Heya mongol guy and gals out there....
i just want to understand ur culture...below are some culture that i understand from my mongolian gf..maybe u can clarify it for me ..thx...no offennse to any Mongol people out here....
i just need to know to understand her better....
Guys/gals are equal in Mongolia..
Drinking is normal in Mongolia.....everyone drinks...
from the age 16 till marriage, u can fool around....no regrets..
Marry at young age maybe 22-25 year old..
Full Version: Pls help me understand Mongolian culture
Hello Mr sixfulter, my wife is a Mongolian. I am a Moghul though.
Yes, definitely. Woman can be appointed as CEO now as well.
If you mean the Airag that is made from milk of horse/milk, that's cultural.
False allegation spread by Mongol-haters. Some people are loyal, some are virgin, some are not. It's not quite dissimilar from other nations.
Not necessarily true. Some girls marry late due to career. Some poor family may follow the young age marriage.
The summary, Mongols are a people with nice and unique tradition, culture and way of life. They are kind to guests, honorable in character and like any other human on the surface of this earth, deserve respect.
Humanity is but one family.
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Guys/gals are equal in Mongolia..
Yes, definitely. Woman can be appointed as CEO now as well.
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Drinking is normal in Mongolia.....everyone drinks...
If you mean the Airag that is made from milk of horse/milk, that's cultural.
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from the age 16 till marriage, u can fool around....no regrets..
False allegation spread by Mongol-haters. Some people are loyal, some are virgin, some are not. It's not quite dissimilar from other nations.
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Marry at young age maybe 22-25 year old..
Not necessarily true. Some girls marry late due to career. Some poor family may follow the young age marriage.
The summary, Mongols are a people with nice and unique tradition, culture and way of life. They are kind to guests, honorable in character and like any other human on the surface of this earth, deserve respect.
Humanity is but one family.
heya dude, thx for the replies..it was nice of u..
anyway me and that mongolian gf has just broken off...few days ago.... due to some problems which i will explain here...
to clarify.....drinking is drinking beer/liquor.....by the buckets...
anyway about the marriage part, i understand ur concern....
just that from my experience here in malaysia with the mongolian gals(18-22 year old) who come and study ....they are acting like sluts sleeping around with some many guys...
it saddens me a lot.....cause my ex gf is actually one of them....and i love her too much...it hurting me now......but i doubt she will change soon,
anyway me and that mongolian gf has just broken off...few days ago.... due to some problems which i will explain here...
to clarify.....drinking is drinking beer/liquor.....by the buckets...
anyway about the marriage part, i understand ur concern....
just that from my experience here in malaysia with the mongolian gals(18-22 year old) who come and study ....they are acting like sluts sleeping around with some many guys...
it saddens me a lot.....cause my ex gf is actually one of them....and i love her too much...it hurting me now......but i doubt she will change soon,
This thread fails. So acting "slutty" is apart of our culture is that what you're saying? Isn't that more of human nature than culture? Drinking, seems you need to slam a few back yourself and lighten up. And lastly, get the hell over it and move on.
Oh and to add that I sense the typical "I did nothing wrong, she's just a slut" type of thought you have about it, seeing as you think you could have done nothing to make it end yourself
Oh and to add that I sense the typical "I did nothing wrong, she's just a slut" type of thought you have about it, seeing as you think you could have done nothing to make it end yourself
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heya dude, thx for the replies..it was nice of u..
anyway me and that mongolian gf has just broken off...few days ago.... due to some problems which i will explain here...
to clarify.....drinking is drinking beer/liquor.....by the buckets...
anyway about the marriage part, i understand ur concern....
just that from my experience here in malaysia with the mongolian gals(18-22 year old) who come and study ....they are acting like sluts sleeping around with some many guys...
it saddens me a lot.....cause my ex gf is actually one of them....and i love her too much...it hurting me now......but i doubt she will change soon,
anyway me and that mongolian gf has just broken off...few days ago.... due to some problems which i will explain here...
to clarify.....drinking is drinking beer/liquor.....by the buckets...
anyway about the marriage part, i understand ur concern....
just that from my experience here in malaysia with the mongolian gals(18-22 year old) who come and study ....they are acting like sluts sleeping around with some many guys...
it saddens me a lot.....cause my ex gf is actually one of them....and i love her too much...it hurting me now......but i doubt she will change soon,
Mr Six, I am sorry to hear that. Well, I do not know the actual event that occurred between you and her, but some girls detect instantly if a guy merely interested in her body or really committed in the relationship. You should portray the attitude of an honorable man with dignity who love her not because of sex or else she will include you in the same category of "slutty man" who merely after her body.
Well, if you really love her, go and see her in Mongolia. Meet her parents and say that you love their daughter. I bet she will love you like heaven.
What are you waiting for? Buy a ticket and next week, fly to Mongolia. Period.
Humanity is but one family.
lol and if she has someone else by the time he makes that trip? If he's only going there for her then thats a waste really. Now if he would like to just be a tourist thats probablly a good idea. but just for that one girl, thats a dumb plan.
Well, guys ....like i said before.....the initial questions i was asking was from a Mongolian ex gf of mine(pure Mongol).....
Sorry, i dun mean to offend anyone..
then let me tell u the story...
I actualy opened a pub/cafe in a servised apartment condo..where all the residents are mostly from foreigners like iranina, kadksathan , ubekstanin, mongolian, korean, arabian, africans, whites and others
Well, for starters i wasnt the one who labeled them "sluts" in the first place....as i was working in my cafe......some of my customers told me those "Mongolian gals sleep with everyone"....and i did verify it with the other customers...cause there are about 6-10 mongolian gals in the block....in which most of them has slept with differ guys of background and race (mostly when they are drunk due to excessive alcohol taking)....
So when i meet my Mongolian gf, i trusted her fully and i gave her my heart as she assured me that she wasnt like tat....and even other people thinks she not suitable for me and using me...i told her i dun care what other ppl think.. TO ME, SHE WAS THE GREATEST GAL IN MY LIFE....as i love her very much..and i told her tat....
2 months of relationship, and i had spend full 2 months salary on her....so i was totally broke.....
ANyway Mr.Kenmirrz...i was planning to fly to Mongolia to see her parents initially....but when we broke up..i really didnt find the purpose of going there anymore..i brought her back to my house to meet my parents already...
One point to note tat i find Mongolia guys are rather sensible compared to the gals...in the condo....
Anyway i am moving on with my life, but i think i will need at least 1 year to forget her....(YES, I MAY SOUNDS LIKE A LOSER to some people here, but i wont quite care)
Sorry, i dun mean to offend anyone..
then let me tell u the story...
I actualy opened a pub/cafe in a servised apartment condo..where all the residents are mostly from foreigners like iranina, kadksathan , ubekstanin, mongolian, korean, arabian, africans, whites and others
Well, for starters i wasnt the one who labeled them "sluts" in the first place....as i was working in my cafe......some of my customers told me those "Mongolian gals sleep with everyone"....and i did verify it with the other customers...cause there are about 6-10 mongolian gals in the block....in which most of them has slept with differ guys of background and race (mostly when they are drunk due to excessive alcohol taking)....
So when i meet my Mongolian gf, i trusted her fully and i gave her my heart as she assured me that she wasnt like tat....and even other people thinks she not suitable for me and using me...i told her i dun care what other ppl think.. TO ME, SHE WAS THE GREATEST GAL IN MY LIFE....as i love her very much..and i told her tat....
2 months of relationship, and i had spend full 2 months salary on her....so i was totally broke.....
ANyway Mr.Kenmirrz...i was planning to fly to Mongolia to see her parents initially....but when we broke up..i really didnt find the purpose of going there anymore..i brought her back to my house to meet my parents already...
One point to note tat i find Mongolia guys are rather sensible compared to the gals...in the condo....
Anyway i am moving on with my life, but i think i will need at least 1 year to forget her....(YES, I MAY SOUNDS LIKE A LOSER to some people here, but i wont quite care)
QUOTE (sixfulter @ Oct 27 2009, 01:11 PM) 
Well, guys ....like i said before.....the initial questions i was asking was from a Mongolian ex gf of mine(pure Mongol).....
Sorry, i dun mean to offend anyone..
then let me tell u the story...
I actualy opened a pub/cafe in a servised apartment condo..where all the residents are mostly from foreigners like iranina, kadksathan , ubekstanin, mongolian, korean, arabian, africans, whites and others
Well, for starters i wasnt the one who labeled them "sluts" in the first place....as i was working in my cafe......some of my customers told me those "Mongolian gals sleep with everyone"....and i did verify it with the other customers...cause there are about 6-10 mongolian gals in the block....in which most of them has slept with differ guys of background and race (mostly when they are drunk due to excessive alcohol taking)....
So when i meet my Mongolian gf, i trusted her fully and i gave her my heart as she assured me that she wasnt like tat....and even other people thinks she not suitable for me and using me...i told her i dun care what other ppl think.. TO ME, SHE WAS THE GREATEST GAL IN MY LIFE....as i love her very much..and i told her tat....
2 months of relationship, and i had spend full 2 months salary on her....so i was totally broke.....
ANyway Mr.Kenmirrz...i was planning to fly to Mongolia to see her parents initially....but when we broke up..i really didnt find the purpose of going there anymore..i brought her back to my house to meet my parents already...
One point to note tat i find Mongolia guys are rather sensible compared to the gals...in the condo....
Anyway i am moving on with my life, but i think i will need at least 1 year to forget her....(YES, I MAY SOUNDS LIKE A LOSER to some people here, but i wont quite care)
Sorry, i dun mean to offend anyone..
then let me tell u the story...
I actualy opened a pub/cafe in a servised apartment condo..where all the residents are mostly from foreigners like iranina, kadksathan , ubekstanin, mongolian, korean, arabian, africans, whites and others
Well, for starters i wasnt the one who labeled them "sluts" in the first place....as i was working in my cafe......some of my customers told me those "Mongolian gals sleep with everyone"....and i did verify it with the other customers...cause there are about 6-10 mongolian gals in the block....in which most of them has slept with differ guys of background and race (mostly when they are drunk due to excessive alcohol taking)....
So when i meet my Mongolian gf, i trusted her fully and i gave her my heart as she assured me that she wasnt like tat....and even other people thinks she not suitable for me and using me...i told her i dun care what other ppl think.. TO ME, SHE WAS THE GREATEST GAL IN MY LIFE....as i love her very much..and i told her tat....
2 months of relationship, and i had spend full 2 months salary on her....so i was totally broke.....
ANyway Mr.Kenmirrz...i was planning to fly to Mongolia to see her parents initially....but when we broke up..i really didnt find the purpose of going there anymore..i brought her back to my house to meet my parents already...
One point to note tat i find Mongolia guys are rather sensible compared to the gals...in the condo....
Anyway i am moving on with my life, but i think i will need at least 1 year to forget her....(YES, I MAY SOUNDS LIKE A LOSER to some people here, but i wont quite care)
So you're basing this on 6 to 10 people and what a few customers say? Wow, really insightful pal. That's like saying the women of your ethnicity are total whorebags because I heard about 1 or 2 of them. You need to give it up before you start pissing people off, much like myself.
I also don't sympathise with your spending of money, that was your choice, and you made the stupid one.
Ah, I see your profile says you're chinese. That answers about everything, including the insulting rhetoric.
Yes, i am a malaysian chinese and i have no grudge against u, Mongols personally or culturally or anything...
Anyway for ur records, i asked some pure Mongolian housemate of theirs......and they said the same comments about the gals....
Anyway for ur records, i asked some pure Mongolian housemate of theirs......and they said the same comments about the gals....
I'm finding that theory weak. Thats like saying all chinese girls are sluts because a couple were slutty with me. 
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Well, guys ....like i said before.....the initial questions i was asking was from a Mongolian ex gf of mine(pure Mongol).....
Sorry, i dun mean to offend anyone..
then let me tell u the story...
I actualy opened a pub/cafe in a servised apartment condo..where all the residents are mostly from foreigners like iranina, kadksathan , ubekstanin, mongolian, korean, arabian, africans, whites and others
Well, for starters i wasnt the one who labeled them "sluts" in the first place....as i was working in my cafe......some of my customers told me those "Mongolian gals sleep with everyone"....and i did verify it with the other customers...cause there are about 6-10 mongolian gals in the block....in which most of them has slept with differ guys of background and race (mostly when they are drunk due to excessive alcohol taking)....
So when i meet my Mongolian gf, i trusted her fully and i gave her my heart as she assured me that she wasnt like tat....and even other people thinks she not suitable for me and using me...i told her i dun care what other ppl think.. TO ME, SHE WAS THE GREATEST GAL IN MY LIFE....as i love her very much..and i told her tat....
2 months of relationship, and i had spend full 2 months salary on her....so i was totally broke.....
ANyway Mr.Kenmirrz...i was planning to fly to Mongolia to see her parents initially....but when we broke up..i really didnt find the purpose of going there anymore..i brought her back to my house to meet my parents already...
One point to note tat i find Mongolia guys are rather sensible compared to the gals...in the condo....
Anyway i am moving on with my life, but i think i will need at least 1 year to forget her....(YES, I MAY SOUNDS LIKE A LOSER to some people here, but i wont quite care)
Sorry, i dun mean to offend anyone..
then let me tell u the story...
I actualy opened a pub/cafe in a servised apartment condo..where all the residents are mostly from foreigners like iranina, kadksathan , ubekstanin, mongolian, korean, arabian, africans, whites and others
Well, for starters i wasnt the one who labeled them "sluts" in the first place....as i was working in my cafe......some of my customers told me those "Mongolian gals sleep with everyone"....and i did verify it with the other customers...cause there are about 6-10 mongolian gals in the block....in which most of them has slept with differ guys of background and race (mostly when they are drunk due to excessive alcohol taking)....
So when i meet my Mongolian gf, i trusted her fully and i gave her my heart as she assured me that she wasnt like tat....and even other people thinks she not suitable for me and using me...i told her i dun care what other ppl think.. TO ME, SHE WAS THE GREATEST GAL IN MY LIFE....as i love her very much..and i told her tat....
2 months of relationship, and i had spend full 2 months salary on her....so i was totally broke.....
ANyway Mr.Kenmirrz...i was planning to fly to Mongolia to see her parents initially....but when we broke up..i really didnt find the purpose of going there anymore..i brought her back to my house to meet my parents already...
One point to note tat i find Mongolia guys are rather sensible compared to the gals...in the condo....
Anyway i am moving on with my life, but i think i will need at least 1 year to forget her....(YES, I MAY SOUNDS LIKE A LOSER to some people here, but i wont quite care)
My friend, I really feel for you. I know some girls indulged excessively in terms of sexual permissiveness. If you really love her. Contact and tell her that you still love her and could not forget about her. Inform her that you are going to Mongolia for visiting purposes, then, find some opportunity to meet up with her and her family. Man, this is an advice from a man. If you really feel that this girl is worth it and you can establish your life with her and entrusted her with your descendant, go and get her. Forget about criticizing other Mongolian girls, you mentioned that this girl is the best ever you have encountered in your life. Then why such pessimistic surrender? You decide your own fate.
PM me if you need more advice. Let her witness your sincerity and change her mind. It's no use lament about her and do nothing to win her heart again. If you really want to get her, go and prove your warrior spirit to her. Mongolia is worth a visit, a beautiful country. The people are nice.
Humanity is but one family.
lol. Nothing is ever that certain.
QUOTE (kenmirzz @ Oct 28 2009, 07:50 AM)
My friend, I really feel for you. I know some girls indulged excessively in terms of sexual permissiveness. If you really love her. Contact and tell her that you still love her and could not forget about her. Inform her that you are going to Mongolia for visiting purposes, then, find some opportunity to meet up with her and her family. Man, this is an advice from a man. If you really feel that this girl is worth it and you can establish your life with her and entrusted her with your descendant, go and get her. Forget about criticizing other Mongolian girls, you mentioned that this girl is the best ever you have encountered in your life. Then why such pessimistic surrender? You decide your own fate.
PM me if you need more advice. Let her witness your sincerity and change her mind. It's no use lament about her and do nothing to win her heart again. If you really want to get her, go and prove your warrior spirit to her. Mongolia is worth a visit, a beautiful country. The people are nice.
Humanity is but one family.
PM me if you need more advice. Let her witness your sincerity and change her mind. It's no use lament about her and do nothing to win her heart again. If you really want to get her, go and prove your warrior spirit to her. Mongolia is worth a visit, a beautiful country. The people are nice.
Humanity is but one family.
Mr.Kenmirzz, i am not trying to critisizing Mongolian gals directly or anything ....it is just that she told me these was mongolian culture...and i had to turned to this forum to verify it....and the conclusion was she explained the culture in her perspective....
At this point, we broken up and she has got another bf(i think)...cause during the relationship...there are many times she kept a secret of where is she.....as much as i love her, but she need to change in order for us to be together.........in which this 2 years i dun think she will change...as she is studying here for 2 years...
Now i am incapable financially to visit Mongolia....i will visit one day...and i will PM u...
Cause recently i am jobless, failed business , family pressure, broken relationships, ....so i am kind of in a bad situation now.....need some time to pick up financially....emotionally...
thx for ur understanding and sincere advice...
I thought it was customers telling you this? I'm not sure she'd tell you it's culture to be slutty. lol
Someone on MSN told me malays are faggots, does it make that true?
I'm not sure she'd tell you it's culture to be slutty. lolSomeone on MSN told me malays are faggots, does it make that true?
QUOTE (thehorsemen @ Oct 28 2009, 08:12 AM)
I thought it was customers telling you this? I'm not sure she'd tell you it's culture to be slutty. lol
Someone on MSN told me malays are faggots, does it make that true?
I'm not sure she'd tell you it's culture to be slutty. lolSomeone on MSN told me malays are faggots, does it make that true?
Yes, Malays are faggots...depends on how u want to called them..... in malaysia...the malay/muslims dun like the chinese and some other races.......although i am not sure which country of malays u are refering to...
Iranian muslims are quite okay...
Arab muslims no good
Actually this is wat my ex gf told me....."in my culture/country..if u are virgin when 18 years old, u are a loser......most boys and gals are play girls ...it ok...and it is okay to sleep with Mongolian gal on the first date"
Mr.Ken, i saw ur msg but i cant reply due to limitation of this forum...add me on msn or email me: sixfulter@yahoo.com
lol Your ex is BS'ing you. Theres no where in "culture" that says anything like that. And you're f'ing gullible to end up beleiving that.
i just want to know the truth ..tat all
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Actually this is wat my ex gf told me....."in my culture/country..if u are virgin when 18 years old, u are a loser......most boys and gals are play girls ...it ok...and it is okay to sleep with Mongolian gal on the first date"
I am unsure about this my friend. However, what she really means is that the permissiveness of Western norms has permeated the every day's life of rich Mongolian society. I doubt the Mongolian culture has the elements she mentioned. She is talking about the reality that happen nowadays. The Mongolian traditions and cultures do not encourage such things. Try to do that with a village girl in Mongolia and for sure you will be in great trouble.
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Yes, Malays are faggots...depends on how u want to called them..... in malaysia...the malay/muslims dun like the chinese and some other races.......although i am not sure which country of malays u are refering to...
Iranian muslims are quite okay...
Arab muslims no good
Iranian muslims are quite okay...
Arab muslims no good
Spread love, not hate. If religion is the source of disunity, discard them for greater good. The Malays are not faggot and this lies must be corrected. Malays, Arabs and Iranian will be better if they are willing to throw away the religion into the dustbin of history.
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i just want to know the truth ..tat all
Don't loose hope, fight for your own just/love cause if you call yourself a warrior. Sitting around and complaining won't do any better for both of you. Call her and call her and call her and email her and email her, repetitively. Let's her heart that as hard as stone melt.
Humanity is but one family.
thx
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