True for so many. The answer's so close but we go so far to find it.

Yah, I'd hit it! Oh you wanted a date??? Nevermind...

let me re-phrase, if i had any single available male friends, i would grab them and run with it.

but i have no single male friends.

WTF do you do to put yourself in that kind of situation??? Actually, I'm in the same boat too, could we be a match GTFO lol.

I got plenty of male acquaintances but you'd probably find flaws with all of them, even though they're fine fellows.

I have a friend in Korea who's just like you. She had one boyfriend in high school and after that, no matter how interested some guy was in her, she refused to give him a chance. Truth is, it's because she sees through all of them and they all bore her. I haven't heard from her but I know she's still the same girl I knew back then. Some people just don't change.

i do not have high standards. OMG.. i'm serious i would take any guy that was single 25-30, had full set of hair, and wanted to get to know me instead of sleep with me.


all we would have to do is communicate on relatively the same level and be able to carry a conversation and laugh/ cry together

^ that is a lot to ask for.

^

i said nothing about physical descriptives or personality or income or education level

but a good match is indeed a rare find..

i found one before, but i let him get away i think :/

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omg.. not DR..

we are TOTALLY DIFFERENT!!!!!

- I'm 25, check
- single, check
- bald, no check

so close yet so far. You might as well buy a cat and call yourself crazy cat lady.

I still say the two of you were made for e/o lol
By the same person LOL

Haha that was funnny!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


totally different personalities, damn whomever first linked us!!

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Sorry but I can't give you any advice. Maybe it's how you come off in person?? Because you sound like a pretty normal person who shouldn't be having so much trouble connecting with someone. But that's online.

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Eh I don't think so. I have a feeling some people can act different to varying degrees. Just depends on the personality and where they're communicating.

I used to think I act the same online and offline but thinking about it recently I realized I do act somewhat differently. I'd just never really considered it b4

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I think online personality is usually truer to real personality with all the fancy frivolity stuff

The Gates of Janus sounds a bit satanic..

I CANT GET A DATE AND NO ONE IN REAL LIFE BELIEVES ME EITHER!!!!



I BEGGED PEOPLE TO HELP ME. THEY DIDN'T

they don't understand i don't have the social skills
i am developmentally challenged!!!

:_O

im starting from scratch you guys ... really the bare bones

Damn it, I'm only 19. Too jail bait?

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gahhhh deepness overload. i know its important to be able to give the appropriate response in different circumstances but at the same time,
for a long term relationship it i thinks its best to find someone whom you can be yourself around and be in a state of equilibrium with


jinata, anything over 18 is legal in my state

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I still find it hard to believe this thread is real, feels like a joke.

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Lol okay then, it doesn't fee virtually real.

this is 100% legit there are people who suffer because of the sheltered environment they were raised in


virtual certificate of authenticity

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Then what the hell are we waiting for?

Cloudyski, do you like have a hobby? Something that is done in a group? Or something that you've always interested in? You can consider join clubs of interest, be it archery, botany (whateva suits you). Its a social setting that will allow you to know more guys where you can safely observe their behaviors and mannerisms.

so yeah, go out, get to know more people outside the web and party scenes.

hmmm.... must sign up for hobbies. haha i feel a thread coming on...


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ya.

for shizzo to starry

You need an Xbox 360, not a boyfriend!

i have one of those already ^

Hmm, show your real picture! I'm curious, yo.

real picture:
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That photo looks too professional! I'll trade you! A picture of you for a picture of me. No one on this forum has seen my face before!

That's because they were professionally taken.

Also all the webcam blackened out images were of me too.




I photoshop nicely.

I just wanna' see your face, normally. I wanna' see the face of the girl who claims she feels to be incapable of finding a boyfriend,

You're good looking. What's putting you to desperation? Are you too picky, or just not open minded perhaps?

i dont' think there's anything wrong with my face persay as in any overwhelming physical deformity

its just the guys i like are not attracted to me in that way

and no i really don't have high standards

^well maybe you should try to get to know 'guys you don't like'...upfront? I'm not saying 'ugly' or 'below reasonable standards' but also maybe different race, different facial structure, different air, style, etc. sometimes you don't ever see until you try a new cup of tea. y'know? just go out for a movie or something, nothing serious.

Maybe all your guy friends are bakla?

i mean i get no offers.

i would go out with anyone. literally.

i always say yes to at least one date, unless i feel danger (or that he is a pedo)

Well I find it hard giving advice on this particular subject, especially when my love life is dormant these days. All I can suggest is, get on with the next best thing, and eventually you'll meet someone before you know it.

I've hired a matchmaker...

uh and i'm like too tired of sorting through match.com
I tried that for a month

:/

it takes effort to meet people and I don't think this is the way either. I dunno its hard to figure out what I want ...

hehe probably right, maybe its best to stay single until i get my life in order.

but its hard you know to get my life in order when i feel others have progressed farther than i have

^ Story of my life. I feel to better myself, but when I see other people 322357239457 miles ahead of it. I just feel like saying "fu-k it." and just be a bum for the rest of my life. Not a wise choice though.

cant see the problem there, you seems normal, you look just fine. finding a date shouldnt be a problems.

just gonna say what i think and direct to the point, no offence intended. i get a feeling you are falling for the wrong guy, ie the guy whose not interested in you. then you ignore the guy whose interested in you. i know a few people like that, seems they cant help it until they realise time is ticking away.

if you managed to get a date with the guy you want, then you realise they are not interested after the date. i would take this down to your personality, perhaps you behaved such that its enough to put the guys off.

or maybe its you who lost interest?

aint you too old to be targeted by a pedo

yeah I too am not in a position to really give relationship advice, but if you tried and got discouraged, you have 2 choices:

- either view dating as a contact sport; the more places you go to and the more people you check up increases your chances of finding someone

- not look/search actively but keep your eyes open (ie you overhear someone talking about a favorite author and strike up a conversation; maybe you get lucky and find out discreetly that he's single)

as long as you're being "yourself" and being honest, nothing wrong with having standards or striking out