well what are they?

family
schooling
back in Laos
work
ECT.

Work....

work hard
strive to be the best
but if not it's okay.

School...

better work hard too
but if you don't make it far....IT'S OKAY, after getting b!tched at

marraige...

get an active wife....who knows how to cook clean care obedient

men should not cheat or get a second wife or many wives...but that's okay too it's tolerated

should be their for clans when called....marriage...disputes....neej....funerals...
but if not...at least some...come just to kick it then..one'll be drawn to do some work


should disciplined kids to be active in chores and things....but if there dirty, lazy, and filthy...$hit..it's kinda okay too

it's tolerated...

HOWEVER WHOMEVER CAN GET ABOVE THE OKAY.
THEN I BELIEVE THEY ARE MODELED.

Yup, that's average. >.>;; I want better than above average for sure...

the average that i know for sure is:

traditional
thin
around 5'4"-5'6" tall
very talented
educated
helpful
married around the age of 18
works at an early age
expects a hard working and traditioal wife
lastly as he gets more older so does his thoughts about getting a second wife

owns a house eventually too btw.

hmmm..

traditional
respectful
know his roles as a hmong male
educated
manly
open-minded
set roles for his peers and younger siblings(if he has any)
hard worker

so i guess we all know the average also the last one should be they owned all these cars before they were married or just got married:

Honda Civic hatchback
Honda CRX
Honda Del Sol
honda civic coupe

Average Hmong Boy ..

Someone who is helpful around the house, like a handy man
Needs to know how to slaughter/cut open pig, cow, chicken, pigeon, etc ..
Love family
Knows manners

Educated.

Knows what is right and wrong.
Knows how to treat people.
Sit at the Man's table.

um ..that's pretty much it for now. xD

I don't agree that the average Hmong guy is educated... Most young Hmong males do not pursue higher degrees. Those educated ones are not average :P

Hmmm...The average Hmong guy? Lets see 5'4, looks average, drives a souped up car, works at a company, smokes socially, drinks Budweiser/Corona with his homies on the weekend and go clubbing. That would be your average and typical Hmong guy. On the other hand the above average guy would have college aspirations or is in college, has monster loans to pay back, in a internship program, drive a beater, is a pretty boy (maybe), and has a girlfriend. The other category would be thugging or Goth/Emo. I think the same could be said about Hmong girls too, minus the souped up car.

lol, that's funny...

I don't know anything because I'm not the average hmong guy. This is me in a nutshell

Cultured
An awesome job where I make a lot of money and make a difference everyday
Financially stable
Educated
Respectful
Hard Worker
Not married and enjoying it
Not Lazy

Too many other things. I'm not saying I'm better than anyone just in case someone tried to bring that up... I worked hard to get where I am, the sacrifices I made some people couldn't even dream of. I grew up poor just like most hmong families, I was homeless, not like most hmong families lol, but I sucked it all up and made something of myself. People who cry about how the white man is holding them back in society need to be shot. There's an opportunity everywhere, just gotta step up the game.