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KhmerLove
If yr friend, Br, Sis, husband or wife... are some kind of frustrated people.
How to handle with them?

Let's share yr idea.
Buddhalove
I have met many like that. Pretty much i have to think twice before saying anything to them.
Goombaking209
I pretty much use sarcasm to save myself from anger.
applepannic
I just plainly ignore them.
KhmerLove
QUOTE(applepannic @ Sep 4 2008, 07:42 AM) *
I just plainly ignore them.


u can't ignore them all the time.
cuteo
QUOTE(KhmerLove @ Sep 3 2008, 06:46 PM) *
If yr friend, Br, Sis, husband or wife... are some kind of frustrated people.
How to handle with them?

Let's share yr idea.

Out do them by becoming more frustrated. Give them a taste of their own medicine.
That way you essentially force them to be in your shoes and hopefully they will vicariously
empathize with you when subject to such annoyances icon_wink.gif

Try it. You will never fail. Should you fail the first time, you'll become more frustrated.
Hence, the effect is increasing in doses for them, on and on. You catch my drift? icon_smile.gif
KhmerLove
QUOTE(cuteo @ Sep 4 2008, 10:13 AM) *
Out do them by becoming more frustrated. Give them a taste of their own medicine.
That way you essentially force them to be in your shoes and hopefully they will vicariously
empathize with you when subject to such annoyances icon_wink.gif

Try it. You will never fail. Should you fail the first time, you'll become more frustrated.
Hence, the effect is increasing in doses for them, on and on. You catch my drift? icon_smile.gif


Good one. Hw abt Wife and Husband? if they do that they can face the divorce.
BrooklynCarter
by ignoring them. lol. my hubby doesn't lose his temper easily so he's pretty cool ^^
khamara
QUOTE(KhmerLove @ Sep 3 2008, 10:36 PM) *
Good one. Hw abt Wife and Husband? if they do that they can face the divorce.


You have to use the yin/yang theory, what i meant by that is when wife mad, you have to be calm,and patient,be soft. Have you ever heard khmer saying"don't hit an egg with a rock"or" don't tryin' to put out the fire with Gasoline"?...You knew, it's hard to explain..wait until you have a spouse,then it start to kick in natural if you really care about that person...anger and anger won't solve anything, when she soft you're hard,and when she hard,you're soft...and I don't meant sexual intimacy laugh.gif
menghuy
QUOTE(KhmerLove @ Sep 3 2008, 07:46 PM) *
If yr friend, Br, Sis, husband or wife... are some kind of frustrated people.
How to handle with them?

Let's share yr idea.



you have family problem? you can share with us . maybe we can help.

KhmerLove
QUOTE(khamara @ Sep 6 2008, 04:11 AM) *
You have to use the yin/yang theory, what i meant by that is when wife mad, you have to be calm,and patient,be soft. Have you ever heard khmer saying"don't hit an egg with a rock"or" don't tryin' to put out the fire with Gasoline"?...You knew, it's hard to explain..wait until you have a spouse,then it start to kick in natural if you really care about that person...anger and anger won't solve anything, when she soft you're hard,and when she hard,you're soft...and I don't meant sexual intimacy laugh.gif


Thank for good advice. Like it is said that " ប្តីប្រពន្ធអាចស្រលាញ់ព្រមគ្នាបាន តែមិនត្រូវខឹងព្រមគ្នាទេ "


QUOTE(menghuy @ Sep 6 2008, 05:02 AM) *
you have family problem? you can share with us . maybe we can help.


No, because I hate aggressive and frustrated people, and want to over come them if I meet such kind of people. So, just want to get some idea. Anyway, I also have a neighbour who is usually shout to his wife. Idiot behaviour.
Nikkie_nid
QUOTE(applepannic @ Sep 4 2008, 07:42 AM) *
I just plainly ignore them.


ME too, try to avoid conversation, unless something that is very important.
khamara
QUOTE(KhmerLove @ Sep 5 2008, 08:05 PM) *
Like it is said that " ប្តីប្រពន្ធអាចស្រលាញ់ព្រមគ្នាបាន តែមិនត្រូវខឹងព្រមគ្នាទេ "


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