QUOTE(pojniam39 @ May 15 2008, 08:15 AM) [snapback]3698195[/snapback]
It is not too difficult to decipher if the person asking is sincere or not. If the person asking is sincere then I will reply that I am Hmong. It is a great conversation starter that breaks the ice. I've found that a lot of people are genuinely curious and are interested.
If the person is asking to ask and isn't sincere then I will reply that I am Asian, give them a smile and leave it at that. (And hand a mental Bill Engvall's "Here's Your Sign" to them since they cannot tell that you are Asian with their own eyes).
That's what I'll do and have done on some occasions because if a person ask, it's obvious they already know you're Asian, just got to refine it to the pinpoint to the person. The least or best I can do is give a briefing about who Hmong is. Then, I'd usually direct them to find more about it on his/her own time if he/she wants to know more by doing a research. If they ask more, answer with a simple yes/no.
QUOTE(sibazoda @ May 15 2008, 10:00 AM) [snapback]3698344[/snapback]
It is hard to say sometimes because you don't know what and why they ask you your nationality. I usually ask them back, "what do you think?" When you ask them that question back, some people will give you right back their answer. Then you know that that's what they want you to be or maybe they have more knowledge of that group of people. Then I will tell who I am. Tell them the history of it if they want to know.
If they just stop right after you ask them, I usually come back and say people think I am Chinese but I am Hmong. Do you know what Hmong is?
I think sometimes it boils down to, are you afraid to be Hmong? Can you say proudly that you are Hmong?
For those who are proud to be Hmong has no problem saying they are Hmong. For those who think that Hmong don't have that good of a reputation in the community tend to hesitate telling other that they are Hmong.
I don't think Hmong actually have a nationality since nationality practically refers to a person's country and/or direct place of origin where he/she still holds permanent ownership of residence or recognition. Seeing that Hmong don't have a set country, it's hard to say we have a nationality. Sure, some may say America, Laos, or even China, but it's not certain. However, all else still applies to us as in our ethnicity and culture.
I say Hmong before Asian.