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Amberstar2008
Hello, I am new to this forum, and was curious as to how many of you would date or marry someone hispanic/black, a person of color...?
To the men, are you attracted to hispanic women or women of color?
Why or why not?

Thanks in advance for the replies
unattractiveguy
QUOTE(Amberstar2008 @ Nov 6 2008, 12:09 PM) [snapback]3997414[/snapback]
Hello, I am new to this forum, and was curious as to how many of you would date or marry someone hispanic/black, a person of color...?
To the men, are you attracted to hispanic women or women of color?
Why or why not?

Thanks in advance for the replies



Dated a black girl once. Yeah, anyway.

Dating or marrying? Dating is more like, any colors of the rainbow will do. I'm talking black, white, blue, green....etc. When it come to marrying i haven't planned to marry anyone....yet. shifty.gif Shoot! I'm not planning to get marry untill i'm in my 30's-40's. laugh.gif
Gene
I like fat girls, you know what they say "more cushion for the pushin". Especially fat white girl. Damn, them thick b!tchzes be fione, yo!
Tav6
if he is as hot as mark consuelos


then hell yeah biggrin.gif
ducluu
NEVER, Viet girls only, I'm racist madcool.gif
harrow
i personally have never seen viets with black or hispanic chicks before. it would look a little awkward since black and hispanic chicks,on average are more masculine looking than skinny faced and nerdy viet guys
AsianNational
Nope!!!! NEVER!!! Asian only!
howstrange
Vietnamese people have 1000 of years of interacial, interethnic marriages. We are a very open minded people as it has been built into our culture, into our language. We address people like we address our own family members with bro, sis, uncle etc.

However, like most of us, we prefer those that better understand our cultures. As long as other people are prepared to learn and appreciate our culture and customs, I don't see why not because history has proven this. There are many Vietnamese married to Americans and USA caused war and did many terrible things that many are still to be uncovered, and similary to the Chinese. Most Vietnamese have some Chinese blood whether they know it.
vietnam
While I have seen Viet women married college-educated black and Hispanic men, I haven't known any Viet male married a black or a Hispanic women.

Personally, I prefer my own people. laugh.gif
AsianNational
QUOTE(howstrange @ Nov 6 2008, 06:10 PM) [snapback]3997978[/snapback]
Vietnamese people have 1000 of years of interacial, interethnic marriages. We are a very open minded people as it has been built into our culture, into our language. We address people like we address our own family members with bro, sis, uncle etc.


LOL, bull----. Viets have the lowest rates of intermarriage even within the US and those that are born here. Most smart asians prefer to be with their own. And there was no interracial marriage going on for 1000s of years besides with Chinese who they are derived from.

So no, asian only please. Most viets I know are proud of their race.
ltk
Hispanic women are not interested in Vietnamese men or Asian in general kiss.gif
Gene
People can marry whoever they want. Who gives a damn. Stop being pompous and attention whoring by superfluously answering the question twice or thrice. Who a person choose to rub a their genital with is none of my or your business.
SoCal
QUOTE(Amberstar2008 @ Nov 6 2008, 08:09 AM) [snapback]3997414[/snapback]
Hello, I am new to this forum, and was curious as to how many of you would date or marry someone hispanic/black, a person of color...?
To the men, are you attracted to hispanic women or women of color?
Why or why not?

Thanks in advance for the replies




Women choose men, not the other way around.




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NTTS
QUOTE(harrow @ Nov 6 2008, 04:57 PM) [snapback]3997897[/snapback]
i personally have never seen viets with black or hispanic chicks before. it would look a little awkward since black and hispanic chicks,on average are more masculine looking than skinny faced and nerdy viet guys



Hehehehe.. I guess you are not going around that much...Among my circle of friends, I know quite a few couples (Vietnamese men with hispanic ladies) and they seem to have been together happily. I have also seen several Vietnamese men with Hispanic lady partners at my schools. Vietnamese men dating black lady is rare but I have seen it...and If you go around southern states such as California, Arizona, Texas..etc you will see a lot Vietnamese - Hispanic couples. Vietnamese, IMHO, are among the most open-minded asians when it comes to inter-racial relationship. ....hehehehe..
SoCal
I know you are jealous. laugh.gif


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bucket
^Jet Li never dated Aliyah! She was just in the same movie with him, besides hes married with kids.
AsianNational
QUOTE(SoCal @ Nov 6 2008, 07:35 PM) [snapback]3998077[/snapback]
Women choose men, not the other way around.
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LOL, it's both ways. Women can only choose between men who hit on them. Men choose who they hit on.
SoCal
QUOTE(AsianNational @ Nov 6 2008, 04:59 PM) [snapback]3998113[/snapback]
LOL, it's both ways. Women can only choose between men who hit on them. Men choose who they hit on.




Statistically, women choose men to settle down.




Men think with their dycks.



Women think about security and longevity.




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bini
QUOTE(NTTS @ Nov 6 2008, 06:35 PM) [snapback]3998078[/snapback]
Hehehehe.. I guess you are not going around that much...Among my circle of friends, I know quite a few couples (Vietnamese men with hispanic ladies) and they seem to have been together happily. I have also seen several Vietnamese men with Hispanic lady partners at my schools. Vietnamese men dating black lady is rare but I have seen it...and If you go around southern states such as California, Arizona, Texas..etc you will see a lot Vietnamese - Hispanic couples. Vietnamese, IMHO, are among the most open-minded asians when it comes to inter-racial relationship. ....hehehehe..


i think you're bull$hitting, any asian ethnicity will say the same about their own people laugh.gif thats pretty funny since i dont even remember seeing vietnamese hanging out with blacks or hispanics...hehe...occasionally,maybe whites....but the vietnamese are a clannish race of people and yall mainly keep to yourselves and speak your native language to eachother all the time(even young ones).....anyone who has been around vietnamese ppl will also agree with me.

i can understand cambodians,lao,or filipinos dudes dating blacks or hispanic females because they're pretty much americanized and mainly speak english to eachother.....but in the asian community, the vietnamese have an image of being fobs...hehehe....

and yeah its true, the average black or hispanic chick is more masculine looking than most viet guys....

and viets being the most open minded asians when it comes to interracial relationships?? laugh.gif .....or open minded in general when it comes to other minorities? LOL,good one.
SoCal
As long as she appreciates Fish Sauce and Fried Rolls, I don't see why not. icon_smile.gif



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bini
and i'm pretty sure no black or hispanic chick wants to be a future mrs. nguyen....hehe

since nguyen and tran are the only names you guys got...hehehe
SoCal
QUOTE(bini @ Nov 6 2008, 05:31 PM) [snapback]3998173[/snapback]
and i'm pretty sure no black or hispanic chick wants to be a future mrs. nguyen....hehe

since nguyen and tran are the only names you guys got...hehehe



Come on, the other 50% Vietnamese have other last names beside Nguyen and Tran.


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Gene
QUOTE(bini @ Nov 6 2008, 08:31 PM) [snapback]3998173[/snapback]
and i'm pretty sure no black or hispanic chick wants to be a future mrs. nguyen....hehe

since nguyen and tran are the only names you guys got...hehehe

I don't know, beni.. lots of Hispanic and black girls liked me when I was in high school. One girl was touching me with her legs under the desk when we were in group working on and English project. Clearly she was flirting with me kiss.gif

These kind of events belie your claims. You think you're an expert of Vietnamese social standing or behavior but I think you're a charlatan or a fraud. kiss.gif
SoCal
QUOTE(Gene @ Nov 6 2008, 05:40 PM) [snapback]3998187[/snapback]
I don't know, beni.. lots of Hispanic and black girls liked me when I was in high school. One girl was touching me with her legs under the desk when we were in group working on and English project. Clearly she was flirting with me kiss.gif

These kind of events belie your claims. You think you're an expert of Vietnamese social standing or behavior but I think you're a charlatan or a fraud. kiss.gif



What is charlatan?


Is it related garangutan? confused.gif



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bini
QUOTE(Gene @ Nov 6 2008, 07:40 PM) [snapback]3998187[/snapback]
I don't know, beni.. lots of Hispanic and black girls liked me when I was in high school. One girl was touching me with her legs under the desk when we were in group working on and English project. Clearly she was flirting with me kiss.gif

These kind of events belie your claims. You think you're an expert of Vietnamese social standing or behavior but I think you're a charlatan or a fraud. kiss.gif


blah blah...did you make that up laugh.gif well the viets didnt socialize with blacks or hispanics......back in highschool, i only remember seeing one viet guy who actually hung out with blacks/hispanics....

yall mainly hung out with other viets and spoke your language really loud in the hallways and cafeteria....hehehe,it was pretty embarassing. biggthumpup.gif

Gene
one who makes claim to skill and knowledge he/she do not have, a shame, a fraud.
SoCal
QUOTE(Gene @ Nov 6 2008, 05:48 PM) [snapback]3998200[/snapback]
one who makes claim to skill and knowledge he/she do not have, a shame, a fraud.



Thanks, Sir Genie. biggrin.gif


I learn a new word today, thank to you. icon_smile.gif




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Gene
QUOTE(bini @ Nov 6 2008, 08:44 PM) [snapback]3998194[/snapback]
blah blah...did you make that up laugh.gif well the viets didnt socialize with blacks or hispanics......back in highschool, i only remember seeing one viet guy who actually hung out with blacks/hispanics....

yall mainly hung out with other viets and spoke your language really loud in the hallways and cafeteria....hehehe,it was pretty embarassing. biggthumpup.gif


Your scornful attitude will not win you new friends kiss.gif
bini
QUOTE(Gene @ Nov 6 2008, 07:51 PM) [snapback]3998208[/snapback]
Your scornful attitude will not win you new friends kiss.gif


but its the truth kiss.gif
Gene
QUOTE(bini @ Nov 6 2008, 08:54 PM) [snapback]3998216[/snapback]
but its the truth kiss.gif


You can't handle the truth nor do you have any idea what truth is kiss.gif
vietnam
QUOTE(bini @ Nov 6 2008, 08:44 PM) [snapback]3998194[/snapback]
blah blah...did you make that up laugh.gif well the viets didnt socialize with blacks or hispanics......back in highschool, i only remember seeing one viet guy who actually hung out with blacks/hispanics....


Well, generally the best students in the class like to hang out among themselves. Unfortunately, it is rarely that high school blacks and hispanics are in the top of their classes academically. They can be very cool in their attires, street-smart in their mannerism, but they don't share the same interests w/ kids who have goals/dreams beyond the ghettos and the barrios. (I don't mean to sound racist here, folks)
vietnam
I want to add more to it. While you were at highschool, did you see any serious-minded Chinese students hanging around the blacks and hispanics? (For that matter, any Japaneses, Koreans )
SoCal
QUOTE(vietnam @ Nov 7 2008, 08:00 AM) [snapback]3999013[/snapback]
I want to add more to it. While you were at highschool, did you see any serious-minded Chinese students hanging around the blacks and hispanics? (For that matter, any Japaneses, Koreans )



I think more Viets like to hang out with Blacks and Latinos compared to Taiwanese/Korea/Japanese.


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bini
QUOTE(vietnam @ Nov 7 2008, 10:00 AM) [snapback]3999013[/snapback]
I want to add more to it. While you were at highschool, did you see any serious-minded Chinese students hanging around the blacks and hispanics? (For that matter, any Japaneses, Koreans )


no but lets not trash on blacks and latinos now biggrin.gif
film4reel
QUOTE(AsianNational @ Nov 6 2008, 07:20 PM) [snapback]3998058[/snapback]
LOL, bull----. Viets have the lowest rates of intermarriage even within the US and those that are born here. Most smart asians prefer to be with their own. And there was no interracial marriage going on for 1000s of years besides with Chinese who they are derived from.

So no, asian only please. Most viets I know are proud of their race.


dating/marrying interracial does not necessarily mean you are disloyal to your race. wake up dude. Talktohand.gif


QUOTE(Gene @ Nov 6 2008, 07:29 PM) [snapback]3998069[/snapback]
People can marry whoever they want. Who gives a damn. Stop being pompous and attention whoring by superfluously answering the question twice or thrice. Who a person choose to rub a their genital with is none of my or your business.


lol'd and +1



QUOTE(bini @ Nov 6 2008, 08:31 PM) [snapback]3998173[/snapback]
and i'm pretty sure no black or hispanic chick wants to be a future mrs. nguyen....hehe

since nguyen and tran are the only names you guys got...hehehe


unless he's a RICH nguyen. love2.gif

QUOTE(bini @ Nov 6 2008, 08:44 PM) [snapback]3998194[/snapback]
blah blah...did you make that up laugh.gif well the viets didnt socialize with blacks or hispanics......back in highschool, i only remember seeing one viet guy who actually hung out with blacks/hispanics....

yall mainly hung out with other viets and spoke your language really loud in the hallways and cafeteria....hehehe,it was pretty embarassing. biggthumpup.gif


during high school the viet girls chilled with blk dudes.

...and eventually had little blasian kids running around. embarassedlaugh.gif


QUOTE(vietnam @ Nov 7 2008, 10:58 AM) [snapback]3999008[/snapback]
Well, generally the best students in the class like to hang out among themselves. Unfortunately, it is rarely that high school blacks and hispanics are in the top of their classes academically. They can be very cool in their attires, street-smart in their mannerism, but they don't share the same interests w/ kids who have goals/dreams beyond the ghettos and the barrios. (I don't mean to sound racist here, folks)


but you are. Talktohand.gif
TINMAN
Viets in general are still bigoted toward Blacks and Hispanics. Dating is rare and marriage is even rarer.
bini
QUOTE(film4reel @ Nov 7 2008, 11:10 AM) [snapback]3999088[/snapback]
during high school the viet girls chilled with blk dudes.
...and eventually had little blasian kids running around. embarassedlaugh.gif


but we're talking about vietnamese guys here. vietnamese back in my highschool didnt chill with anyone except with their own race. most of them preferred not to speak english but mainly vietnamese.....in groups, i would see them walking the halls talking really loud in vietnamese and all the other races would just stare and laugh
bini
QUOTE(TINMAN @ Nov 7 2008, 11:22 AM) [snapback]3999100[/snapback]
Viets in general are still bigoted toward Blacks and Hispanics. Dating is rare and marriage is even rarer.


what does me-deng or be-deng mean?? i hear this word a lot when i'm around vietnamese and when their talking about black folks....they usually have this angry look on their face when they say it...
ltk
QUOTE(bini @ Nov 7 2008, 12:27 PM) [snapback]3999112[/snapback]
what does me-deng or be-deng mean?? i hear this word a lot when i'm around vietnamese and when their talking about black folks....they usually have this angry look on their face when they say it...

"my den" means "Black American", that's a very honorary term because Vietnamese culture has all kind of racial slur terms to refer to every Asian ethnic group, Black, and Mexican. kiss.gif
TINMAN
QUOTE(bini @ Nov 7 2008, 11:25 AM) [snapback]3999106[/snapback]
but we're talking about vietnamese guys here. vietnamese back in my highschool didnt chill with anyone except with their own race. most of them preferred not to speak english but mainly vietnamese.....in groups, i would see them walking the halls talking really loud in vietnamese and all the other races would just stare and laugh laugh.gif


That might be somewhat true for HIGH SCHOOL but keep in mind that there is also life after high school so your worldly view or perspective is quite limited. Repeating the same mantra over and over again does nothing to expand your horizon. icon_wink.gif
ltk
After college, or even highschool, people tend to stick to their own ethnic groups, life returns where it has begun kiss.gif
bini
QUOTE(ltk @ Nov 7 2008, 11:31 AM) [snapback]3999122[/snapback]
"my den" means "Black American", that's a very honorary term because Vietnamese culture has all kind of racial slur terms to refer to every Asian ethnic group, Black, and Mexican. kiss.gif


i know this one viet guy who always use that word and i can tell that he and his whole family hates black people.....u know it's 24/7 b!tching about their black neighbors or what the "my den" ppl did to them that day...blah blah... i'm not even viet but he even uses that word around me whenever we talk about blacks.....and he always have this rude expression on his face and rolls his eyes when he says it
bini
QUOTE(TINMAN @ Nov 7 2008, 11:33 AM) [snapback]3999126[/snapback]
That might be somewhat true for HIGH SCHOOL but keep in mind that there is also life after high school so your worldly view or perspective is quite limited. Repeating the same mantra over and over again does nothing to expand your horizon. icon_wink.gif


maybe so...but for some reason,viets always make me laugh....you're geeks and fobs to me biggthumpup.gif
TINMAN
QUOTE(bini @ Nov 7 2008, 11:55 AM) [snapback]3999149[/snapback]
maybe so...but i will continue to laugh at vietnamese people and view your people as geeks and fobs biggthumpup.gif


Sure, you may continue such petty personal expression toward different races and have fun mocking others but keep in mind that what goes around...comes around.

Those geeks and fobs are future doctors to save your life, future lawyers to get you out of jail, and possibly your future work supervisor, manager, CEO, or simply "boss". biggthumpup.gif
XigonCongchua
bini = the 1000 account troll
GoodAnime
Maybe, yes. . . Although, I still do prefer Asians. xD But I would give a guy a chance, despite his race. :]
howstrange
We would marry only for love.
DanchoiDalat
QUOTE(Amberstar2008 @ Nov 6 2008, 09:09 AM) [snapback]3997414[/snapback]
Hello, I am new to this forum, and was curious as to how many of you would date or marry someone hispanic/black, a person of color...?
To the men, are you attracted to hispanic women or women of color?
Why or why not?

Thanks in advance for the replies

are you cute, amber? if yes, i'll marry you. kiss.gif
vietnam
QUOTE(film4reel @ Nov 7 2008, 12:10 PM) [snapback]3999088[/snapback]
but you are. Talktohand.gif

No, I didn't make the sweeping statement that all blacks are underachievers. Some of them are brilliant, but statistically it is rare that the top students in highschools are black or hispanic. That's the reason why they are underrepresented at college level.

About men/women like Obama/his wife, I only have the highest regards for them. I may disagree w/ their politics, but I certainly respect their personal achievements. biggthumpup.gif
vietman
QUOTE(XigonCongchua @ Nov 7 2008, 04:03 PM) [snapback]3999288[/snapback]
bini = the 1000 account troll

Is that the suspected cambodian troll?
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