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ozm
Just wondering if anyone has had such a relationship or know anybody who has and how it worked out? From my experiences, it seems that these two cultures seem almost incompatible with eachother, being far too different. We think and act a little too differently and I think for some people like me find it a little bit too difficult to cope with.
MotorRifle
Exactly, dont work out, so stick with your own wonderful girls kiss.gif
ozm
Hmm anyone else?
InitialDJay
what do you mean act differently?

you mean language barrier or something?
formula1
Its rare for me to see or even hear about Vietnamese men and Taiwanese women couple but more often its the total opposite. Its sad but true. I don't know if its us Vietnamese man fault or is it Chinese woman particularly Taiwanese and Cantonese women (HK) that we rarely see them together. Or it just society that is to blame. Culturally i don't see much of a differences between the two of us. So i don't see why there shouldn't be more Vietnamese men and Taiwanese couple out there.

Although i did once knew a Vietnamese/Taiwanese couple. But that is like 1 compared to the hundreds of thousands of Taiwanese men and Vietnamese women couples out there. laugh.gif icon_neutral.gif
badparticle
Taiwanese girls still fall into the asian girl category. All the typical stereotypes or dating rules apply. Good luck.
hadoken
QUOTE (formula1 @ Jun 14 2009, 12:19 AM) *
Its rare for me to see or even hear about Vietnamese men and Taiwanese women couple but more often its the total opposite. Its sad but true. I don't know if its us Vietnamese man fault or is it Chinese woman particularly Taiwanese and Cantonese women (HK) that we rarely see them together. Or it just society that is to blame. Culturally i don't see much of a differences between the two of us. So i don't see why there shouldn't be more Vietnamese men and Taiwanese couple out there.

Although i did once knew a Vietnamese/Taiwanese couple. But that is like 1 compared to the hundreds of thousands of Taiwanese men and Vietnamese women couples out there. laugh.gif icon_neutral.gif


Really? Hope you're not referring to the mail order brides that have to resort to marrying foreigners for a better life, other than that I don't think I see too many of those couples
ozm
QUOTE (InitialDJay @ Jun 13 2009, 11:43 PM) *
what do you mean act differently?

you mean language barrier or something?

Actually I meant we just "think" too differently, as in there are a lot of things that she does that she would think is ok but I wouldn't, and vice versa. Language barrier doesn't really account for much, it's not like we both don't speak english.

Just wanted to see how other similar relationships turned out, but I guess there aren't too many heh.
formula1
I also knows quite a few Vietnamese men Cantonese (HK) women couples, but they are all either separated or unhappy. Much like a bf/gf fling then a real relationship.
InitialDJay
QUOTE (ozm @ Jun 14 2009, 07:14 AM) *
Actually I meant we just "think" too differently, as in there are a lot of things that she does that she would think is ok but I wouldn't, and vice versa. Language barrier doesn't really account for much, it's not like we both don't speak english.

Just wanted to see how other similar relationships turned out, but I guess there aren't too many heh.


so you mean to compare taiwanese american and vietnamese american? cuz i really don't quite understand what you are trying to distinguish this "different" things.

as far as i know, my taiwanese friends (both male and female) don't really like to hang out with anyone but taiwanese.. it's because they speak engrish so language barrier is a big problem for everyone.

as for taiwanese girl with vietnamese guys? i never really don't pay much attention but i wouldn't be surprise if there are a few.. there are exception to everything.. there's even human marrying chimpanzee if you haven't notice. watch that documentary a while ago.. laugh.gif
Mid-Night_Sun
QUOTE (InitialDJay @ Jun 15 2009, 02:37 AM) *
so you mean to compare taiwanese american and vietnamese american? cuz i really don't quite understand what you are trying to distinguish this "different" things.

as far as i know, my taiwanese friends (both male and female) don't really like to hang out with anyone but taiwanese.. it's because they speak engrish so language barrier is a big problem for everyone.

as for taiwanese girl with vietnamese guys? i never really don't pay much attention but i wouldn't be surprise if there are a few.. there are exception to everything.. there's even human marrying chimpanzee if you haven't notice. watch that documentary a while ago.. laugh.gif

you seem to watch a lot of documentaries. do you watch on youtube? Zuke696 has ALOT.
SoCal
QUOTE (ozm @ Jun 13 2009, 02:40 AM) *
Just wondering if anyone has had such a relationship or know anybody who has and how it worked out? From my experiences, it seems that these two cultures seem almost incompatible with eachother, being far too different. We think and act a little too differently and I think for some people like me find it a little bit too difficult to cope with.



yeah, whateva, blah blah blah...

InitialDJay
QUOTE (Mid-Night_Sun @ Jun 15 2009, 12:09 PM) *
you seem to watch a lot of documentaries. do you watch on youtube? Zuke696 has ALOT.

yup, i watched 2-3 documentaries a day.. sometime on tv, sometime on youtube, or on video cassette..

also yes, i subscript to zuke696 video.. his contribution by uploading is off the chart.. i very much enjoy watching his video.
123happyperson
interesting, im exactly opposite. taiwanese guy with vietnamese girl. works fine, though this is a special case, i usually like taiwanese girls.
PattyPlayer
QUOTE (ozm @ Jun 13 2009, 05:40 AM) *
Just wondering if anyone has had such a relationship or know anybody who has and how it worked out? From my experiences, it seems that these two cultures seem almost incompatible with eachother, being far too different. We think and act a little too differently and I think for some people like me find it a little bit too difficult to cope with.


For foreigners, Taiwanese girls only like Japanese men or White men icon_smile.gif

Good luck embarassedlaugh.gif
ozm
QUOTE (PattyPlayer @ Jun 19 2009, 01:36 AM) *
For foreigners, Taiwanese girls only like Japanese men or White men icon_smile.gif

Good luck embarassedlaugh.gif

Is this true? I've asked her if she has any attraction towards them but she always tells me she doesn't.

Is she lying? I've always thought she had a secret attraction but would never tell me
stinkypoop
QUOTE (ozm @ Jun 20 2009, 10:41 PM) *
Is this true? I've asked her if she has any attraction towards them but she always tells me she doesn't.

Is she lying? I've always thought she had a secret attraction but would never tell me


Who knows shrug.gif

But if you're attractive and have good education or money, I don't see a good reason why she says no unless for the lulz or she only likes Taiwanese guys. Most asian americans don't really care to know of the differences between asians, except for indians.
jLRAWR
i don't think that would ever happen. its just too weird. so far in my whole life i have never heard of a relationship with a taiwanese girl dating vietnamese guys.
yuelight
i can make it happen if u give me a plane ticket to Taiwan and some $$ to spend over there icon_smile.gif
gabrielj81
QUOTE (yuelight @ Aug 5 2009, 10:30 PM) *
i can make it happen if u give me a plane ticket to Taiwan and some $$ to spend over there icon_smile.gif


I think Taiwanese girls are only into their local or Japanese pretty-boys or big hairy and macho white guys.
yuelight
QUOTE (gabrielj81 @ Aug 6 2009, 07:09 AM) *
I think Taiwanese girls are only into their local or Japanese pretty-boys or big hairy and macho white guys.


nothing is impossible my friend. Viet guys are well known for flirtious and sweet talk and girls love those thing icon_smile.gif
hoang_1989
^^ viet guys are actually known for being very protective. however, i wouldnt date a taiwanese girl. the taiwanese girls i do know are super shallow. i cant stand out their outfit (tacky). they have no sense for high fashion.
pureownage
QUOTE (hoang_1989 @ Aug 8 2009, 05:32 PM) *
^^ viet guys are actually known for being very protective. however, i wouldnt date a taiwanese girl. the taiwanese girls i do know are super shallow. i cant stand out their outfit (tacky). they have no sense for high fashion.



are you kidding me...taiwanese are actually very fashinable.....their sense of fashion in the 80's and 90s are as worse as the rest of east asian...even the japanese dress awfully in the 80s- 90s( i saw that on the 90s jp tv shows)

i visited taiwan 3 years ago...they dressed pretty decent....

but today, taiwanese are as fashionable as the japanese....

but vietnamse...even the ones in Europe and America dress like country fools.......

taiwanese will never date a vietnamese guy its true...

i never met a attractive viet guy in my whole life..... i only met some decent looking viet girls... but the guys are usually awful looking fi you know what i mena
reckitt
QUOTE (pureownage @ Aug 8 2009, 05:35 PM) *
but vietnamse...even the ones in Europe and America dress like country fools.......


so true
hoang_1989
QUOTE (pureownage @ Aug 9 2009, 12:35 AM) *
are you kidding me...taiwanese are actually very fashinable.....their sense of fashion in the 80's and 90s are as worse as the rest of east asian...even the japanese dress awfully in the 80s- 90s( i saw that on the 90s jp tv shows)

i visited taiwan 3 years ago...they dressed pretty decent....

but today, taiwanese are as fashionable as the japanese....

but vietnamse...even the ones in Europe and America dress like country fools.......

taiwanese will never date a vietnamese guy its true...

i never met a attractive viet guy in my whole life..... i only met some decent looking viet girls... but the guys are usually awful looking fi you know what i mena



taiwanese girls are fashionable...their fashion is something i would call mainstream and commercial...its not my taste...i prefer girls with high-fashion...its a big difference. commoner probobaly dont know how to appreciate high fashion. the Vietnamese have better understanding for high fashion (here in Europe).
pureownage
QUOTE (hoang_1989 @ Aug 8 2009, 06:49 PM) *
taiwanese girls are fashionable...their fashion is something i would call mainstream and commercial...its not my taste...i prefer girls with high-fashion...its a big difference. commoner probobaly dont know how to appreciate high fashion. the Vietnamese have better understanding for high fashion (here in Europe).


define high-fashion for me ( post some pictures) ? let me see how highly fashinable the vietnamese are

as for the taiwanese girls are being shallow, im not sure about that , since i never had any closely interaction with them, just met a few while studied one year in europe, but i guess most of girls from developed countries/cities are similar ( materialistically )
japanese girls are, taiwanese girls probably are too
hoang_1989
QUOTE (pureownage @ Aug 9 2009, 12:54 AM) *
define high-fashion for me ( post some pictures) ? let me see how highly fashinable the vietnamese are

as for the taiwanese girls are being shallow, im not sure about that , since i never had any closely interaction with them, just met a few while studied one year in europe, but i guess most of girls from developed countries/cities are similar ( materialistically )
japanese girls are, taiwanese girls probably are too


sorry but i dont mean to insult you. check out some magazines like Vogue, BlackBook, or websites like lookbook.nu to get an insight into the world of high fashion. i'm not telling that all vietnamese are into high fashion here in europe, but from all asians, i only personally know the vietnamese who does.
pureownage
QUOTE (hoang_1989 @ Aug 8 2009, 06:03 PM) *
sorry but i dont mean to insult you. check out some magazines like Vogue, BlackBook, or websites like lookbook.nu to get an insight into the world of high fashion. i'm not telling that all vietnamese are into high fashion here in europe, but from all asians, i only personally know the vietnamese who does.


i know magazines like Vogue and blackbook
you mean most of vietnamese dressed like the models in the magazine lol? post some photos
i lived near the vietnamesehood while my stay in Eirope and saw a lot of vietnamese ( many hundreds of them )
most of them dressed like 2pac wannabes or something like that
but they look kind of funny with their skinny bodies wearing in those loose t shirt and jeans
and most of their adults love to wear very tight jeans very disturbing

vietnamese are not very fashinable people from what i witnessed
ozm
QUOTE (pureownage @ Aug 8 2009, 06:35 PM) *
are you kidding me...taiwanese are actually very fashinable.....their sense of fashion in the 80's and 90s are as worse as the rest of east asian...even the japanese dress awfully in the 80s- 90s( i saw that on the 90s jp tv shows)

i visited taiwan 3 years ago...they dressed pretty decent....

but today, taiwanese are as fashionable as the japanese....

but vietnamse...even the ones in Europe and America dress like country fools.......

taiwanese will never date a vietnamese guy its true...

i never met a attractive viet guy in my whole life..... i only met some decent looking viet girls... but the guys are usually awful looking fi you know what i mena


Really? Don't mean to revive an old thread but I'm just curious as to why this would be true.
changxin
QUOTE (ozm @ Oct 2 2009, 06:14 AM) *
Really? Don't mean to revive an old thread but I'm just curious as to why this would be true.


Same reason why most taiwanese girls wouldn't like mainland chinese men, too poor.
SoCal
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mndeg
QUOTE (changxin @ Oct 2 2009, 03:48 PM) *
Same reason why most taiwanese girls wouldn't like mainland chinese men, too poor.

pretty much true. there are vietnamese mail order brides in Taiwan.
ozm
QUOTE (changxin @ Oct 2 2009, 03:48 PM) *
Same reason why most taiwanese girls wouldn't like mainland chinese men, too poor.

Is this truely what it all comes down to? Financial comfort?

QUOTE (mndeg @ Oct 2 2009, 04:01 PM) *
pretty much true. there are vietnamese mail order brides in Taiwan.

There are mail order brides everywhere in every 3rd world country. But hopefully this will change for VN soon.
Huax
QUOTE
big hairy and macho white guys.


They don't exist. The only hairy and macho white guys are usually dating other men or taking steroids.
SoCal
It's up to the Taiwanese and Vietnamese to decide for themselves. There is no point of forcing them to get with each other.
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