I met this girl recently. She seems interested in hanging out with me, and she likes to probe about my financial status. I almost thought we were dating. But today she casually mentioned something belonged to her boyfriend. I was really confused and kind of hurt. I don't want to hang out with her again unless things can be cleared up. What do you guys think she's thinking?

you forgot the option:
why she mentions:

a. she wants you to know

what you should do:

a. just be friends. Don't pretend, just be friends, is that so hard for a guy to do?

Don't you have a wife and a daughter?

who cares if she's taken. don't let it stop you.

Simple.

She was checking you out but You failed her test.


so you got:

"Oh! my boyfriends into cars too"

"Hahaha! I got to tell that joke to my boyfriend"

"Me and my boyfriend ate at that resturaunt a month ago"



It's a crackup how inventive girls are with it.

btw, to any women reading:

NO MAN WANTS TO BE YOUR FRIEND. hanging out with a girl you can't bone at the end of the day is not fun.

rejection hurts lol it's ok there r plenty of girls left

yeah, you guys are right. I'll see if I can play some kind of "highly interested friend" role. Hopefully her world crashes one day and she will need me.

Regina, I will say anything to disturb you. I hope you were disturbed.

lol if she friend zoned you, it’s usually hard to get out of it even if her world crashes. My best friend is exactly like the girl you described. I’ve never seen her wanting a guy whom she friend zoned. But it’s possible if you do something that amazes her.

Seriously, you met her recently, hang out abit and she's checking your financial status? I would be wary about having such friend, boy or girl.

^you're not Asian, are you?

Born bred Sgrean.

^ oh, okay

Well I thought it was cute when she did it.

Anyway I'll just treat her like a normal girl and stop obsessing about her manipulativeness.




Your best friend is just like that? LOL So does she change boyfriends a lot or is she constantly teasing?

She wants you to want her.But even if she eventually ends up with you,shes gonna think shes too good for you.I hate girls like that.

Both lol, she wants to look for an even better bf, so even though she’s not single, she’ll tell them that she is. When she’s no longer interested in the guy, she’ll tell him that she has a bf. She’s still friends with them though because she likes having connections with a lot of people.

I and many other girls say it because we want to be upfront about being unavailable so no-one can accuse us of leading them on. There are lots of reasons why people say the things they do and speculating still won't bring you any closer to the truth. I think she wants to be friends and you wanted something else and she probably didn't mean to confuse you or you were weirding her out. Be honest and let her know how you feel and take it from there. Stop making it look like everything is her fault. On the other hand if she's asking personal questions because she's looking for a new bf or someone to cheat with, steer clear. It's not rocket science.

She thought you might have been the next best thing. But for some reason she changed her mind and mentioned her BF 'cause she's no longer interested. I do this too sometimes....lol OR She still might be interested and just wants to see how far you would go with her.

Why would you shop around for other guys when you're already with someone?

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Best regards.

Ever heard of the saying, "you're single until you're married". It's not like anyone is deliberately shopping around. It's just that sometimes you have a bf/gf and this other interesting person comes around. Keep your options opened.

Mizz_Luv3r me pity your bf.. did you get him in the SALE? (buy one get one free?) j/k

That's a pretty poor and selfish attitude to have. What point is there in starting a relationship if you're going to be committed to it.

That would be sooo nice. lol In case one doesn't function properly, I have a plan B.



HEY! lol If I really dig the other guy, I will break up with the current guy. This was my attitude back in my late teens. I've been in a 2 years and 7 years long relationship. If I'm in love, I'm committed. If not, game on.

The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence. If you really dig another guy then ythe relationship you are in is obviously lacking something. Why not address that instead of switching guys. If its really that bad that you can't improve, then why are you still in the relationship. Considering you said 6 months before you enter a relationship, then that's up to 6 months of emotional cheating. Nothing worse than being in a relationship with someone who is just going through the motions because their mind is elsewhere

Call me old fashioned but a relationship is not a game. Have you ever thought of how the other person feels if someone who is in a relationship is talking to him/her in a potentially intimate way just because they want to see what they might be missing out on? You're wasting their time and playing with their feelings. I'm pretty damn sure you wouldn't want it to happen to you, so why do it to others. Also would you like it if your boyfriend looked around "just in case" he finds someone better? Where does this $hit stop? Marriage isn't the be all, end all of relationships and you should still have some modicum of respect in your dating life.

Trust me, I address the problems. Seldom do they ever get resolved. I'm just the way I am.



I believe in karma. I'll take my karma whenever it comes around. To me love is a cycle. You love, you lose, then you start over again. If I die alone, so be it. If I'm happily married later on, kudos to me. Otherwise, I'd be happy for him if he found someone else that made him happier or what not. I might be a little sad, but not hurt. I figure I deserved it. Someday, I'll be a better person.