I really wanna learn it.Actually i have never seen a shy Japanese!!!

That's just their asumption.

Japanese people are not really shy.

All you need to do is break the ice by talking to them first.

I see lot's of them getting along with Chinese and other races in my university.

Some of them are even in a relationship with Chinese from the mainland.

Once you get to know them Japanese people can be really talkative.

a lot of japanese people are bubbly and outgoing. thats some of my impressions staying in japan

I'm shy

, laughing at myself 2

Japanese are very shy. It's true.
I'm not typical Japanese..

I think reserved would be a better word than shy...many older and even a few younger Japanese would see the Outgoing Brashness of Americans as rudeness..

do japanese blink alot? are they nervous?

I think they're more reserved not shy.

I tend to be shy... so do most Asians I see.

I don't think they're overly shy.........pretty much the same as any other ethnicity. There are some that are ridiculously shy but there are those people everywhere.

hmm. but my experiences in japan is that they are friendly people. and outgoing and like to have fun.

^ Mostly yes, I think the girls can be rather shy around the guys sometimes though.

well yes that is understandable since its apart of gender roles and tradition.

It can be annoying as hell sometimes.

im shy around guys. its just something thats expected in some cultures. like girls in korea arent supposed to try to shake a guy's hand unless its offered to her

Yeah but not to the point at which it's just ridiculous, like if they're interested in you some don't look you in the eye.............first time I noticed it I was so confused.

well i not entirely entirely sure about japanese culture as much as i am about korean culture. but looking someone in the eye in korea is considered a sign of boldness which is considered rude. its mostly used for elders but can work in a gender role setting also. i remembered in japan that the guys were able to be friendly at girls but not too much the other way around. i think its like that in a lotta countries though

Yeah but I don't mind shy Korean girls........it doesn't bother me so much.......usually in awe of how pretty they are I've found that a lot of Seoul girls definitely aren't shy though

i havent admitted this much to people but i was born around seoul south of the han river. but im a pusan girl by heart but my clan is not from pusan.. japanese guys are friendly too.

Seoul girl
How old where you when you moved to pusan?
Daegu girls are also rather nice
Meh, Korean girls in general are rather nice.
I presume you got hit on by a few jguys when you were there?

moved around when i was kinda young. like when i was fairly young so thats why i consider myself a pusan girl. and plus when i moved to america i always came to pusan first to visit.
jguys? i wish not to speak on it

How old were you when you moved to the US?
ooooooo lots of jguys then? Doesn't surprise me, after all you are very pretty
Did you visit a lot of places in Japan or did you stay mainly in Tokyo?

Who win it if you think about finding a partner?Koreans or Japanese.

^ Personally I'm more attracted to Korean women but I still like Japanese women. I don't think either is better, it can just be a hassle dating a Korean girl if you don't have some Korean blood in you which thankfully isn't a problem for me or very rarely anyway.

i moved to U.S. at 8 but i moved back to pusan at 12. and came back around 13. and i go back almost every summer. so its been almost half my life here and half life in korea but i also had to stay a lot in other asian countries because my mom had to travel there. its complicated in japan, i usually always went to shimonoseki first through the pusan-shimonoseki ferry (korea/japan ferry).

they have good restaruants there. and then we work our way up towards kyoto, tokyo, osaka, and lastly sapporo. so ive been a lotta places in japan.

I rarely use the shimonoseki ferry, usually just fly to jp or sk.
Your mum is a businesswoman right? That would explain it, my mum is always travelling
You've been to quite a few places then, broken quite a few hearts on the way?

ive been to japan a lot of times. it was just apart of my mom's work. my mom always knew i hated flying. 2 so we tried to use it as least as possible but sometimes if my mom needed to be somewhere more quick we took it. plus the view of the sea is awesome

Do you still hate flying?

yes

Awwwwww.........why?

it just came outta nowhere. that is what a phobia is. its an unexplained fear of something. i have my handy sleeping pills though. i just mostly hate take off

I don't suppose a cuddle would make it better then

no well actually when i was little i used to cuddle my mom on the plane. but it doesnt work nowadays.

back to topic; japanese people in my mind are very outgoing

Not even if it was a guy you were cuddling this time?

umm i would probably feel better if i was with loved ones. so maybe? im not a cuddling person though

You don't like cuddles? Awwww...............but you look so........cute and nevermind because if I say anymore you'll smack me....

i only remembered cuddles from my mom. not from a guy

You don't remember a guy giving you a cuddle at any point?

I dont think all Japanese are shy !! I remember our Japanese friends, who lived 1 house up from us. The boys were wild !! For instance oneday, Mark n Tak had the job to park the cars at a party at their home and they were screeching 2 the cars tyres lolz

Yes on the other hand:) in the bus i was facing 2 japanese cuties ( i picked up some of the language... heheeh they laughed at me when i smiled at them hehehe 2