He didnt mean to hes just a flirt
isnt that charming?


how do I stop being really pissed off at him?

listen to some sad break-up music

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdNOCj_35Po

(stifling the snarl) I know one of those! It's cold comfort, but at least give him credit for acknowledging he's a jerk and hurt someone.

Why stop being pissed at him? Let the righteous anger run it's course. You have a right to it. Better to let it burn out than try to smother it.

but me being mad isnt going to do any good do


i perfer to listen to super upbeat happy music ehrn im sad
ive done enough crying in my lifetime its pointless and gives me a sore throat :p

Accepting that you are angry and have a good reason to be is how to make it burn out faster. No it will not change the circumstances, but it will keep you in a healthy frame of mind.
And I have found that some sort of physical exertion speeds up venting the rage without harming anyone or anything.

true but part of me feels kinda bad for him

once u get some perspective and self-esteem and open your mind up to better men out there...then you won't care. in fact you'll be pissed off at yourself for being so hung up on him

It happens. The first time I met a flirt, I felt tricked. You learn with experience, so treat it as an experience. Now, I'm much more careful in learning more about the guy before I start to like him

I think just know where you're at with someone.
Flirting or having fun with flirts is fine as long you know that's all it is. It's a two way thing huh?

Then when you meet the right person, then pour your heart and soul into it. Even then, be careful. People change.

He must have done more than just flirt to cause this much anger.
Breaks your heart and says he is just a flirt ... no, you were misled ...strung along
like a necklace of rosary beads ...

Get over it?
Work through the anger and find someone else
It is hard to be hung up on someone if you're having a good time with someone else
Yeas, have lots of sex ... that helps too ... ps, please use a condom or many condoms

could it be your fault too for going after something that wasnt there?

Just shrug it off, and know that you'll find someone more worthy of your time.

Forgive him for his transgressions.
This will help you let go of the anger
And move on ...

I've never had a guy break my heart .. I do all the heart breaking hehehe. It's hard to not break a guys heart when you have so many other options. It really is a curse haha. I dont think i will break my bf's heart though cause I love him and hes so hot!

As you live your life, you will be presented with many opportunities
One of them is to learn about the broken heart.
Please remember this too shall pass ...

Finding another significant other is the quickest way to forget/get revenge/stop being angry, that I have found out.

Theres also the realization that he's complete trash, not worthy of your feelings. "Best Thing I never had" by Beyonce, ENJOY! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WwMsWjrlu54...AB8&index=5