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smile for me daddy...
QUOTE (Nini_Kya @ Feb 27 2006, 01:14 PM)
But so m uch lies ,and credit wasting ,twice i gave him the occasion to tell me the truth he didn't ...
I'm so hurt coz i liked him and also my ego i cannot believe i've been played like that... The fact that didn't even bother telling me something just kills me ,he just ignored me. A simple call like i'm sorry i don't want to see you anymore, just a closure...
So to all guys don't try to be nice ,be honest not rude! Of course it can hurt but at least the girl knows where to stand !
I'm so hurt coz i liked him and also my ego i cannot believe i've been played like that... The fact that didn't even bother telling me something just kills me ,he just ignored me. A simple call like i'm sorry i don't want to see you anymore, just a closure...
So to all guys don't try to be nice ,be honest not rude! Of course it can hurt but at least the girl knows where to stand !
so pretty much he fuked you then dumped you?
if you were interested in him in the first place why didn't you show interest in the beggining?
Hon, guys usually don't call and tell you that they're no longer interested, so you can stop bothering him and asking him to explain things to you. Yes he's a bastard for ignoring your call but it was your fault too that things ended that way.
he simply wanted revenge for the first 3 dates you stood him up for.
That was a mistake to give it up soo soon..... I think thats all he pretty much wanted... Sorry...
QUOTE (LOVEWHIZ @ Feb 27 2006, 06:32 PM)
he simply wanted revenge for the first 3 dates you stood him up for.
Probably, he just wanted sex, he got it, he left.
He was hurt because you stood him up 3 times. Give the guy a break. Club guys can be emotional like that.
ouch and you lost your virginity to him too..you need to drop kick him upside his head goodluck 
QUOTE (GawtxJenny @ Feb 27 2006, 04:37 PM)
ouch and you lost your virginity to him too..you need to drop kick him upside his head goodluck
it's her fault for having sex with a guy she barely even knew....
QUOTE (xotic_beauty @ Feb 27 2006, 03:40 PM)
it's her fault for having sex with a guy she barely even knew....
Ur very comforting
QUOTE (starsabove @ Feb 27 2006, 11:15 PM)
He was hurt because you stood him up 3 times. Give the guy a break. Club guys can be emotional like that.
rofl, yeah, lmfao, as for his actions, no idea, maybe he's an @$$, maybe not, personally i'd say he just wasn't interested in anything serious and since u told him u were a virgin, he might have freaked, thinking u wanted something really serious, but yh, just guessing, wouldn't make his actions any better though
QUOTE (AsianPride @ Feb 27 2006, 04:45 PM)
Ur very comforting
she should learn from her bad experience...
a virgin at 18 is very tempting. 
oh boy, clubs are not the greatest place to find a relationship
QUOTE (LOVEWHIZ @ Feb 27 2006, 04:13 PM)
a virgin at 18 is very tempting.
I dont know a virgin at any age really isnt tempting unless she is smoking hot and have a body to die for....... I just dont see having sex with a virgin very satisfying...
Virgin means no STD. It's time for bareback!
QUOTE (LOVEWHIZ @ Feb 27 2006, 01:32 PM)
he simply wanted revenge for the first 3 dates you stood him up for.
can it be that ? No way! Any way this whole thing really sucks for me
^You were just being yourself, he himself. Tough luck. Time to move on Nini.
QUOTE (malaccan @ Feb 28 2006, 06:17 AM)
^You were just being yourself, he himself. Tough luck. Time to move on Nini.
I know but its hard!
He got me so confused, one moment he would not pickup my call and then text me to apologise! He called me on valnetines day and wanted it to spend it with me but i wasnt there!
He used to text me in the morning just to say hi and that hes thinking about me ...
Then when i come back from France nothing its so weird...
Even the night we spend together he was very tender and sweet, he did not just roll up and fall asleep ,he was hugging kissing me every five minutes
I didn t know i was that sensitive , but i cant forget about him...
QUOTE (Nini_Kya @ Feb 28 2006, 05:21 AM)
can it be that ? No way!
denial is not the solution...
Off topic but...............How comes this is the first time I've realised you're from the UK? And why haven't you joined UK clan yet.........??????? 
Just move on deary, he doesn't sound worth the fuss....
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he did not just roll up and fall asleep
Just move on deary, he doesn't sound worth the fuss....
QUOTE (xotic_beauty @ Feb 28 2006, 08:43 AM)
denial is not the solution...
can he want revenge because because i stood him up 3 times?
QUOTE (Nini_Kya @ Feb 28 2006, 10:33 AM)
can he want revenge because because i stood him up 3 times?
maybe...or maybe all he wanted was sex which you gave to him so easily, but either way you should move on with your life and forget about him.
sex on only one date means u r a whore.
so good 4 u.
so good 4 u.
QUOTE (Nini_Kya @ Feb 28 2006, 04:33 PM)
can he want revenge because because i stood him up 3 times?
You stood him up 3 times???.....lol..........I missed that bit of info...oh dear...
QUOTE (charlee @ Feb 28 2006, 01:05 PM)
You stood him up 3 times???.....lol..........I missed that bit of info...oh dear...
its alright being slow
time to move on now girl 
Sometimes you should just learn to say "NO".
QUOTE (charlee @ Feb 28 2006, 12:05 PM)
You stood him up 3 times???.....lol..........I missed that bit of info...oh dear...
does it make a difference?
QUOTE (xotic_beauty @ Feb 27 2006, 01:23 PM)
so pretty much he fuked you then dumped you?
Nicely said, beautiful! :loveyou:
I wished i could of said that.
But I be Banned again by CEO Ben
Dam it! I got a feeling, Ben gonna Ban me soon again
QUOTE (Cloud Strife @ Mar 1 2006, 10:13 PM)
Nicely said, beautiful! :loveyou:
I wished i could of said that.
But I be Banned again by CEO Ben
Dam it! I got a feeling, Ben gonna Ban me soon again
I wished i could of said that.
But I be Banned again by CEO Ben
Dam it! I got a feeling, Ben gonna Ban me soon again
LOL.
The guy is a pro.
Lets talk about how well he fu-ked you over.
We dont wanna hear about your feelings or how hurt you are.
i always think that clubs are a one night stand for anyone there. real love don't come from clubs. i feel sad you lost it to him, and also laugh at you for losing to him.
QUOTE (stillarook @ Mar 1 2006, 07:22 PM)
i always think that clubs are a one night stand for anyone there. real love don't come from clubs. i feel sad you lost it to him, and also laugh at you for losing to him.
I don't know but you've got to be pretty naive to believe that any real love story can unravel from club encounters. I think it's pretty well known that club relationships are the ones that usually last one night, never more.
QUOTE (Nini_Kya @ Feb 28 2006, 11:33 AM)
can he want revenge because because i stood him up 3 times?
I dunno about you, but 3 times is A LOT. Especially if it's the first date. Hell if a girl stood me up even twice and it's the first couple of dates, I'll just stop calling completely.
QUOTE (Nini_Kya @ Feb 28 2006, 01:14 AM)
Hi guys just want to know why did he lie?
I met this boy at a nightclub,but nothing happened that night we just danced and i gave him my phone number. He txd me ths same night telling me good bye and stuff. He called to arrange a date 3 times i cancelled for various reasons so he stopped calling me fair enough!
Then about 2 weeks later i called to ask him what was up and if he was not to mad at me,he said no we arranged another date .
This time i went ,and we had sex ,i was a virgin i was 18....
I told him, he was quite suprised (didn't bleed) ,he must have freaked out, knowing that, i asked if he still wanted to see me he said yes.
So like he promised he called me the same day ... then we were suppose to meet again but he cancelled coz he had to go to his friends b-day
I asked him if he playing games or something he said no that he really liked me that i was a sweet girl ,i thought to myself ok for this time ,lets see what happens next. It was a monday and he said i would make it up to me on thursday i told him no i was busy (big lie) because i was upset...
So for a week we text eachother ,he never picks up my calls always busy!!!
We still haven't seen each other ,and i was suppose to go on holz 4 a week to france, so we decide to meet up when i come back . He called me on valentines day ,but i was already in france!!!
I call from france like i promised ,he doesn't pick up. So i txt him to tell him i was trying to reach him and he just doesn't care. He tbk saying he was BUSY and that he was missing me ,couldn't wait for me to come back ... and tell him when i'm back
I'm back in the Uk text him ...no answer ever !!!! i didn't bother my best friend told me that he was just trying to be nice ,he didn't like me !
But so m uch lies ,and credit wasting ,twice i gave him the occasion to tell me the truth he didn't ...
I'm so hurt coz i liked him and also my ego i cannot believe i've been played like that... The fact that didn't even bother telling me something just kills me ,he just ignored me. A simple call like i'm sorry i don't want to see you anymore, just a closure...
So to all guys don't try to be nice ,be honest not rude! Of course it can hurt but at least the girl knows where to stand !
I met this boy at a nightclub,but nothing happened that night we just danced and i gave him my phone number. He txd me ths same night telling me good bye and stuff. He called to arrange a date 3 times i cancelled for various reasons so he stopped calling me fair enough!
Then about 2 weeks later i called to ask him what was up and if he was not to mad at me,he said no we arranged another date .
This time i went ,and we had sex ,i was a virgin i was 18....
I told him, he was quite suprised (didn't bleed) ,he must have freaked out, knowing that, i asked if he still wanted to see me he said yes.
So like he promised he called me the same day ... then we were suppose to meet again but he cancelled coz he had to go to his friends b-day
I asked him if he playing games or something he said no that he really liked me that i was a sweet girl ,i thought to myself ok for this time ,lets see what happens next. It was a monday and he said i would make it up to me on thursday i told him no i was busy (big lie) because i was upset...
So for a week we text eachother ,he never picks up my calls always busy!!!
We still haven't seen each other ,and i was suppose to go on holz 4 a week to france, so we decide to meet up when i come back . He called me on valentines day ,but i was already in france!!!
I call from france like i promised ,he doesn't pick up. So i txt him to tell him i was trying to reach him and he just doesn't care. He tbk saying he was BUSY and that he was missing me ,couldn't wait for me to come back ... and tell him when i'm back
I'm back in the Uk text him ...no answer ever !!!! i didn't bother my best friend told me that he was just trying to be nice ,he didn't like me !
But so m uch lies ,and credit wasting ,twice i gave him the occasion to tell me the truth he didn't ...
I'm so hurt coz i liked him and also my ego i cannot believe i've been played like that... The fact that didn't even bother telling me something just kills me ,he just ignored me. A simple call like i'm sorry i don't want to see you anymore, just a closure...
So to all guys don't try to be nice ,be honest not rude! Of course it can hurt but at least the girl knows where to stand !
ok first serves you right! you jerked him around and when he did it back hes playing......????
second you had sex on firts date...virgin or not that makes you a slut...and we guys dont have to be nice to sluts.
end of.
you may say thats unfair but thats how it is. suck it up and learn.
and for fu-ks sake make the guy wait or you rae just a free hooker.
QUOTE (Ben @ Mar 1 2006, 10:02 PM)
I dunno about you, but 3 times is A LOT. Especially if it's the first date. Hell if a girl stood me up even twice and it's the first couple of dates, I'll just stop calling completely.
Listen closely to him kids, cause it's coming from the Pimp Bible 101.
i can somewhat empathise with you ... not abt the sex part but some of the other stuff. Forget abt him. he got sex, you got sex; everyone's scored. move on.
QUOTE (chineseii @ Mar 1 2006, 10:27 PM)
i can somewhat empathise with you ... not abt the sex part but some of the other stuff. Forget abt him. he got sex, you got sex; everyone's scored. move on.
I like your attitude. Do you have a Pimp Bible aswell?
ok first serves you right! you jerked him around and when he did it back hes playing......????
second you had sex on firts date...virgin or not that makes you a slut...and we guys dont have to be nice to sluts.
end of.
you may say thats unfair but thats how it is. suck it up and learn.
and for fu-ks sake make the guy wait or you rae just a free hooker.
second you had sex on firts date...virgin or not that makes you a slut...and we guys dont have to be nice to sluts.
end of.
you may say thats unfair but thats how it is. suck it up and learn.
and for fu-ks sake make the guy wait or you rae just a free hooker.
karma comes in many different ways
QUOTE (corky @ Mar 2 2006, 01:45 AM)
Ok first serves you right! you jerked him around and when he did it back hes playing......????
second you had sex on firts date...virgin or not that makes you a slut...and we guys dont have to be nice to sluts.
end of.
you may say thats unfair but thats how it is. suck it up and learn.
and for fu-ks sake make the guy wait or you rae just a free hooker.
second you had sex on firts date...virgin or not that makes you a slut...and we guys dont have to be nice to sluts.
end of.
you may say thats unfair but thats how it is. suck it up and learn.
and for fu-ks sake make the guy wait or you rae just a free hooker.
Ok so you think sex is something that a girl Offers to guy ,some kind a reward you have to work long and hard for? WE do not as women want sex ,is just some gift we "give up" ok i get it...
And a guy should disrespect a woman because she wanted him as mush as he did... Ok get it!
As for the club thing ,wether you meet in a club or not if a guy is bastard he is a bastard , i could have met him in a library, if hes at a point of his life where he doesn't want a steady relationship you meet him at the park , he wont be serious with you thats what i think !
On the other hand if you meet a good guy ,even if you meet him at a club and hes not used to use women he wont use you!!!
But i admit should have waited more!!!
And for the slut thing ,i am good at calling people names too ,you dont want me to get there so i advise you stop right where you at get me?
what has being a virgin to do with this anyway. people are overrating the 'virgin' thing to much. whats wrong with a female loving sex? if she likes it, then i cant see the problem. calling someone a slut just because she like having sex is just to lame. as long as shes doing it within her own standards and rules, shes not a slut.
if you enjoyed ur time with him, you shouldnt regret. but you should stop thinking about him since its kinda obvious he doesnt want you.
ow npg
if you enjoyed ur time with him, you shouldnt regret. but you should stop thinking about him since its kinda obvious he doesnt want you.
ow npg
QUOTE (xotic_beauty @ Feb 27 2006, 09:40 PM)
it's her fault for having sex with a guy she barely even knew....
QUOTE (mndeg @ Feb 27 2006, 10:15 PM)
oh boy, clubs are not the greatest place to find a relationship
People on AF should listen to you two more...you're pretty clued up and right on this matter.
Have to admit that although harsh, Corky was right on the money too.
QUOTE (mndeg @ Feb 27 2006, 05:15 PM)
oh boy, clubs are not the greatest place to find a relationship
Name a place then ! Like i said doesnt matter where you meet its who you are , plus nothing happened in the club we just danced ...
I 've met a guy who already had a girlfriend at my school! hes a cheat ,hes not trustworthy thats how he is it has nothing to do with the place ive met him at ,thats just so basic thinking...
We meet in a library and you a bastard ,a player ,u like using women for sex you'l l do me wrong ,is it because we met in a library?
I was not drunk (never drink) ,he wasnt either ... so even he went to the club to get loose or whatever i did not happen at least with me...
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