QUOTE (charizardpal @ Mar 31 2011, 03:10 PM)

Oh and suppose you were gay for whatever reason, and being gay provided you with pleasure? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that pleasure simply because it made them uncomfortable. (In other words, the happiness gained by a single couple is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some would try to break up that couple anyway.) Maintaining an anti-gay culture creates a higher net loss.
(Incidentally, I recently visited San Francisco but I didn't see any gays. I did find a lot of yuri and yaoi manga in their nihonmachi though it was going for almost double the price of what it would have been in Japan.)
I see no requirement for the society or anyone to convince themselves that this behavior is not repulsive, if they believe it is repulsive in the first place. Let's see how your argument work.
Oh and suppose you like incest for whatever reason, and being incestuous provided you with pleasure? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that pleasure simply because it made them uncomfortable. (In other words, the happiness gained by a single sibling/parent/children pairing is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some would try to break up that pairing anyway.) Maintaining an anti-incest culture creates a higher net loss.
Oh and suppose you like having sex with dead corpse for whatever reason, and doing so provided you with pleasure? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that pleasure simply because it made them uncomfortable. (In other words, the happiness gained by a single person/dead corpse pairing is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some would try to break up that pairing anyway.) Maintaining an anti-necrophilia culture creates a higher net loss.
Oh and suppose you practice bestiality for whatever reason, and fu-king animals provided you with pleasure? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that pleasure simply because it made them uncomfortable. (In other words, the happiness gained by a single animal/human pairing is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some would try to break up that couple anyway.) Maintaining an anti-bestial culture creates a higher net loss.
Oh and suppose you like taking cocaine shots for whatever reason, and doing so provided you with pleasure? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that pleasure simply because it made them uncomfortable (think it is a bad influence). (In other words, the happiness gained by a single person is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some would try to break up this arrangement anyway.) Maintaining an anti-drug culture creates a higher net loss. The society should encourage maximal net happiness and provide the drugs for free.
Oh and suppose you were infatuated with pubescent girls for whatever reason, and being a lolicon provided you with pleasure? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that pleasure simply because it made them uncomfortable. (In other words, the happiness gained by a single couple is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some would try to break up that couple anyway.) Maintaining an anti-pedophilia culture creates a higher net loss.
Oh and suppose you like killing animals for whatever reason, and killing animals provided you with pleasure? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that pleasure simply because it made them uncomfortable. (In other words, the happiness gained by a single person is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some would try to break up that couple anyway.) Maintaining an culture creates a higher net loss.
Oh and suppose you like seeing people die (the person dying through disease or suicide or self-consent) for whatever reason, and doing so provided you with pleasure? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that pleasure simply because it made them uncomfortable/morally-disgusted. (In other words, the happiness gained by a single person is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some will ostracize that person anyway.) Maintaining an anti-? culture creates a higher net loss.
Oh and suppose you want to commit suicide with a group of people for whatever reason, and doing so will provide you with pleasure or release? In that case it would be wrong for another person to compel you to give up that action simply because it made them uncomfortable. (In other words, the happiness gained by these group of people is greater than the harm imposed on the many, and yet some would try to break up that suicide pact anyway.) Maintaining an anti-suicidal culture creates a higher net loss.
(There is more, if you want more)
Unless you are the paragon of tolerance/liberalism and are willing to remove all your repulses, (whatever you dislike/hate, if it is possible to convince yourself that it does not affect you, then it should be criminalized to dislike it), I see no reason for me or anyone else who wish to maintain their views to change it, just because it is the CURRENT FASHION.