As a matter of fact the biggest overseas Malay community is in England but most Malays there are not British citizens and they are not as numerous as the Pakistanis or Chinese.

Thats cool, I have never met an malay before in real life. What does the normal malay person look like.

I created this thread a while back just to show what Malays look like.
http://www.asiafinest.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=10695

Cool, they look pretty light skinned.

why do ppl say malaysians are dark? is it cause many malaysians are mixed with ethnic indians?

No one here said Malaysians are dark dalawapo.

Look at this I found an picture of Malaysians.

^ You can see both Malay and Chinese Malaysian students in that pic.

^ and white people

yes they do! i heard ppl say malaysians are the darkest southeast asian people....

Errrr...just ignore the white proffesors.

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they know education earlier sooner or later we will catch up.

That photo was taken in the US. Thousands of Malaysians study in America. All Proffesors in Malaysia are Malaysians.

they even confuse with their identity...look chinese still chinese we never doubt about our identity. just malaysian and indonesian try to put their label in our identity. we never want to become 'malaysian chinese' or 'indonesian chinese' but they use their trick to include us in their ethnic.

What trick ? and what do you mean by "we" ? Who do you think you are ? You don't speak for the Chinese in Malaysia. Get that in your worthless head.

Here's how I'd define Malay.
Person of Austronesian descent.
Regardless of whether he/she has Chinese, Indian, European mixed-blood.
Regardless of whether he/she is Muslim, Christian, Buddhist or Hindu.
Malay, thus, would include:
Natives of Madagascar, Thais, Laotians, Vietnamese, Cambodians, natives of Malaysia, Singapore, Brunei, Indonesia, the Philippines, East Timor, Taiwan, Japan, the Koreas, the Americas and the Pacific (sans the Black Melanesians).
But for Malaysian purposes, I'd define Malay as the native peoples of Peninsular Malaysia.

I think there is some ongoing mistakes about the definition of so called "Malay race".
The name "Malay" or "Melayu" is indeed originated from Jambi, Sumatra, Indonesia.
It was first mentioned in Chinese annals, that Buddhist monk from China on his way to India, has visited the kingdom of Sri Vijaya, and then transit to Malayupura in Sumatra. So it's just the name of place in Sumatra originated from 7th century Malayupura kingdom in Jambi, Sumatra. When he on the way returning to China he discovered that Malayupura had been raided and become a vassal kingdom of Sri Vijaya, centered in Palembang, South Sumatra.

In Indonesia the name Malay or Melayu only valid to the ethnic of coastal Malay in eastern coast of Sumatra and Malay of coastal Kalimantan. Here in Indonesia we tend to think that Malay of Peninsular Malaysia is indeed the part of greater Malay ethnicity, including Malay of eastern coast Sumatra and Malay of coastal Kalimantan (Borneo). British and Dutch colonialism had separated these Malay brothers into several countries; Indonesia, Malaysia, Brunei, and Singapore.

Most of other Indonesian ethnic groups are not comfortable to be called Malay.
Maybe in Malaysia the word Malay also means races that included our vast Indonesian ethnic groups .
But I tend to think the correct and neutral name of this race is Austronesians (the people of southern islands), not Malay.

The name Malay Archipelago or Malay race just come to picture because many of anthropological writings or thesis in 19th century are written by British scientist. And certainly because these Britons had colonize Malay peninsula, they just simply took all the people that have the same racial traits as their subjects, as Malays.

So..., we had to separate the definition of Malay ethnicity and Austronesian race.
Most Indonesians point of view about the Malay identity is:
1. Malay is ethnic group that live on eastern coast of Sumatra and surrounding Islands (The provinces of Jambi, Palembang, Riau, including Singapore), Malay peninsula (including southern Thailand), and Coastal Borneo (including Brunei). Most of them practice and heavily influenced by Islamic civilization.

2. Austronesian (people of southern islands) is a race of seafaring people that since prehistoric times has spread and inhabited most of Asian and and Oceanian archipelago. They scatered from Madagascar island in extreme West to Hawaii in extreme East. From Ryukyu islands in southern Japan and Taiwan in extreme north to New Zealand in extreme South.

Their way of life and religions is far more diverse. From tribal animism to Hinduism, Islam and Christianity. Those who practice Animism like Dayaks, Torajans, Nias, Samoans, and Maoris.
Hinduism is the way of life for Balinese and ancient Chams of Vietnam. (in some degree Javanese and Sundanese still maintain their Hindu legacy, although most of them now practice Islam).

Islam is major religion for Javanese as the largest group of Austronesian race. Islam also heavily influenced the culture and the way of life of Malay, Minangkabau, Aceh, Sundanese, Betawi, Madurese, Bugis, Makassar and Sasak.

The later wave is Christianity, that influenced the ethnics of the Phillipines, Minahasans, Ambonese, Bataks, and the people of Flores and Timor.

3. Malay is an ethnic group, as a part of greater Austronesian race. So not all member of Austronesian race can easily defined as "Malay".
(Most Javanese, Balinese, Sundanese, and even Minangkabau people in Sumatra will refused to be called "Malay", because they felt that their civilization and culture is far more ancient, older, refined, complex, and far more advanced than those of coastal Malay).

So the point is, most of Indonesians ethnic groups (except Malay) are not comfortable to be called "Malay". We never identify ourselves as Malay. But we all share our Austronesian race heritage, including Austronesian words that still present in our current languages (Bahasa Indonesia, Bahasa Melayu, Tagalog, Malagasy, Jawa, Sunda, Bali, Formosan, Samoan, etc.).

Alhamdullilah i'm born as MALAY : MUSLIM MALAY...

Well good for you
I'm also proud to be an Indonesian Muslim.
But as descendant of Sundanese and Javanese ethnicity, I'm still valued and honored my Animism and Hindu cultural heritage, and honor my ancestor.
I believe my ancestor indeed are the people of Pajajaran (ancient Hindu kingdom in West Java) and Majapahit empire.
So my point of view is some what, wider.

Yes.., we are part of greater Muslim brotherhood.
Yes.., we love prophet Muhammad (may peace be upon him).
But we love humanity too.
We are part of greater human kind.
I love my brother Muslim, and also honor another faith: Christian, Hindu, Animism, Buddhist, Confucian etc.

I think the essence of Islam is "Salam", Peace and Kindness.

Ah yes. Kejawen.