whats up with japanese girls going out with white guys? must be new trend

whats up with japanese girls going out with white guys? must be new trend

whats up with japanese girls going out with white guys? must be new trend

I am a white american guy, and the reason for the white guy and japanese girls is because japanese guys treat their women like crap and most americans treat the japanese women like they should be treated, like the goddesses that they are... Well the majority of them anyway.

I am a white american guy, and the reason for the white guy and japanese girls is because japanese guys treat their women like crap and most americans treat the japanese women like they should be treated, like the goddesses that they are... Well the majority of them anyway.

I am a white american guy, and the reason for the white guy and japanese girls is because japanese guys treat their women like crap and most americans treat the japanese women like they should be treated, like the goddesses that they are... Well the majority of them anyway.

is it true that black guys are popular in japan?

Not in a MILLION years..I DEFINITELY think they dislike blacks...although some of them are exceptions...but majority wise...Nope...

the day I see a japanese girl with a BLACK guy and they are married or at least boyfriend and girlfriend is the day i get 40 billion dollars...It's THAT rare.

A lot, not all of Jpn guys tread their women like shyt. If you live in Japan you will notice this. Just watching T.V. you will see it too. The ones that do date other than Jpn men see how well the foreigner treat them then they tell there friends about it. Sad that some of those women don't know that there are some Jpn men that will threat them well also.

From what I've seen, out of all foreigners, the whites are #1
Here in Japan, I rarely see any Japanese folks with any other asian folks though...wait seen a handfull with Filipino's but I am pretty sure Korean guys are going to be the new flava thanks to those drama shows bringing Japan and Korea togetha

^yes there are many i do know couple flip-japnese mix and yea there couple  japanese girl with a black guy also..



so not ture!!! let me guess your white

The question is, what's up with people who never do a search in the forums but instead post another one of these threads every three days?

its a big deal.

with black guys?sounds bad. black guys doesn't offer anything like physically?.....mentally?.......and maybe financially?............same as filipino too usually japanese guy & either black girls or filipina girls.maybe korean,white,chinese are better

whats up with japanese girls going out with white guys? must be new trend

Hahaha.  You guys are a trip.  I love this forum.  I can't believe so many of the mispreceptions and stereotypes that exists about Japan. 
I'm a black guy married to a Japanese woman, who is cute, not fat or ugly, I see black guys with girls all the time.  I also see Japanese guys with white woman, Ethiopian woman [actually African women are quite popular it seems], filipinos, koreans, and Thai's etc.

Japanese don't really look at ethnicity unless they've been Americanized.  The look at where you're from.  The trend is not white guys.  The trend is, and has been for a while, American guys.  There are more white people here in Japan than black guys.

I don't know much about the southwestern Kyushu areas and Okinawa though, but I know that Japanese aren't big on the soldiers stationed here in Japan.  But they have only themselves to blame for that.

Hahaha.

^holy crap :shocked: no wonder there alot of white people in Japanese music video, TV shows, and such...japanese women this days - lucky white people!

d*mn maybe she was drunk when you 2 got married or maybe she is blind. off all my 20 yrs of living on the earth marrying a black women has never entered my dictionary. thats really imposible that a japanese grl will marry a black man like you. you guys have a smell that is so stink......

about the white guys man.... you guys think that your good looking?its dead wrong your skin is so rough,you guys have so much hair in your body like a monkey. your advantage is that you guys only have the big nose

so Japanese women have by far the highest outtermarriage rate than japanese men?????

japanese and filipino?! really? hmm...never seen though i'm sure there are

"My friend, Miss. Taki, was born in Japan, as half Japanese and half Filipino, in 1976. She grew up with her nationality and identity both Japanese and Filipino. She acted more like Japanese, the only difference is her blood. However, some Japanese did not overlook the fact that she was “half.” Insensitive people asked her if her mother was “Japa-yuki-san”, a stereotypical discriminatory word, the name of seasonal female workers, prostitutes, from the Southeast Asia. They made a complete change from the contemptuous attitude to a flattering attitude after hearing the fact that she lived in middle class society.

She had been bullied for being “half” by the other kids when she was in public schools. She was “discriminated against as a foreigner, where only one race, Japanese, was dominant in Japan.” She explains that “Japanese are less exposed or experienced in other culture, narrow minded, can’t appreciate the difference in culture, or do not know how to cope.” “They rather ignore all the difficulties they face and go with the easiness.” The life, which was refused to tell, in the public school must have been humiliating. She knew how to speak Japanese and English, but not her mother’s native tongue, Filipino. Hiding and ignoring the fact of being half Filipino was the only way for her to survive in the Japanese community. She transferred to an international school later on.

After transferring to a multi-cultural school where students value each other basing on the personality, rather than on the cultural differences, she started redefining her identity as half Japanese and half Filipino, and asking her mother about the culture and language in the Philippines.

Even though the school life in the international high school stressed the commonality, there was still an unknown complex feeling somewhere in her mind, which was “different”. The feeling “different” was kept in her mind positively in the small community, the international high school, and negatively outside of it. Being “different” from the others created a sense of inferiority. She questioned how a life in the multi-cultured country, the United States, in where having “different” bloods from the others is natural and acceptable, would be. She was admitted to the Michigan State University with a scholarship.

She now calls herself as “double”, not “different” or “half.” The word “half” sounds more discriminative, while “double” sounds more optimistic when I put in certain situation. “Double” becomes her identity, and no longer as her inferiority.

Being “double”, as she explains, has many advantages. She has flexibility to excess to the other cultures; and the ability and willingness to see the world from different points of view as Japanese, Filipino, or even the others. She also has the ability to understand and help the people who are struggling in discrimination, racism or culture clash. It is easy to consider as ideas, but difficult to put into practice.

Her goal is to make prejudice people accept identity of “double” people and diminishing the discriminative prejudice. She wants to organize a group that consists of people with the same situation, “double” or more, then discuss their personal and cultural identities. It will help the depressed people to regain their self-esteem and prides of being who they are. To take over the volunteer activities of her parents, having many cultural events to introduce and share traditions and social movements in their countries, and sponsoring parties to invite people from various fields and races, is her duty and dream. It has both an advantage and disadvantage to have two different cultures, however, it is part of her identity and she is proud of what she has

whats up with japanese girls going out with white guys? must be new trend

oh yeah to answer your question felko,

if it's a trend it's been going on for a longtime....you must've been sleeping under a rock while it was happening. you have to remember that the dominant English speaking countries in the West are the US, England, Canada & Australia. I'm sure the media plays a part in all of this, when a Japanese person sees Leonardo DiCrappio on television they're going to have this image of Americans or if they see Jude Law in a film they might think all English are just like him. Naturally they're going to want to seek the company of someone who fits that profile---ie.American, British, Canadian, Australian. Or better yet, they might have this romanticized idea of how Westerners are supposed to be. Some of my Japanese friends from uni were very open about how they adored Westerners or how they adored haafu people while at the same time being down on their own culture. You have to remember that Japan is a homogenized country with a very small foreign population, i'm sure the youth of Japan look up to the West, even idolize it. It may be trendy for some but I think it's also a means of escaping the norms and traditions of old Japan and seeking a more casual Western lifestyle imo. 

and Japanese have a stereotype of all foreigners being tall with blonde hair and blue eyes.

You also have to remember that some (not all) Japanese women are bunny boilers and look to have foriegn husbands in the hopes of living in a foriegn country some day...

well hope this helps...