They just don't know them well enough.

But this guy was truly racist. He truly hated Asians. So I don't know... yhellothar has a point when s/he says older caucasian people are more racist than others.

I know not all of them are, but it seems to me that that is the most reasonable, especially in places in Canada and America where immigration built the country.
BirdFeed
older people seem to be more racist because they openly say things which is racist. that is known as old fashioned racist. people thesedays are more prone to be subtlely racist not being so overt with such comments.


all in all, everyone is just as racist but it has manifested itself to being more low key or passed as sly.
higginm
I think many older people tend to live in a sense in the world as it existed when they were young, up to until perhaps they were aged forty or so.

After that age change becomes more difficult for people. So the rapid change in demographics in the modern world is often more difficult for them to adjust to.

Younger people grow up in the world as it is just now and so accept the current demographics as the norm.

So its easy to say old people are racist, but what may be more accurate is to say that the rapid change in ethnicities that take place in the modern world are much more difficult for them to adjust to.

If any of that made any sense at all! lol
chymali
^ Kind of made sense.

But here's another question:

How is it that 60 year olds are more adaptable than say 90 year olds? For instance, a lot of teachers in my school are nearing that 60 year old point. That's only a 30 year difference from 90 year olds, and but I tend to find that 60 and under, they're not as racist.
higginm
QUOTE(chymali @ Aug 4 2008, 01:24 AM) *
^ Kind of made sense.

But here's another question:

How is it that 60 year olds are more adaptable than say 90 year olds?

Dunno, maybe brain changes that will happen to all of us as we age. shrug.gif
chymali
It's hormones! AHHH!
higginm
I doubt its hormones, but I'm no brain expert! lol
iMumble
I wouldn't' be surprised if you found racist old people, supposedly they grew up in an era where racism was a common thing .
BrooklynCarter
you're chinese...? lol. ahem.. well... my granpy isn't racist so wasn't the other. it's just that dude ^^
Takashi
QUOTE(Rinni @ Aug 3 2008, 11:48 PM) *
Well either way I think that definitely grew up in a time where it was much more socially exceptable to be racist and say racist things. It does seem like they are more prone to say things like that though, however wrong it may be. Luckily for me all of my older relatives are not racist nor do they say racist things. My grandparents on my mothers side actually were quite involved in the civil rights movement back in the day as young college students.

icon_neutral.gif Didn't you say your parents would be pissed if you were dating a black guy?
How did that filter through if none of your older relatives are that way?
Rinni
QUOTE(Takashi @ Aug 4 2008, 01:15 AM) *
icon_neutral.gif Didn't you say your parents would be pissed if you were dating a black guy?
How did that filter through if none of your older relatives are that way?


Yea that's the odd part... lmao... I have no clue how that happened to be honest. My grandma (my grandfather has passed away) wouldn't mind if I dated a black man as long as he was a nice guy. I think maybe my mother has just been influenced by the wrong types of people through her life.
Takashi
QUOTE(Rinni @ Aug 4 2008, 07:22 AM) *
Yea that's the odd part... lmao... I have no clue how that happened to be honest. My grandma (my grandfather has passed away) wouldn't mind if I dated a black man as long as he was a nice guy. I think maybe my mother has just been influenced by the wrong types of people through her life.

So your father doesn't mind?
Rinni

QUOTE(Takashi @ Aug 4 2008, 01:25 AM) *
So your father doesn't mind?


Well I don't really speak with my father much but yes he would mind. He has racist tendencies.
Takashi
QUOTE(Rinni @ Aug 4 2008, 07:27 AM) *
Well I don't really speak with my father much but yes he would mind. He has racist tendencies.

And his grandparents are........normal? embarassedlaugh.gif
Rinni
QUOTE(Takashi @ Aug 4 2008, 01:44 AM) *
And his grandparents are........normal? embarassedlaugh.gif


well his parents you mean? well my grandfather on my dad's side has also passed away but yea actually come to think of it... my dad's mom wouldn't mind either as long as he was a nice guy... weird to actually realize that though...
Takashi
QUOTE(Rinni @ Aug 4 2008, 07:46 AM) *
well his parents you mean? well my grandfather on my dad's side has also passed away but yea actually come to think of it... my dad's mom wouldn't mind either as long as he was a nice guy... weird to actually realize that though...

Yeah, meant to say your grandparents on his side.
icon_neutral.gif Wtf is up with your parents then?
Rinni
QUOTE(Takashi @ Aug 4 2008, 01:52 AM) *
Yeah, meant to say your grandparents on his side.
icon_neutral.gif Wtf is up with your parents then?


I have no clue... my mom has issues though so I'm willing to bet it's just because she is ignorant. My dad I believe has just only been exposed to certain types of black people here thus having had a negative influence over his perceptions.
Takashi
QUOTE(Rinni @ Aug 4 2008, 08:03 AM) *
I have no clue... my mom has issues though so I'm willing to bet it's just because she is ignorant. My dad I believe has just only been exposed to certain types of black people here thus having had a negative influence over his perceptions.

Then really they're both ignorant icon_confused.gif

Lucky that didn't rub off on you.
Rinni
QUOTE(Takashi @ Aug 4 2008, 02:09 AM) *
Then really they're both ignorant icon_confused.gif

Lucky that didn't rub off on you.


What's weird is that you would think it would have... but I think between growing up having only myself to rely on most the time anyways and being that I went to an extremely diverse school is why I resisted their beliefs on things such as that.
Takashi
QUOTE(Rinni @ Aug 4 2008, 08:12 AM) *
What's weird is that you would think it would have... but I think between growing up having only myself to rely on most the time anyways and being that I went to an extremely diverse school is why I resisted their beliefs on things such as that.

It's hardly rare for children to latch onto their parents line on thought nor is it rare for them to go against the grain so it could have gone either way.
Amerigo
Hi, I am a black American . I hear you folks talk about being done wrong by black people. You go back and fourth with "I don't hate black folks, I just think their ugly, loud, and uncouth etc. If I felt like you fools, I'd be dropping Asians everywhere I see them, but I'm not, because I'm not ignorant you people are. And you can book-smart, and still be very "STUPID". I'm beginning to think this is how all Asians think, and If so... then why would you immigrant to a country where their are plenty of Whites&Blacks. I had this cop ask me and a couple of my associates, whats with all of the white girls dating black guys, and I simply said "we're all Americans, race shouldn't matter in the long run". My point is I should hate and maybe be a little racist towards @$$hole white guys, but I'm not. So your argument about, well I had a bad run in with a black person or persons so I don't like all black people, if this was the case, then black Americans shouldn't like anyone who isn't black, and their for racism from a black person is somewhat justified, right? cool30.gif
Rinni
QUOTE(Amerigo @ Aug 4 2008, 03:06 AM) *
Hi, I am a black American . I hear you folks talk about being done wrong by black people. You go back and fourth with "I don't hate black folks, I just think their ugly, loud, and uncouth etc. If I felt like you fools, I'd be dropping Asians everywhere I see them, but I'm not, because I'm not ignorant you people are. And you can book-smart, and still be very "STUPID". I'm beginning to think this is how all Asians think, and If so... then why would you immigrant to a country where their are plenty of Whites&Blacks. I had this cop ask me and a couple of my associates, whats with all of the white girls dating black guys, and I simply said "we're all Americans, race shouldn't matter in the long run". My point is I should hate and maybe be a little racist towards @$$hole white guys, but I'm not. So your argument about, well I had a bad run in with a black person or persons so I don't like all black people, if this was the case, then black Americans shouldn't like anyone who isn't black, and their for racism from a black person is somewhat justified, right? cool30.gif


And who said that in this thread??? If anything came close to that it was with my comment about my father, and if that was what this was in reference to then you really need to read the entire thread before jumping in and making such statements. Of coarse I'm not going to say that there aren't any racist remarks made throughout the forum, because there are. Never did I say that I shared these beliefs but I do think that the black population in my particular town I live in has had a negative impact on my father's feelings towards the race. I'm not using it as an excuse for him, so don't go assuming that I am. And by the way if this was in reference to me... I'm not asian.
shinyhope
hello dudes
i think its better for every one not to looks to others by his colour
iam from the middle east and my parents didnt tell me any thing about the relation between colour and human beings
for me i have no problems if the man i deal with him is black or not
it is better i think to be simple , to love others , we r all humans
Bulldogg
90 year old, great-grand-pa?

He comes from a time and generation when North American caucasian's(English, Irish, Scottish etc...) looked down not only on us Asians but also European immigrants(Polish, Ukraine etc...).

Doesn't matter what, Americans of Irish, English, Scottish descent all come from the same lines and the lines of their ancestors who invade other lands and take, to this day a good example is the U.S.A. remember the United States of America was once a British colony until they decided to seperate and cause a civil war.

So this is why U.S.A has been invadeing Iraq and middle East lands, their reason is to combat terrorism.
Amerigo
QUOTE(Rinni @ Aug 4 2008, 03:31 AM) *
And who said that in this thread??? If anything came close to that it was with my comment about my father, and if that was what this was in reference to then you really need to read the entire thread before jumping in and making such statements. Of coarse I'm not going to say that there aren't any racist remarks made throughout the forum, because there are. Never did I say that I shared these beliefs but I do think that the black population in my particular town I live in has had a negative impact on my father's feelings towards the race. I'm not using it as an excuse for him, so don't go assuming that I am. And by the way if this was in reference to me... I'm not asian.

Very well said....
BROKEMOFOF
QUOTE(Amerigo @ Aug 4 2008, 03:06 AM) *
Hi, I am a black American . I hear you folks talk about being done wrong by black people. You go back and fourth with "I don't hate black folks, I just think their ugly, loud, and uncouth etc. If I felt like you fools, I'd be dropping Asians everywhere I see them, but I'm not, because I'm not ignorant you people are. And you can book-smart, and still be very "STUPID". I'm beginning to think this is how all Asians think, and If so... then why would you immigrant to a country where their are plenty of Whites&Blacks. I had this cop ask me and a couple of my associates, whats with all of the white girls dating black guys, and I simply said "we're all Americans, race shouldn't matter in the long run". My point is I should hate and maybe be a little racist towards @$$hole white guys, but I'm not. So your argument about, well I had a bad run in with a black person or persons so I don't like all black people, if this was the case, then black Americans shouldn't like anyone who isn't black, and their for racism from a black person is somewhat justified, right? cool30.gif



NO NO NO you dont mister black man.

Blacks are always going on about the racist white man and say racism is based on power and how the white man has the power and is using his INSTITUTIONS against blacks. Which i dont even think he is doing anymore. Look at movies like Miami vice or bad boys or all the hollywoods blacks are usually the hero or main guy now. Music videos also have lots of black guys with all kinds of women, Blacks are docotrs, lawyers, judges or atleast portrayed in every role imaginable in the media. Blacks are treated like whites these days. Cant say the same about asians.

These days blacks are using there INSTITUTIONS against asians with the new found liberties the blacks have got from being over represented and being given all the benefits for being oppressed. The blacks have been spat on and now that they are ahead of asians are now spitting on asians with how they show and treat asians in the ghettos, in the media on radio. So get off your high horse.

I cant even believe the blacks try and justify what happened in theLA riots as not something 'racist' but 'economic' haha ok so i guess in the minds of black folk if someone is richer than you and works harder than you its justified to go and burn and loot and destory thier business. Yes yes the self serving hypocrisy and lies of the black people surface again.

I cant even believe you had the nerve to say you would drop asians if you were racist to them, as if they are just a bunch of stuupid ewoks and you are luke skywalker with your lightsaber and could just cut them down if you werent so virtuous. HAHA Typical arrogant Nigg....black man on his high horse when he talks DOWN to asians.

Get outta here. The hypocrisy of blacks is by far much worse than whites. Atleast agianst asians. The fact you try and say any different makes you folks even more contemptable. You think you can just drop any azn out there? Come on then try and drop me! Ill smash yous!
SeanMoran
QUOTE(shinyhope @ Aug 4 2008, 11:50 AM) *
hello dudes
i think its better for every one not to looks to others by his colour
iam from the middle east and my parents didnt tell me any thing about the relation between colour and human beings
for me i have no problems if the man i deal with him is black or not
it is better i think to be simple , to love others , we r all humans

Hope is priceless. beerchug.gif
Caligula
QUOTE(BROKEMOFOF @ Aug 4 2008, 08:25 PM) *
NO NO NO you dont mister black man.

Blacks are always going on about the racist white man and say racism is based on power and how the white man has the power and is using his INSTITUTIONS against blacks. Which i dont even think he is doing anymore. Look at movies like Miami vice or bad boys or all the hollywoods blacks are usually the hero or main guy now. Music videos also have lots of black guys with all kinds of women, Blacks are docotrs, lawyers, judges or atleast portrayed in every role imaginable in the media. Blacks are treated like whites these days. Cant say the same about asians.

These days blacks are using there INSTITUTIONS against asians with the new found liberties the blacks have got from being over represented and being given all the benefits for being oppressed. The blacks have been spat on and now that they are ahead of asians are now spitting on asians with how they show and treat asians in the ghettos, in the media on radio. So get off your high horse.

I cant even believe the blacks try and justify what happened in theLA riots as not something 'racist' but 'economic' haha ok so i guess in the minds of black folk if someone is richer than you and works harder than you its justified to go and burn and loot and destory thier business. Yes yes the self serving hypocrisy and lies of the black people surface again.

I cant even believe you had the nerve to say you would drop asians if you were racist to them, as if they are just a bunch of stuupid ewoks and you are luke skywalker with your lightsaber and could just cut them down if you werent so virtuous. HAHA Typical arrogant Nigg....black man on his high horse when he talks DOWN to asians.

Get outta here. The hypocrisy of blacks is by far much worse than whites. Atleast agianst asians. The fact you try and say any different makes you folks even more contemptable. You think you can just drop any azn out there? Come on then try and drop me! Ill smash yous!


Whaat?

Are you actually trying to say that somehow black people have formed some sort of cabal and is somehow oppressing Asians? You attribute the ignorant blacks in the ghetto to all blacks? and now your saying somehow we are using the radio and media against you? Give me a break bro.

I can see you have made your own mind about all black people, the white man is so great that the new oppressor is the black man? icon_neutral.gif
BROKEMOFOF
QUOTE(Caligula @ Aug 4 2008, 09:04 PM) *
Whaat?

Are you actually trying to say that somehow black people have formed some sort of cabal and is somehow oppressing Asians? You attribute the ignorant blacks in the ghetto to all blacks? and now your saying somehow we are using the radio and media against you? Give me a break bro.

I can see you have made your own mind about all black people, the white man is so great that the new oppressor is the black man? icon_neutral.gif



I am not saying white people are great. Just saying blacks are just as bad if not worse because whites have never asked for equality, blacks have. Now that blacks are on a stronger footing than asians they are spitting it at the asians.

Why cant i show the blacks in the ghettos as examples? Arnt they black? Did they just come to America yesterday? Does being poor mean its ok to be racist to asians? I guess to your monkey mind its fine.
Lets get back to the way blacks feel about the L.A riots, yes done by blacks in the ghetto yet we have a black poster here called Film4Reel who defends it because it was due to economics and not race, and apparently she is the least ghetto black person on the planet. So whats your view of the LA riots black man?

And since you black people always say its the institutions of the white man that is making you look bad, look at what the blacks are now doing against asians wit thier media and institutions...wasnt there a song about washing dead chineses away on a black radio station? Didnt Shaq demean Yao Ming with Kung Fu asoooo crap on tv? I dont think ive never seen Dave SHapelle show asians in a positive light, more of the nerd sterotypes, ice cube and his black korea songs and singing about two penny mother fu-kers, movies like menace to society, samuel L Jackon going on about chineses, i mean if your an asian you will see the shameless racism of blacks against asians man. Its just a fact. And now you have the nerve to tell me how it is?

Dont make it so dramatic and call it a conspiracy, its just now that blacks control information and media you just have to look at how they portray asians and the truth will be self evident.
FrenchVanillaNYC
QUOTE
What's weird is that you would think it would have... but I think between growing up having only myself to rely on most the time anyways and being that I went to an extremely diverse school is why I resisted their beliefs on things such as that.

Ultimately it's your own self that determines how you want to choose your thoughts. My parents were curiously racist and I grew up in ghettos most of my life without any diversity (meaning only black American areas), but I'm more culturally open-minded/aware than most of the upper-crust whoop-de-doos that I run into.

QUOTE(BROKEMOFOF @ Aug 6 2008, 03:29 AM) *
I am not saying white people are great. Just saying blacks are just as bad if not worse because whites have never asked for equality, blacks have. Now that blacks are on a stronger footing than asians they are spitting it at the asians.

Why cant i show the blacks in the ghettos as examples? Arnt they black? Did they just come to America yesterday? Does being poor mean its ok to be racist to asians? I guess to your monkey mind its fine.
Lets get back to the way blacks feel about the L.A riots, yes done by blacks in the ghetto yet we have a black poster here called Film4Reel who defends it because it was due to economics and not race, and apparently she is the least ghetto black person on the planet. So whats your view of the LA riots black man?

And since you black people always say its the institutions of the white man that is making you look bad, look at what the blacks are now doing against asians wit thier media and institutions...wasnt there a song about washing dead chineses away on a black radio station? Didnt Shaq demean Yao Ming with Kung Fu asoooo crap on tv? I dont think ive never seen Dave SHapelle show asians in a positive light, more of the nerd sterotypes, ice cube and his black korea songs and singing about two penny mother fu-kers, movies like menace to society, samuel L Jackon going on about chineses, i mean if your an asian you will see the shameless racism of blacks against asians man. Its just a fact. And now you have the nerve to tell me how it is?

Dont make it so dramatic and call it a conspiracy, its just now that blacks control information and media you just have to look at how they portray asians and the truth will be self evident.

You have issues.

Being poor and black doesn't justify racism, but you should understand that when you talk about a "poor" group of anything you're bound to eventually find at least a few instances of adjectives like "ignorant" and "racist" not that far behind. If you don't believe me, ask some poor Asians what they think of black folks and see if something ignorant or racist doesn't come out at some point...or some poor white American folks what they think of Asians...or some poor Latin Americans what they think of gringos...

And Shaq is Shaq. He does not have a Ph. D in sociology. He is not running for president of Black America. He is not a rocket scientist. He is just a dude that can throw a basketball "real good". That's it.


In regards to the thread topic: Between senility and the odor of Ben-Gay clouding what little brain cells remain in your head, maybe you might be a little racist too. I'd be glad to remember my name at that age.
tujue
old people just don't give a fu-k if you think that they're racist
kreetslaak
QUOTE(chymali @ Aug 4 2008, 01:31 AM) *
But this guy was truly racist. He truly hated Asians. So I don't know... yhellothar has a point when s/he says older caucasian people are more racist than others.


Uh, no, it's the other way around. Older white people are as racist as the average non-white. From these two groups it is simply much more accepted.
Henry123
I tend to agree that alot of the older generation seems to be racist. Societies in general was pretty racist back then.

Two tv sitcom parody:
The Jeffersons vs. All In the Family
jenny0chen
This forum seems to be proof enough that young people are not free of racism. (Then again, the nature of this forum, drawing mostly insecure people, probably affects this as well). The irony of yhellothar calling anyone else racist is noted.
Henry123
QUOTE(jenny0chen @ Aug 9 2008, 08:12 PM) *
This forum seems to be proof enough that young people are not free of racism. (Then again, the nature of this forum, drawing mostly insecure people, probably affects this as well). The irony of yhellothar calling anyone else racist is noted.

Unfortunately there are still many young people who are racist. Not as many as those of the older generation though.
With older generation it seems like almost everyone in their age group was some sort of racist. But then again socities back then tended to be more racist.
SpartanHero
QUOTE(FrenchVanillaNYC @ Aug 6 2008, 10:38 AM) *
Ultimately it's your own self that determines how you want to choose your thoughts. My parents were curiously racist and I grew up in ghettos most of my life without any diversity (meaning only black American areas), but I'm more culturally open-minded/aware than most of the upper-crust whoop-de-doos that I run into.
You have issues.

Being poor and black doesn't justify racism, but you should understand that when you talk about a "poor" group of anything you're bound to eventually find at least a few instances of adjectives like "ignorant" and "racist" not that far behind. If you don't believe me, ask some poor Asians what they think of black folks and see if something ignorant or racist doesn't come out at some point...or some poor white American folks what they think of Asians...or some poor Latin Americans what they think of gringos...

And Shaq is Shaq. He does not have a Ph. D in sociology. He is not running for president of Black America. He is not a rocket scientist. He is just a dude that can throw a basketball "real good". That's it.
In regards to the thread topic: Between senility and the odor of Ben-Gay clouding what little brain cells remain in your head, maybe you might be a little racist too. I'd be glad to remember my name at that age.



Your rely is sorely lacking. Rich people poor people it doesnt matter you can be racist either way. The elite are just as racist as the lower orders nubian.

And yes asians seem to be racist whether they are poor or rich but tell me there Nubian. Do asians HARASS blacks like the blacks do to the asians? NO! So stop trying to make excuses for your poor nubians.

And this talk about shaq does not even engage the question, i suggest you get an education before you try and debate...a greek tradition.
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