for all the dudes on here

hmong chicks, what's it take for a guy to catch your eye?
whats a man gotta do to stand out from the crowd of boys?
what seperates him from the guy next to hium?

Mmmmm, it's almost new year.
Time to find a mate.

I'm not a chick, but I've had numerous times that girls have hit on me. I just keep clean cut and be myself. Somebody out there's going to notice you.

Clean cut, well dressed, confident looking. Tells alot about a person. Don't forget to smile!

Mmm, people think I'm weird when I smile.

First off, I like your avatar a lot : )

I'm not sure about answering them for all Hmong women but I'll answer them from myself.
Oh yeah, I'll leave religion out in your thread .

1. A man must have confidence. I don't want to be the one wearing the pants. He should be the main provider and protector. I don't want to be the one always defending and support him. I know some married men like this and it just doesn't seem right. It turns me off.

He should take care of his body meaning eat conservatively, exercise, and look decently presentable (no super long nappy hair, buns hanging out of pants, etc). One of my worst nightmare is seeing my husband grow a potbelly a year after marriage. NOOO!! That shows how much he cares about himself.. not much.

A book smart guy definitely catches my attention. If he can read, write, and speak in his own language well, that's a PLUS PLUS PLUS! Not many young Hmong people care to know how to read, write, or speak their own native language anymore, and when you find one, it's like a treasure. I like a guy who's not too lazy to think either, a guy who's ambitious and doesn't give up easily. It tells how much he'll be like if you marry him, he won't be a loser.

A guy who knows how to love and care for the people around him whether it's his family or friends or stangers. One who has compassion and will do something about people who are needy and not just sympathize them.

PATIENCE, that's one of the tops for me. I don't think I can get with someone who has no patience and gets easily mad or irritated. It shows how much he considers other people. I think I'm a pretty patient person too, so I would like someone who's just as patient and understanding.

RESPECT is also one the the tops. Gotta have respect for people even if you don't agree with them, which you don't have to, but at least don't be so rude about it. This is one thing I like about Asian cultures. Maybe I grew up Asian so I think like this but I do believe I see Asians with more manners than most Western cultures like when it comes to elders, entering someone's home, family, humility, and so on.
WOW, I typed down so much and haven't gotten to the second or third question. I guess I should end it here.. but I would like to say one more thing. It's not a must but I do like a guy with good grammar. I don't want to hear him say things like, "I don't got no time for me and my friend." That's BAD!

I guess I'll answer the last two questions someday, if ever. I notice I tend not to continue when I say I will or I'll try next time.

Was that any help? Am I asking too much? People tell me I do, but I'm not asking for anything impossible, am I? I'm only asking for the good things, things people wish they had more of anyway.

Oh.. and, I wonder why you ask these questions. Are you trying to *wink *wink... catch someone's attention, ey? Hehehe

just curious, i can only seem to attract ghetto girls for some reason...
what did you think of lil and leng when you met them?

^Why the evil/happy face?
What did I think of them? Teng was a gangsta and Leng cussed a lot for the first meeting .
They were pretty cool. I still wish we had hung out longer.

Did I answer your question?

Was it because of you that he cusses a lot? He might be trying to act cool. Haha, Most people talk clean, and only cuss every once in a while.

Is that what you really thought? That i'm just some hoodlum?

All girls want a thug....Mauahahahaha....except for havnim...lol...

Limping, in mysterious all black clothing, tough looking, who wouldn't think so?
JK.. You both were cool people. We should meet again in the future and Jedi should be there too.

I don't remember why I was limping. Did I say it was a huge black guy that threw me in Judo? I think that was around that time. I've limped outta the dojo a few times Health insurance would be wise I don't think i'm tough looking. I'm not aggressive and anyone would waste me if there was ever a fight lmao. Did I mention I've never been involved in a fight in my whole life! Even my sisters have fought. Mostly got along with everyone, and there was never a good enough reason to fight.

^Oh, stop spreading sweet cream cheese and dashing yourself with sprinkles. We know you're evil.

Forgot why you were limping. I just remember you had an injury in judo.

Yeap, it was the kaydoo guy then lol.

Those brutes! We'll get him back. Just watch...

It's all about game Ties, women in general like to be entertained and amused. If someone is bland and boring well lets say the odds are against them. Oh yeah, having a phat wallet and a nice ride do help as well...lol...You'll get bonus points for those...lol...