QUOTE (SemperFidelis @ Oct 28 2011, 06:42 PM)
The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence. If you really dig another guy then ythe relationship you are in is obviously lacking something. Why not address that instead of switching guys. If its really that bad that you can't improve, then why are you still in the relationship. Considering you said 6 months before you enter a relationship, then that's up to 6 months of emotional cheating. Nothing worse than being in a relationship with someone who is just going through the motions because their mind is elsewhere
Trust me, I address the problems. Seldom do they ever get resolved. I'm just the way I am.
QUOTE (Cygnus @ Oct 28 2011, 08:37 PM)
Call me old fashioned but a relationship is not a game. Have you ever thought of how the other person feels if someone who is in a relationship is talking to him/her in a potentially intimate way just because they want to see what they might be missing out on? You're wasting their time and playing with their feelings. I'm pretty damn sure you wouldn't want it to happen to you, so why do it to others. Also would you like it if your boyfriend looked around "just in case" he finds someone better? Where does this $hit stop? Marriage isn't the be all, end all of relationships and you should still have some modicum of respect in your dating life.
I believe in karma. I'll take my karma whenever it comes around. To me love is a cycle. You love, you lose, then you start over again. If I die alone, so be it. If I'm happily married later on, kudos to me. Otherwise, I'd be happy for him if he found someone else that made him happier or what not. I might be a little sad, but not hurt. I figure I deserved it.
Someday, I'll be a better person.