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LittleDeathAngel
Korean girls don't associate with other asian guys do they?

I am not sure if I am over-thinking this or not.

I will just tell you and let you decide.

There are these korean girls at my school.

These girls tend to hang in their little "groups" and only use korean.

The only people I see them talk to are other korean girls, korean guys, and white guys.

I had one of them in a class I before and had bumped into them a few times across campus.

They seem to go out of their way to avoid me.

Everytime in class, she would take the seat farest away from me.

When she was unfortunate enough to sit near me, she would ask people two or more seats away for help when I am next to her.

When I bump into her in the hallways, she darts the other away.

When we look at the same bulletin board, she walks away when I go up to it.

I get the feeling that either they are looking down on me or are embarassed to be near me.

They seem to talk to white guys and korean guys though.

The funny thing is, I have been to more than one college and in each of those colleges, all the korean girls act the same way.

Can someone shed some light on this?

Also, I had a few experiences when korean people came up to me and thought I was korean, then walked away after finding out I am not.

("Friendly" to "I don't want to have anything to do with you.")

I did an experiment one time and only said "I don't know how to speak korean." instead of "I am not korean."

Since almost every Asian person mistakens me for being korean.

The result was mind-blowing. O_O

It went from "Friendly" to "OMG. I JUST FOUND A SUPERAWESOME GUY. I AM GOING TO CALL YOU BIG BROTHER AND INTRODUCE YOU TO ALL MY FRIENDS." in 2 seconds...

He went and introduced me to his korean friends. They wanted me to join them in parties and stuff.

They were even generous enough to buy me drinks. (I declined the offer though.)

In my mind, I was like.....

"WTF?!?!?!?! How come the treatment is so different to non-koreans?!?!?"

I need someone to shed light on this too. >_>

After dragging me around for 30 minutes, I told them I was not korean.

Then, there was a long awkward silence......

I said I didn't speak korean. It didn't mean I WAS a non-korean speaking korean. >_>

So yea....I walked out because it got really awkward with the whole room of koreans staring at me.

Lucky, I was not jumped.

But seriously, why do koreans treat other asians this way???
SkyBurial
delete.
samnang
maybe you're just ugly.
SkyBurial
QUOTE (samnang @ Sep 2 2011, 10:09 PM) *
maybe you're just ugly.

Nah, my girlfriend told me I'm pretty good looking, unless she was lying! D:
LittleDeathAngel
QUOTE (samnang @ Sep 2 2011, 10:09 PM) *
maybe you're just ugly.


That was my first reaction. O_O

I was like "is there something on my face?" or "do I smell or something?".

I am a neat freak so I was paranoid as hell. (I never show it in public though.)

After getting a dozen confirms from friends, girls, and random strangers (who I instantly got acquinted with).

I was relieved that there was nothing wrong with me.

P.S. If you meant that in a sarcastic tone, then you just called all koreans ugly because every asian person thinks I am korean. Koreans mistaked me the most for being korean. embarassedlaugh.gif
SkyBurial
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LittleDeathAngel
QUOTE (SkyBurial @ Sep 2 2011, 10:21 PM) *
Is your hair curly? I swear if you curl your hair you usually end up looking Korean lol.


No. I am just tall and light-skinned. >_>
samnang
QUOTE (SkyBurial @ Sep 2 2011, 09:14 PM) *
Nah, my girlfriend told me I'm pretty good looking, unless she was lying! D:


that was @ the OP

korean girls wouldn't ignore some tall, handsome, smoking hot stud no matter the race.

physical attraction will trump culturally ingrained prejudice. their ovaries > what their parents teach them.
DOUBLEMINT
I read somewhere that the outmarriage rate of korean americans is only second highest after filipinos.So it must be you. badteeth.gif
LittleDeathAngel
QUOTE (DOUBLEMINT @ Sep 2 2011, 10:32 PM) *
I read somewhere that the outmarriage rate of korean americans is only second highest after filipinos.So it must be you. badteeth.gif


Yea....to white people, not to other Asians.

Koreans chicks go for either white guys or korean guys.

I had a roommate who was white and his korean girlfriend dates white guys exclusively. >_>

Apparently, korean guys are control freaks and want absolute control in the relationship.

They want their wives to be housewives and can get rather violent when things don't go their way.
samnang
QUOTE (LittleDeathAngel @ Sep 2 2011, 10:23 PM) *
No. I am just tall and light-skinned. >_>


get buff and tan.

being tall is creepy if you're super lanky and spindly.

DOUBLEMINT
QUOTE (LittleDeathAngel @ Sep 2 2011, 09:35 PM) *
Yea....to white people, not to other Asians.

Koreans chicks go for either white guys or korean guys.

I had a roommate who was white and his korean girlfriend dates white guys exclusively. >_>

Apparently, korean guys are control freaks and want absolute control in the relationship.

They want their wives to be housewives and can get rather violent when things don't go their way.


Okay,then beat the girl you like.
LittleDeathAngel
QUOTE (samnang @ Sep 2 2011, 10:37 PM) *
get buff and tan.

being tall is creepy if you're super lanky and spindly.


I am not skinny either. >_>

My build is average, height is average, and face is average.

I may not be super hot but I am not ugly either.

Many girls find me quite attractive and date-able. An 8 out of 10 in terms of attractiveness.

QUOTE (DOUBLEMINT @ Sep 2 2011, 10:45 PM) *
Okay,then beat the girl you like.


Who said anything about me liking them??? >_>

I just find their actions extremely rude and insulting and I want to know why they do it.
DOUBLEMINT
^Gee,now we want to see your pic.^__________________^



QUOTE (LittleDeathAngel @ Sep 2 2011, 10:51 PM) *
Who said anything about me liking them??? >_>

I just find their actions extremely rude and insulting and I want to know why they do it.


There may not be a reason.Some people are just rude.
LittleDeathAngel
QUOTE (DOUBLEMINT @ Sep 2 2011, 10:52 PM) *
There may not be a reason.Some people are just rude.


But why only to non-korean asians?

Am I missing something?
DOUBLEMINT
QUOTE (LittleDeathAngel @ Sep 2 2011, 11:00 PM) *
But why only to non-korean asians?

Am I missing something?


Xenophobia mixed with colonial/slave mentality. laugh.gif
Cha
The OP is just looking for Korean women in this forum so he makes things up about them to get them to respond.
So far no Korean women has responded, which shows that there are no Korean women here.
LittleDeathAngel
QUOTE (Cha @ Sep 3 2011, 05:14 AM) *
The OP is just looking for Korean women in this forum so he makes things up about them to get them to respond.
So far no Korean women has responded, which shows that there are no Korean women here.


Dude. >_>

You think too much.

Why the hell would I have some hidden agenda about asking something?

This is the Internet.

The place to say whatever is on their minds.

In my opinion, people who think that other people have hidden agendas are people who lie and put on fake faces in real life.

That is why they don't trust anyone. Because they do it themselves.

As for me, I say whatever I want as long as it doesn't offend people. (Unless they piss me off.)
MelodyQ
I'm not an Asian guy but from what my Korean friends (both guys and girls) tell me, it's the exact opposite. The Korean international students that I meet tend to want to make friends with non-Koreans because it gives them a chance to learn English. If all they do is make Korean friends, then it defeats the purpose of coming to the West to learn English. Of course they do have a lot of Korean friends too, but they definitely do not "run away" from non-Koreans.
mastaping
QUOTE (LittleDeathAngel @ Sep 2 2011, 09:35 PM) *
Yea....to white people, not to other Asians.

Koreans chicks go for either white guys or korean guys.

I had a roommate who was white and his korean girlfriend dates white guys exclusively. >_>

Apparently, korean guys are control freaks and want absolute control in the relationship.

They want their wives to be housewives and can get rather violent when things don't go their way.

-_- Not true...
WoahZtong
OP, maybe it's just your neighborhood/school/etc
freezingpoint
i dunno. in the international student community here the Koreans arent that bad. i work with some and they seem like normal people.

i dont doubt though that Korean Americans could be like you said.
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