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Imtherealsugarbaby
I hope that them being polite all the time is a lie because thatd be really boring.
LittleDeathAngel
QUOTE (Imtherealsugarbaby @ Dec 10 2011, 01:54 PM) *
I hope that them being polite all the time is a lie because thatd be really boring.


I would love it if everyone was polite. o_o

The world would be a very friendly place to live in.

bear11
QUOTE (Imtherealsugarbaby @ Dec 10 2011, 01:54 PM) *
I hope that them being polite all the time is a lie because thatd be really boring.



There are polite people and those that are not in every nation.
Grimga
QUOTE (Imtherealsugarbaby @ Dec 10 2011, 01:54 PM) *
I hope that them being polite all the time is a lie because thatd be really boring.


Just don't be a ignorant weeaboo.
Japanese like me get annoyed by weeaboos, other wise we are polite and I agree with the other User there are bad and good people all over the world. beerchug.gif
chiuchimu
QUOTE (Grimga @ Dec 19 2011, 02:45 PM) *
Just don't be a ignorant weeaboo.
Japanese like me get annoyed by weeaboos, other wise we are polite and I agree with the other User there are bad and good people all over the world. beerchug.gif

She is a troll that always bad mouth Japanese, look up her other post and you I'll understand what I mean.

Grimga
QUOTE (chiuchimu @ Dec 19 2011, 02:22 PM) *
She is a troll that always bad mouth Japanese, look up her other post and you I'll understand what I mean.


Oh really lol trolls on here too, gotta love it.
gearofwar114
QUOTE (Grimga @ Dec 19 2011, 05:10 PM) *
Oh really lol trolls on here too, gotta love it.

dude, your attitude doesn't sound like you're an asian...."Gotta love it" embarassedlaugh.gif
Grimga
QUOTE (gearofwar114 @ Dec 19 2011, 06:07 PM) *
dude, your attitude doesn't sound like you're an asian...."Gotta love it" embarassedlaugh.gif


First of all im mixed. What you said was ignorant because not all races "speak a certain way".
Thats like me saying all white people Say "like" everyother word.
Ilikeasians
Japanese people are polite--only to white people. They tend to look down on other Asian groups. I don't blame them. They're the wealthiest Asian country.
KraterosHellas
QUOTE (Ilikeasians @ Jan 23 2012, 01:51 AM) *
Japanese people are polite--only to white people. They tend to look down on other Asian groups. I don't blame them. They're the wealthiest Asian country.

i don't think it has to with wealth. japan is not the only developed country in asia and i imagine even lot of the people in shanghai or beijing are richer than average japanese. it's just a cultural thing.
gearofwar117
QUOTE (KraterosHellas @ Jan 23 2012, 11:17 PM) *
i don't think it has to with wealth. japan is not the only developed country in asia and i imagine even lot of the people in shanghai or beijing are richer than average japanese. it's just a cultural thing.

according to what you say, it's a cultural thing that japanese look down on every asian?
Ilikeasians
That's not true. There's a hierarchy of who they dislike. I'm Southeast Asian so I rank at the bottom. Their view has everything to do with the country of origin, even if you make it in a foreign country. When I was in Osaka, I can tell they're very "annoyed" that I speak English in front of them but as soon as I open my wallet to buy their stuff all smiles. Japanese are just like anyone else but for the most part they're decent people. One thing I like about Japanese women is that they marry mostly Japanese men, none of this cultural dilution by offering the goods to white men. Japanese media are also full of Japanese people, none of this happa worship so prevalent in Hong Kong and Korea.

QUOTE (gearofwar117 @ Jan 24 2012, 01:04 AM) *
according to what you say, it's a cultural thing that japanese look down on every asian?
doggyji
^ Last time I checked, Korean media is full of Korean people. Where is this "prevalent happa worship" you speak of? confused.gif

The OP is a troll, btw.
Ilikeasians
QUOTE (doggyji @ Jan 24 2012, 11:50 AM) *
^ Last time I checked, Korean media is full of Korean people. Where is this "prevalent happa worship" you speak of? confused.gif

The OP is a troll, btw.



Yes, but there are sizable numbers of these mixed Asian (with white) celebrities in HK and Korea. In Japan, even Japanese adult stuff are made by 100% Japanese men and women thespians. love2.gif
doggyji
QUOTE (Ilikeasians @ Jan 24 2012, 04:48 PM) *
Yes, but there are sizable numbers of these mixed Asian (with white) celebrities in HK and Korea. In Japan, even Japanese adult stuff are made by 100% Japanese men and women thespians. love2.gif
Sizable number? They are very few popular half-white celebrities in Korea. Daniel Henney was big because of his drama several years ago but he looks more Asian. Who else? There are half-white celebrities in Japan, too. I don't understand where you get all this weird idea.
gearofwar117
QUOTE (Ilikeasians @ Jan 24 2012, 04:27 AM) *
That's not true. There's a hierarchy of who they dislike. I'm Southeast Asian so I rank at the bottom. Their view has everything to do with the country of origin, even if you make it in a foreign country. When I was in Osaka, I can tell they're very "annoyed" that I speak English in front of them but as soon as I open my wallet to buy their stuff all smiles. Japanese are just like anyone else but for the most part they're decent people. One thing I like about Japanese women is that they marry mostly Japanese men, none of this cultural dilution by offering the goods to white men. Japanese media are also full of Japanese people, none of this happa worship so prevalent in Hong Kong and Korea.

i don't know where you get this idea but what i have seen so far is that japanese women have been with foreigners more than other asian ethnicities plus there are alot of foreigners in Japan.
As for Korea, i have seen foreigners there but not that many like Japan.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mr2zPbrMUGM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TGGPtfZlZU...feature=related
KraterosHellas
QUOTE (gearofwar117 @ Jan 25 2012, 03:31 AM) *
i don't know where you get this idea but what i have seen so far is that japanese women have been with foreigners more than other asian ethnicities plus there are alot of foreigners in Japan.
As for Korea, i have seen foreigners there but not that many like Japan.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mr2zPbrMUGM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TGGPtfZlZU...feature=related


precisely
gearofwar117
QUOTE (KraterosHellas @ Jan 25 2012, 06:40 AM) *
precisely

i'm doubtimg my opinion so i really need japaneses to answer that . Btw you are not japanese nor asian, your answer is not valid to me.
KraterosHellas
QUOTE (gearofwar117 @ Jan 25 2012, 08:01 AM) *
i'm doubtimg my opinion so i really need japaneses to answer that . Btw you are not japanese nor asian, your answer is not valid to me.

but my keen observation is as good as any asian and better than some. i mean there are so many white father-japanese mother offsprings. even in the media.
gearofwar117
QUOTE (KraterosHellas @ Jan 26 2012, 05:40 AM) *
but my keen observation is as good as any asian and better than some. i mean there are so many white father-japanese mother offsprings. even in the media.

No, you are wrong. Just because you see that "many half offspring" in media doesn't mean japanese in general are the same. (I don't know how many percent of that offspring compared to the whole japanese population that you could draw conclusion like that). Pls give me the exact number. It's like just saying this area has a lot of gay people then you conclude that US has alot of gay people but the truth in what you see is not.
I have listened and watched japanese media for atleast 8 years. This is the first time i have heard someone say japanese media has many half white-Japanese offsprings, but the truth i haven't seen even one. Of all the japanese songs i have about over 3000 of them from 70,80,90,00s, none of those song's artists are half-Japanese, they are all japaneses. That means what "likeasia" said above is true. Japanese has their own media with their own people, they don't like anyone else, even K-pop are not that popular in their country, some want to exclude them.
What do you consider here as media? TV show? anime? music? if you want to say about japanese anime, here is something for you http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKTvFhRbBt8
You are a westerner, you may use your observation to tell things around but the truth is not so. As i'm an asian of sinosphere, i was born and raised in this culture. There are alot of teaching, learning ,experiences in the culture i was born and that's not something that can be taught, i just doubt japanese if they have changed their mind over decade ago. Or else they are just like us asians...
Rayzor
QUOTE (gearofwar117 @ Jan 25 2012, 03:31 AM) *
i don't know where you get this idea but what i have seen so far is that japanese women have been with foreigners more than other asian ethnicities plus there are alot of foreigners in Japan.
As for Korea, i have seen foreigners there but not that many like Japan.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mr2zPbrMUGM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TGGPtfZlZU...feature=related


You mean the one in Japan or America? When you said foreigners, are you referring to non Asian? According to interracial marriage statistic in Japan, Japanese women involve in interracial marriage mostly marry to...

1. Korean men
2. American men
3. Chinese men + Taiwanese men
See the second chart in the link below.
http://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E5%9B%BD%E9%...%B5%90%E5%A9%9A

Even if you exclude Japanese men, Japanese women still marry Asian men way more than white men or black men. A few years ago, I believed and was being fooled by this stereotype in the internet that Japanese women like white men, until I saw the interracial marriage statistics in Japan, it changes my mind. Do not be fooled by all those internet rumors or videos and pictures in the internet of Japanese women with non Asian men as they do not represent majority.The link I provide only show until 2010,so if anyone have the interracial marriages statistics in Japan from last year 2011, can you please post the source?
AsiaticGlory
QUOTE (Rayzor @ Jan 27 2012, 06:56 AM) *
You mean the one in Japan or America? When you said foreigners, are you referring to non Asian? According to interracial marriage statistic in Japan, Japanese women involve in interracial marriage mostly marry to...

1. Korean men
2. American men
3. Chinese men + Taiwanese men
See the second chart in the link below.
http://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E5%9B%BD%E9%...%B5%90%E5%A9%9A

Even if you exclude Japanese men, Japanese women still marry Asian men way more than white men or black men. A few years ago, I believed and was being fooled by this stereotype in the internet that Japanese women like white men, until I saw the interracial marriage statistics in Japan, it changes my mind. Do not be fooled by all those internet rumors or videos and pictures in the internet of Japanese women with non Asian men as they do not represent majority.The link I provide only show until 2010,so if anyone have the interracial marriages statistics in Japan from last year 2011, can you please post the source?


It's true. Asian women do prefer Asian men. The main reason a lot of overseas Asian women date non-Asian men is simply because Asian men don't really exist in their area.
fivers
QUOTE (AsiaticGlory @ Jan 27 2012, 03:24 PM) *
It's true. Asian women do prefer Asian men. The main reason a lot of overseas Asian women date non-Asian men is simply because Asian men don't really exist in their area.


this is one of the reasons, yet not the reason which is I'd say a desire for white-wash... embarassedlaugh.gif
Imtherealsugarbaby
QUOTE (chiuchimu @ Dec 19 2011, 02:22 PM) *
She is a troll that always bad mouth Japanese, look up her other post and you I'll understand what I mean.
I dont know why you get offended when I say anything about japan
its obvious you're not even a japanese person
but have fun pretending you are icon_smile.gif

QUOTE (Grimga @ Dec 19 2011, 01:45 PM) *
Just don't be a ignorant weeaboo.
Japanese like me get annoyed by weeaboos, other wise we are polite and I agree with the other User there are bad and good people all over the world. beerchug.gif

From what ive seen japanese people love weeaboos because they feel flattered that they like their culture
especially if said weeaboo is a cute white girl
gearofwar117
QUOTE (Imtherealsugarbaby @ Jan 29 2012, 08:26 AM) *
I dont know why you get offended when I say anything about japan
its obvious you're not even a japanese person
but have fun pretending you are icon_smile.gif


From what ive seen japanese people love weeaboos because they feel flattered that they like their culture
especially if said weeaboo is a cute white girl

sry but he's a japanese and every asian member here knows this. You seem to be a non-asian here. He got offended because non-asians like you may spill something out clueless without knowing.
Imtherealsugarbaby
QUOTE (gearofwar117 @ Jan 30 2012, 12:26 AM) *
sry but he's a japanese and every asian member here knows this. You seem to be a non-asian here. He got offended because non-asians like you may spill something out clueless without knowing.

prove it
gearofwar117
QUOTE (Imtherealsugarbaby @ Jan 30 2012, 12:33 AM) *
prove it

first, you are not asian member, you are not involving in our chat in every topic in this 4rum for years. Why do i need to prove it to you? like going back to ancient time searching for a long time ago topic? Ask yourself: Do you think you have read all the post in this 4rum?
According to me, your appearance already showed me you are an inferior in this forum. Your avatar is obsessed with North Asian girl, your activities always focus on Japanese and Korean 4rum and yet your name and your way of language tell me that you are most likely (maybe) a black person.
Here is a recent topic that is telling me you came here with inferior intention about how much sexuality japanese could be.
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=334895

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One in five sexless couples say they view sex simply as a nuisance.

“We are sort of room-mates rather than a married couple”, one 31-year-old man, who had not had sex with his wife for two years, told the Asahi Shinbun.


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A tendency among Japanese married couples to feel an aversion to sex with their spouse, not because they dislike one another, but rather because they feel that they have more of a sister-brother relationship; the sanctity of which would be destroyed with a repulsive incest-like feeling, by what westerners would consider normal conjugal relations


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Japanese men love their companies; they live for work, and many don’t even think it is a problem if they don’t have sex with their wives. They have pornography and the sex industry (soap lands, cabaret bars, and dial-a-girl services, and trips to Taiwan) to take care of their needs, but their wives have nowhere to go.They just suffer in silence.. or do they? The divorce rate in Japan has nearly doubled in the past 10 years, with more women blaming their sexually inactive, as opposed to sexually errant, husbands for break-ups.

why is all about sex? do your kind only think and care of it?
why is it all about asian men can't take care of their own women?
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?...t&p=4987415
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?...p;#entry4987522
it's much like you come here thinking that all of us asians are worthless and thinking your kind are more deserved by our women. This forum is about our culture, you come to a wrong place looking for asian women, sry.
I see many members here know that they don't want to waste their time with hot-headed like you so they stop replying...because we are educated people, we don't take on the aggressive kind like yours which is also inferior, so you really thought that could take this chance and you could press forward?
Imtherealsugarbaby
^lol just because someone says they're something doesnt mean they are
if you can't prove hes japanese im going to keep assuming hes not
and you're just a troll anyway
but im a straight girl with a boyfriend
why would I be coming on the internet to find asian girls?lol
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