Heya guys and gals,


Based on my experience, gals mostly change after becoming ur gf....why?

i mean change in respect of like dun hang out in usual places when dating......like the gals demand more and better....

Any ideas?

You're dating the wrong type of women???

Yeah

Id say maybe because she's falling in love with you and things do change when you go into a committed relationship, I guess people dont follow it anymore but couples never questioned it back in the 50's before then most of them, they knew about respect of relationships and marriage.
It's a responsabilty when you hold someones heart,life, time,dreams,body,dignity,life in your hands and she gives you the trust not to break them.Trust as in gave her heart and hopes you dont break it.

One thing is really it's good to test once and a while to see if your being faithful, to check once and a while , trust builds in time, the more she finds you innocent, the more happy she'll be and the more she'll trust you and the less she will check on you.So as long as you lover her back, you have nothing to worry about unless you have like Advisor said, the wrong girl or maybe shes the right girl but hes the wrong man.

Everything gets tiresome after a while. When you are first dating (chasing) everything is new, it's exciting, you are still learning about each other. I would wager most people are at 90-110% at this juncture trying to impress and win the hearts of the other person.

Most times; once in a relationship most people get lazy, they stop trying thinking that they already have what they were working so hard to get. For some couples both parties get like this and they adapt together into a routine relationship. Sometimes one person gets lazy (by the way I am using the word lazy as a generalization for everything a person doesn't do that they should in a relationship).

I know I have taken women for granted and in time they lost interest altogether.

Maybe it's not them that have changed but you did in how you treat them, what you say. Maybe she is just accustomed to how you treated her when you were trying to court her and expects the same intensity as when you were dating.

It's a very delicate thread this keeping of interest. Either it seems as if one person stops caring or the other just needs to realize that relationships have many stages and no one is that static that they are always going to be as perfect as during the time you are dating.

I hope this made sense, it does in my head and from experience I could probably tell you all of this speaking but I am typing really fast and am not so attentive this evening, sorry.

That's what females do.

Weird to think that a sex kitten will become a soccer Mom.

But that's life.

and that's why it's best to be a "hit it, quit it" type of guy. I basically fu-k a girl then never call her. It's just best that way.

You know what's the basic problem between men and women ?

Women marry men because she hope she can change him better over time (reduce all the bad habits, laziness...). Unfortunately, years after years since marriage. nothing happen ...

Men marry women and pray that she will forever stay the same (still look pretty, ferminine ...) ... But oh well ...

Lol...i think u miss the point of the thread



Lol...i think u miss the point of the thread





U miss the point too , bach..

Keep them completely sexually satisfied and dominated, and they'll continue to be whatever you want them to.

^ yep we like cuddles and so on also faithfulness haha