QUOTE(RL33 @ Jul 12 2006, 03:04 PM)

I do agree thats they are helping "some" people but what about the rest??? It promotes competition but in a bad way ala crab mentality. It makes people dependant for example what would happen if you gave a beggar some change?? more will come they always do. I have to say that I may not be able to relate to these people because i dont come from a poor family but I just dont believe in temporary relief it creates an air of dependancy. Like all these stories ive heard about families living off of thier OSW relatives, and none of them are even working or going to school. I believe in promoting hard work and proper investment in education not handouts.
Dude, if you have gone to the Philippines recently and compared that in the days i was still a little simple boy way back then, you would see its gotten a lot worse, and i mean
worse. At least back then we didnt have this overpopulation problem, when you walk into some of those backstreets you cant help noticing how many of those little plyboard houses are so bunched up, they are about the size of your typical american toilets. In my days as a little boy those never existed!!. And to think 50+ years of independence would bring the Philippines prosperaty?. Its actually gotten worse. Ofcourse handouts isnt the best but dude! its hard and i mean real hard being in that position.
Ill use myself as an example shall i?. As far as my memory serves me, i was poor kid who had a mother who went to the uk to seek better life which would enable her to get myself and father to the uk after a couple or so years. My father at the time was working as a security gaurd in Ninoy aquino airport, from morning to late at night. And so brings us to me? a little 3-4 year old with just a shirt and short with no slippers walking around barefooted, left alone to fend for himself in a not so bad house. I had no one to look after me. Wasnt left with anyone the responsability to look over me. I had to survive and so what i had to do was hang out with kids of my age group (some were kids that were distant relative or friends of the ole man) we would climb up trees that bear fruits to keep our hunger at bay although it wasnt the ideal thing to eat in the morning, we would hangout where there could be parties or pulotan amongst neighbours so maybe we could get lucky with their generosity and give us some food. Sometimes if i missed the group ill ask the lady by the street who cooks those chicken pieces on a stick to perhaps give me some and my father will pay her soon as he returns, since she knew my ole man she does it when i ask.
I ask you, can a little 4 year old kid growwing up in america do all those survival tactics that i taught myself? Im sure even one of you on this forum would agree "NO". But i did it and pulled through. And its not something to boast about but thats the way it is back home, simple people needing simple things and being on a show like wowowee sure beats just hanging out in the streets pondering on how to make ends meet.
Giving people hope that is real is not a bad thing, it gives them drive, giving people hand outs could be all the difference it takes of turning some persons life around. Didnt you ever longed for something? and thought to yourself it can happen? Philippines is living on those money that are being sent home, it may not be the ideal scenario, i agree. But thats all
we have at the moment and who knows, a few decades we can be up there again. My way of giving something back to the Philippines was spend a good half from the house we sold in the UK £125,000. which equates to 12500000.00 pesos in those 4 months holiday we came back from. I visited my roots which is a very humbling experience to say the least. Am i embarassed of those years? Hell no. Its a part of who i am, it was real and i was there.
Where am i now? Living in CA have a house of my own with a nurse for a wife and two kids and me being a real tour agent, and yeah life is good, too good to be honest. Ive setup a machine shop (talyer) 5 in all in the Philippines, in different places, employ 25 personels in all of that project. What do i get out of it? A hell of lot of satisfaction by employing and paying people good money to help themselves, i get no money watsoever. I get my mother to go back home every 3 months to look at the books so the business doesnt go down. We are currently working on recruiting nurses (Preferably pinoy) either from the uk or the Philippines to come work here in the states, and nope, we dont stinge a dime off any of the applicants but rather get compensated by the hospitals who they end up working for and yes those nurse get equal wage to their american counterparts, to top that off we only offer full immigrant status and not the H1B (working visas) that companies and agencies normally dish out!! Thats my little way of helping people out of the poverty ladder in the same way Wowowee does, in our own little way!! So whats wrong with giving people hope?. Everyone can contribute in their own little way just as long its nothing to do with drugs or blood and selling sex, everything else my brother, is negotiable