My Japanese friends, knowing that you know now, do you think it was worth it -- the bombing of Nagasaki and Hiroshima?

Yes, it ended WWII.

But what did the two bombs do the the psyche of the Japanese people? What did they learn from them? Were these lessons worth it?

I am wondering if Japanese ever got pissed over it?

If it were me, I would see that as being unbelievable.