good and bad things about marry a vietnamese girl in vietnam...

good things:

- Are not westernize

- care more for family

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Are you saying Xigon is too westernized and not caring about family?

a good girl for me dont discuss politics

@lau: then better don't choose one, good Vietnamese girl discussing about science and politic like crazy... You can see them everywhere on the net...

lol are you sure, how many girls on this forum do???

I mean Vietnamese girls live in Vietnam as topic title mention...

if you want beauty, you will have a bigger selection of viet girls in viet nam. there are not as many viet girls in the west. But the good thing is viet girls are usually very pretty.

I recommend viet girls with soft spoken north vietnamese accent.

yes its much easier to find a beautiful girl in vietnam today. you can find them in cafe, shopping centre, clubs, bar...
girls in vietnam like to date older guys....

Con is they only care for money and if you are Viet Kieu

I smell a troll here

This fool basically says he wants an attractive girl with no intelligence and no knowledge so the only thing she can do is bearing children and doing house chores for him. He'd enjoy dominant power in the family and freely cheat on his wife without her knowing or questioning him about it. He's not looking for a soulmate, he's looking for a servant.

he is a fool for love

Xixon, yêu là khó, không yêu là lo, thà chịu khó chứ không chịu lo.

=) I'm here to disagree with you. A girl who doesn't know politics doesn't mean she's unintelligent or unknowledgeable. I know many girls who are intelligent but know very little politics.

To tell the truth, I don't exactly like girls who are into politics either. The majority of them who like politics are on the tomboy side - this is based on my own personal experience. I have my guy buddies to talk politics with. I like it if I talk with my girls with something else =)

Viet girls in Vietnam are the sweetest when you hold a conversation with them. Their modesty, charm and fine social finesse can make you melt. They seem to have that girly persona that western girls lack. Viet girls that's been westernized in the US seem so indifferent to you when you try to talk to them. I guess western society and their beliefs in equality took away some of their girly charm and manners.

I happen to know lauman for years here and from his posts in the past, he doesn't sound like a nice sincere guy who wants to look for a true soulmate.

xixon do not jealous

xixon are you romantic? beccause viet kieus are handsome and romantic.

jealous với strongbad tại vì strongbad được SoCal sủng ái hả? Còn lâu

And btw that saying should be

Yêu thì khổ
Không yêu thì lỗ
Thà chịu khổ
Chứ không chịu lỗ

not pretty and not intelligent. do you want me to introduce xixon to you?

xixon, being in love can be difficult, but if you are not in love, you worry would you ever find love, but its rather better to be in difficult love than to sit and worry if you will ever find love.

you are telling me most single people are lỗ? its makes more sense that most single people all want to find love, so theyall worry about finding love, so its rather better to face love have love, be in love no matter how difficult it maybe, because love is a compromise between two people.

is socal a girl?

Gender Discrimination You think we're too dumb to talk about politics with you guys


sao không lo chuyện mình trước? thứ thái giám như asean.asia thì vượn cái nó còn không thèm chứ đừng mơ tới người.

xixon replied to me. that is what i called a 10.0 earthquake.

Không yêu is lỗ because you won't be able to enjoy the most wonderful feelings that love brings to you. That's lỗ.

But to love is to suffer. That's the common wisdom of humans.

Mine makes more sense than yours, so shut up.


SoCal is a guy. Why? You thought he's a female during your many times of "ân ái phu thê"?



Luckily you're already a thái giám, so you won't feel "cấn" when you fall during the earthquake.

yours should be

having a husband thì khổ
Not having a husband thì lỗ
Thà chịu khổ
Chứ không chịu lỗ

The only reason having a husband would be khổ is because of mấy thằng lăng nhăng như strongbad. Since I won't marry a guy like strongbad, I don't have to worry about it.

Simple... i want a super beautiful lolita android.

It cannot betray me... no matter what... i don't want to betray a lolita either...

strongdad can go for xixon, since no one is competing against strongdad for xixon. a sure bet.

Man is something that is very mysterious, they are not easy...

Best choice is young boys instead of these old guys....

May as well get these




Right right

Con trai giỏi nhất hứa liều

Trước mặt con gái đủ điều hứa suông

Con trai ăn nói luông thuông

Trên trời dưới đất diễn tuồng thật hay

Con trai giả bộ giả say

Gặp con gái đẹp ... tỏ bày lời yêu

Con trai cái miệng nói nhiều

Trong lòng rỗng toét chứ yêu nỗi gì

Con trai có tánh rất lì

Ði cua con gái , cây si đứng trồng

Con trai thường chẳng thật lòng

Yêu sàm , yêu xở lòng vòng khó tin

Con trai tật xấu linh tinh ...

Vậy mà cứ tưởng đâu mình là ngoan

Con trai hết sức ngang tàng

Em em ngọt sớt ... rồi nàng nhớ nhung

Con trai quậy phá lung tung

Trời ơi đất hỡi .... anh hùng một cây

Con trai tóm lại hết xài

Mới nhìn thấy ghét.. nhìn hoài "ghét" thêm

GOT BEEF FOIG?

well girls like xixon only want a husband for some personal gain, guys like strongbad are natural lovers, but love can be difficult, but as difficult as it maybe, strongbad would rather suffer it.


if a vietnamese guy loved his country he would suffer any difficult outcome instead of sitting there worrying about what foreigners will do to him and his country.

Ừ natural born lover như strongbad là thế này nè

"Trái tim chín lỗ chứa vô số nàng
Đàn ông đứng đắn đàng hoàng
Gặp ai cũng love mới là đàn ông
Đàn ông một mực thủy chung
Tay ôm cô Xuyến lại thương cô Hồng
Đàn ông sau trước một lòng
Một cô chưa đủ nên cần có hai"

Xigon enjoy discussing politic and loves to create Viet history as well.

Thank for the suggestion but, i'm not into Sex-doll, i love doll though.

I love android...

That is why i told you... young boy is much much more reliable than old man right?...ops...

hey xigon how much do you know about men/boys? if a man is rich do you think he will choose a hot girl or a nice girl/ soulmate you refer to?
and the same for the girl, if she was beautiful do you think she will choose a handsome/rich man or a nice guy??
thats why you see actress and singer in vietnam always married rich or handsome man. this is because they know they are beautiful than average people, and they have the choice.
if you are less attractive you dont have much choose, thats why you have to find a nice guy.

only stupid girls think their boyfriend are differents...xigon if you have a boyfriend go ask him if he want to married miss vietnam Mai phuong Thuy, I am sure he will say "yes"
and remember he does not know her personally. he just take her for her look.

and I am sure that there are many guys out there that want to find a hot sweet secretary girl than a intelligence knowledge Manager girl.

sorry I am just honest.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, brah. Plus, it's what's inside that counts. You can marry a hot b!tch any day

does that mean an intelligence knowledge girl can not be a b!tch???


and going for a hot/beautiful girl does not mean you are looking for a b!tch. I will always take a girl with 8 in look and good personality than a girl with 9-10 in look but act like a b!tch.
but I will not go for a girl with 5-6 in look and have the best personality.

everydoby can use the mouth to say its what's inside that counts, but you never see good looking/average people want to date ugly people with super best personality.
its like to hear supermodel say, I dont care about how I looks, its not important..
or rich people say I dont care about money, money its not important..

How does that response got anything to do with the original point I talked about? Is your head full of bả đậu? Whoever you consider attractive and will marry is not in discussion here, but what I talked about was how you treat the girl you marry. You obviously won't treat her as a soulmate because if you do, you would let her freely explore and discuss about whatever she likes if that's her interest. But you don't. You obviously won't want her to place her hands into your businesses either. You just want her to bear children and take care of you. You can marry a beautiful girl with good personality and treat her with respect, let her do whatever she can as long as it doesn't bring any harm. Anyway most girls in Vietnam today have strong personality and they're always ready to place their hands into businesses that are thought to be traditionally preserved for men. Hey, this is not a new trend. Viet women in the past have often been like this. Good luck with finding a docile girl who does little besides house chores and bearing children. Such girls who pretend to be docile and please you are only after your money. Tadaa.

Btw you better stop "suy bụng ta ra bụng người". Just because you got a superficial brain, it doesn't mean all other guys are like you. If my boyfriend were like what you said then I wouldn't have been with him in the beginning. Oh stop telling me how I don't know him. I know him more than you do. I've acquainted other guys who are quite good-looking, come from good families, and do well in school, but I rejected their date invitations because I knew they were like what you said. They like girls first for the physical attractiveness, then personality second. Such men wouldn't be loyal so there's no point of dating in the first place, they will only break your heart later when they find someone more attractive than you. You can say that majority of men in this world are like you, which is why I rejected lots of them, but not all of them are like you and I know the one I chose isn't. That person loves his girl for the kind of innermost person she is, not for her intelligence, her attractiveness, nor her temperament.

Can you be more specific, in terms of what, your question is so vague it's hard to answer.

I would tend to think each Vietnamese girl in Vietnam is unlike the girl next to her. So how do you want to generalize?

stop lying xixon

it is like Chung Vô Diệm being picky on her selection.

If a person is smart, he/she would look for a potential mate any where.

hold on a second. So basically you're implying that you're physically attractive? Sorry but please don't embarrass Vietnamese men and women (or any other Asian men and women for that matter) like that. You're average looking at best. Look at your avatar. And avatar is quite small. I'm sure you'll look way worse if we get to see a better quality and medium size picture of you because then we'll see more of the flaws you have. You cannot tell me you're physically attractive from that avatar of yours. Your face is not what physically attractive Vietnamese/Asian women look like even with a small avatar like that. Physically attractive Vietnamese/Asian women look a lot better than you. You're making Vietnamese women look bad and ugly, and you're making rich, good background Vietnamese men look bad because I'm sure you're not physically attractive to them. If you say you're physically attractive, then you're making Vietnamese women look ugly.

Let's be honest here. You look like a 12 year old anorexic boy in your picture. No one in their right mind would call you physically attractive. Average looking, maybe, but not physically attractive and definitely not hot. Now please stop embarrassing the Vietnamese/Asian community.

I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. I saw your comment yesterday but I tried to hold it in. Now I can't help it but to reply.

You don't need to be so mean. Let her live in her fantasy world.

LMAO These low-life bastards here are funny. First of all, I don't care whether you think I'm attractive through avatars. Second of all, I never insisted I was. And third, I don't need to lie about these sorts of things. What's the point? I merely told somebody to not use his mentality to judge the rest of the guys in this world. As for you, LeslieYeung, you need to stop patrolling Viet Chat. Aren't you supposed to be in bed having sex with your hottest whores? kekeke

I know you didn’t say outright that you’re physically attractive. You implied it, which is even worse. You said the rich, good looking Viet men you encountered are superficial and care about physical attractiveness first. Then you said that these same Viet men asked you out on dates. Being the shallow, superficial men that they are, they must have only asked you out because you’re physically attractive. This means that you think you’re physically attractive to be able to get these superficial men to ask you out. Am I right?

I’m not saying you’re lying that these Viet men asked you out. I’m implying that those men are not as superficial and shallow as you say they are. If they are that superficial and only cared about looks, there’s no way they would’ve asked you out because you’re nowhere near to being physically attractive. You get me now? Geez.

Oh and I ain’t LeslieYeung. Would I be praising the looks of Vietnamese if I was him? If I’m LeslieYeung, I would highly praise you as a hot girl by Vietnamese standards to bring down the general attractiveness of Viet girls. Use your brain. I hate conceited people like you who have nothing to be conceited about. Please girl, you ain’t physically attractive by any Asian standard.

"guys who are quite good-looking, come from good families, and do well in school"

Did I say they were rich? Did I say they were Viet? LMAO Should I start mentioning the ethnicities of those guys? Why the hell are you so insecure?

And if you really like a girl for who she is, you wouldn't ask her to dinner alone after only a few days of meeting her because a few days aren't enough for you to get to know the kind of person she is. I'm not walking on the night road with any guy only to have him leave me walking that road alone in the next few weeks. I'm not sitting in any park or any restaurant with any guy knowing that he'll be gone by the next month. Sorry if I offended you, okay?

You're right. I just assumed the guys you were talking about were Viet. That was my fault, so I apologize. No I don't care the ethnicities of those men. My views stay: You're not physically attractive by any Asian standard so I can care less their ethnicities.


That's your own thoughts about those men and I can care less. What annoyed me was that you clearly implied you're physically attractive when you're not. That was what irked me.

I agree with SoCal. Continue living in your fantasy world. I was simply here to snap you out of your delusion. This is my last post to you because I don't want to waste my time having a conversation with you.

That wasn't what I implied. You just took it the wrong way. I guess it's not out of ordinary here for somebody to misunderstand another person's post. I'm sorry for causing all this to you.

and if a person is not pretty and not smart. hello xixon

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgAaRf1W3AI