I watch way too much Jerry S... Show
And on the shows, it seems everyone cheats on their loved ones
Reasons vary from being bored .. to nagging .. to being drunk

Being married for a long time, I've experienced all these excuses but never once have I ever wanted to cheat

Would you cheat???
Also, if you caught someone you know cheating ... would you tell???

Awww.. that's good!! : ) <3
I'm afraid when I get married my husband will cheat on me :'(.. Do most married guys cheat and flirt?

If I cheat, I think I would/should tell my husband. I want to be honest with him.

I wouldn't tell on the person who cheated.. yet.. but I will talk with the person first. If he or she doesn't stop cheating after the first few talks, the spouse of the cheater should know.

I would cheat on my husband if I felt like he deserved it.

I wouldn't cheat. And I wouldn't tell if someone I know is cheating, its their business. I dont want to be part of their drama.

^You you have wanted your friends to tell you if they saw your wife cheating on you?

Of course, but I specified if MY friend was doing the cheating, i wouldnt say anything. If my friends wife was cheating, hell ya I'd tell him.

Those are what they all say................if they cheat, it becomes a different story.

Some guys just don't think ...
And when some pretty little thing comes along, they just go with the flow ...
Later, its all "I'm sorry babe. She meant nothing to me"


That gets me ... if she meant nothing then why did you throw away your relationship on that nothing???
I see a little sweetness thrown my way (flirting) and my natural reaction is "Oh, my wife is ..." End of story.
Even if there is no chance of ever getting caught, I don't go there.

no i won't cheat.

and no i won't tell. i'm not a rumor like old lady.

So, no one here wants to cheat but there's so much cheating going on.
I guess AF guys are faithful? LOL!! I'm kidding.. but really, a lot of people say they won't cheat but.... Yeah, what Avisitor said. I agree with him.

Am I doubting too much?

well would it be more believable if I said I never cheated physically before? I have cheated emotionally but that doesn't count. I kept it under control.

No, it's against my morals

It's more believable. Good to know you don't give in.

never saw the point of cheating. things are good then why cheat? if they are so bad that i want to cheat then that relationship has run its course. either way, theres no need to cheat.

Cheaters end up getting screwed in the long run..so I would suggest that everyone try to stay out of it. Love the person you are with!

why not? i'd like to add a bit of spice to life's drama.

Hey Krateros how have you been? its good to see your still here

we can cheat together if you like

id only do it to get back at them

^ 2 wrongs dont make a right.

yo wassup buddy. i know it's been a while since i've been to this chat. i mostly hung out in CJK chats in the past few months

no thank you. have fun with ur hello kitty.

Cheers to you!

Personally I would never cheat... No matter what.
I dont flirt either. When I have someone I give them my all.

If I saw someone cheating I would confront them and give them a chance to come clean, if they didnt, then yes I would tell. Secrets like that can only get worse with time.

If you did cheat, wouldn't you feel ashamed about it afterwards?

Absolutely Not!

If I was at the point of cheating, it would be with no regrets, or shame.

^ Atta girl! Cheat when you don't care if you guys break up anymore.

but it sure feels great afterwards lol!

aww you hurt my feelings

My wife once asked me if I would be jealous and what would I do if I saw her flirting or cheating
I told her that if I ever saw her flirting or cheating that I would be calm and confront her and found out the reason
But, I also said that it was only a cold logic answer.
Rather that I would more likely kill them both then kill myself in a jealous rage.

It is all too easy to calm say what you would or wouldn't do
But, when the real deal comes along, do you pass the test or do you go off??
If you got that beautiful person rubbing up against your horny body ...
What are you gonna do?? ..

I wouldn't cheat...

Flirt maybe.

But never outright cheat on someone....

Swim away fugu fish swim away.....

On a serious note... Im good at resisting temptation.... and there have been BIG temptations in my past but I simply "removed my hand from the fire"

Still wouldn't cheat still wouldn't kill. I'm 99% sure I can pass the test.

Wow, it seems that I'm the only one who feels passion so strongly
To care enough to say that "if you cheat then I may have to kill you"
It isn't about actually doing it.
It is about feeling the emotions of love and desires.

I've had that young thing rub up against me and make me so horny ...
And, I had so much wanted to do something about it
However, I love my wife so much that I just let the flirting be only flirting and then move on

Flirting isn't cheating if you keep it in your pants
And I don't mean lap dances ..

^Since you are married, you may be the only person that has truly been in love. *shrugs*

You dont gotta be married to be in love^^

good

You don't but statistically a long lasting marriage will more likely be "true love" than anything else.

I'll never physically cheat, but I have emotionally cheated. Sometimes, you just can't help whom you fall for.

When i was traveling with my business partner, there were those who were sure I was cheating on my husband. They were wrong - after 15 years we had agreed on an open arrangement. Miraculously, we both decided to leave for someone else at the same time. The ex is still married to the "other woman" and he and I are still friends. I know - weird!

you were married for 15 years?

haha taln is old.

i used to cheat on my previous boyfriend for the lame and immature reason of wanting to get back on him for cheating on me...
but that was self-destructive...

we broke up and i am happy with someone..very happy.. i would never cheat on this one..

Better to break up than to cheat.

To a musician - and that was 14.5 years longer than the 1st one who was caught cheating and kicked out immediately.


yep, but its your repetition that is beginning to sound like alzheimers.

i've been doing too much self-medicating this week. i can't even remember half of what i say on here.

@TALN:
Now I'm curious. How old are you, Taln?

In person, I answer that without hesitation. But since no one else is disclosing theirs, let's just say the odds are good that I am more than a decade older than most of the people I converse with.
I graduated from college in 1974, but I was by far the youngest college senior on campus. It wasn't even legal for me to drink yet - such a bummer!

you gotta be at least 60.

and you have a pokemon avatar.

no

There is no honor in it. If your relationship isn't working then just break up. I am not a fan of Sharia Law but I do like how those who commit adultery get punished. Although I believe "stoning them to death" is excessive.

Cheating has never been about honor or pride or anything noble
People cheat because it is available, easy, and don't think of anyone but themselves
As a baby to toddler, many are taught to think only about themselves
So these cheaters never grew up and didn't learn that there are other people with feelings


Would I tell? No, I won't tell.
It isn't my business.
And, what is a happy marriage so far .. can continue as happy ...
Am I wrong? I'm not trying to protect the cheater .. just to protect the marriage

I been with my bf for almost 7 years I caught him cheating on me 2 and half years ago, I can't get over it, I do love him he a nice guy he does everything for me, but at the same time I don't know if it will last I know he loves me but how do i get over him cheating on me?