do you guys find dating and meeting girls to be very time consuming and effort and at the end you might not even get long term partner or even gf.

so what happens. you have to find another girl and start from scratch. your not even sure if the next girl you ask out or meet will even work out. it might just last for 3 dates or might last more till you find out shes was seeing another guy ontop of you. who nows

i went out with this girl for 3 dates. first time we met was at bus stop and she seems talktive and friendly so i got her email and we met up for coffee and walk in park, after the 3rd time hanging out i notice shes not as writing as much on her emails-very brief and msn shes doesn't reply back or very late. when it comes to the weekend and hanging out -she puts her friends as priority and if nothing is going with her friends then she hangs out with me
what can i do. start again and find another one and start all over again

don't you guys find it frustrating,. having to meet girls and find girls not nowing if its going to last and you might be just wasting your time -for what nothing.


i went out and met so many girls i met off the online dating and some randomly in library, bookstore, bus stop and exchange emails and at most it just last for one coffee date and some 3 dates.
you just have to keep going at it over and over again. its like tele-marketing job, everyone just says no to you.
even the girl you asking out you not even sure whats shes really thinking. i like this guy or i like this guy for the freebies or yea i just hanging out with him for friend since i am new in town or what

Yeah.....you're definitely doing something wrong.

Dating is fun, as is. It works or it doesn't. I think you are forcing it too much, relax and just let it hang free.

it frustating ....alright....

lol....

try dating an asian gal..........since u are white...they might be more interested in u..

Hey you joined in may of '05 and you only have less than 400 posts?
Where have you been?

Your situation seems to be that you don't know how to interest the girl beyond point of friendship.
It is tough to always be the nice guy and not get the girl.
Please don't be one of those fustrated people.
You can go on line and take courses on PUA (Pick Up Artist) ... there is some good info there.

If that isn't the way for you then you're going to have to change yourself.
Make yourself look cleaner and more handsome??
Get your rap or your story straight so women will find you interesting???
Then, you have got to find a way to reach their hearts??????

Some people say just be yourself and your miss right will come ...lol
Just go out and have fun. Stop thinking about if this will last for more than three dates.
Show genuine interest in her and don't be afraid to hold hands or ask for a good nite kiss.

Good luck

lol...avisitor advice is always so long and so right ..hear him out

Yes, it's really frustrating.

Don't get frustrated. Just have fun. When you stop taking it so serious, you'll probably find a serious relationship.

Damnn, you should have kicked him in the balls homie.

Stop looking ...