ive notcied asian girls seem to be anti social to people they dont know, one of my friends went up to some asian girl and started talking and gave that "Wtf Look" and just walked away

LOL owned. id guess that asians who already have their own clique dont really put much effort in making new friends in that way.

of course they are fine if a friend introduce them, but not a total random. the good thing about this system is if you are friends with even just a few popular people, you are going to keep meeting asians since most are connected. kind of like a sustained income.

Iono about other Asian cultures but as Koreans go, men aren't supposed to talk to women unless he has legitimate business with her or a mutual acquaintance introduced them.

Or maybe she just wasn't interested?

wut? who told you that?

I really don't like guys who start talking to me like we're actually close. I don't know who they think they are trying to kid. I just ignore their behavior and go on treating them politely and coolly, keeping them at a distance.


Nobody had to TELL me that; I'm Korean. If you go up to any random Korean girl in Korea and start talking to her like she's your friend then that means you're not too well-versed in Korean etiquette. If you wish to be, you can pick up a book on Korean etiquette for foreigners at a bookstore.

P.S. If you ever have dinner with your girlfriend's parents, don't face them when you take a swig of your drink. That's considered disrespectful.

thats cause asian girls are taught to that conservativeness is apart of being lady like. their mindset is different then westernize girls cause western women when u approach them with respect, they will look at u and think, mmmm he's fukable. asian girls be like, uh, i dont know u, please go away cause this is creepy.

Most Asian women I know are from introductions.
However there are a few who I met "randomly".
They were more American in culture and could accept new friends.

Do you want to meet more Asian women or date more Asian women?
You have to find more of a connection ... at work, the gym, school ....

haha is that why you hardly see AM/WF?

Hmm...Same here.

aka white washed sellouts?

Why you gotta be like that?

Does putting others down make you feel better about yourself?
Is your life really that pitiful?

oops sorry it wasn't meant to put you down @avisitor

Nah, it's just you.

thats not true. there is plenty am/wf couplings. i think culture and social issues are more of a factor then looks. the more assertive and more understanding of the majority culture, the more suited asian guys are of hitting on white females.

the correlation of 'respectful approach' and the "mmmm he's fukable" part was funny..
I made the allusion on that I think women would think that with a hot guy no matter what lol

Any woman prone to socialist media propaganda brainwash isn't worth the time of day. The ones that don't judge books by their covers are more likely to have a broader view on meeting people. Given my very cynical opinion on that, the women I meet are all very open to conversation and meeting new people, Asian or otherwise.

Of course I think this aspect has a lot to do with my location. Meeting new acquaintances and connection is part of Silicon Valley's survival tool.

not really, we were talking about judging covers, not books :p

I agree with you, but what do you mean by socialist media propaganda?

Your friend just aint cute enough

It's a term used here as a metaphor for expressing someone who thinks that only one way is right and who believes that what they see/hear from the media is certain to be correct. It's suppose to represent absolute control on beauty standards and beliefs etc....

Hard to explain I suppose....

I should just reiterate that part to 'Women who are brainwashed by the magazine beauty movement'.

Boys tell me they like girls with meat on them but then all these gay high fashion designers are pushing the 12 year old boy look at me and I think "well, these guy are the professionals... what do boys know about what looks good?"

he said "fu-kable" not "date/realtionshipable"

hmm

Yes, we western women have a different reaction when approached, but your fantasy that this is the first thing we consider is wrong ..... and BTW the reason you fail when you approach. We react to the what we percieve is your mindset. If we sense that is the only reason you approached, you're history quick.What is between your ears has to be working even better that what is between your legs.

OP, he probably ran into a proud North Chinese girl, who would shoot herself as soon as she would a foreigner.

nice topic ...interesting replies...


I am not sure about the Koreans or any other races....but from my experience in Malaysia women..............all has been said in all the posts above...



Asian women are just not too keen on meeting strangers...

Anyway one interesting story is that , there is this pretty gal(an ex colleague) whom her admirer court her for a year and still not getting any dates....so which guy from AF is that durable?? share share ur experience