haqine
Apr 1 2006, 10:56 AM
I think best friend is the one who can accept u, no matters people said about u, and u can act the way u are in front of them.
Best friend is also who can understand u without talk a lot, he/she can know what u think or what will u do in a situation.
My best friends mostly are men, they are really care about me, even they married.
How 'bout u guys ?
purple
Apr 1 2006, 03:43 PM
i've had a few best friends in the past. not so much now. all my best friends have been female. i have a few really close friends though.
furansizuka
Apr 1 2006, 11:40 PM
Sahabat adalah saudara yang Tuhan lupa berikan pada kita - Junot
e_vaholic
Apr 2 2006, 01:29 AM
sahabat bukanlah seseorang yang selalu membenarkan tindakan atau ucapan kita tetapi seseorang seng selalu mengingatkan kita jika kita berbuat salah dan mendukung kita di saat susah.
testcubaanujian
Apr 2 2006, 02:55 AM
CODE
Sahabat sejatiku
Hilangkah dari ingatanmu
Dihai kita saling berbagi
Dengan kotak sejuta mimpi
Aku datang menghampirimu
Kuperlihatkan semua hartaku
Kita selalu berpendapat kita ini yang terhebat
Kesombongan di masa muda yang indah
Aku raja kau pun raja
Aku hitam kaupun hitam
Erti teman lebih dari sekadar materi
Pegang pundakku jangan pernah lepaskan
Bila kumulai lelah... lelah dan tak bersinar
Remas sayapku jangan pernah lepaskan
Bila kuingin terbang... terbang meninggalkanmu Ohh..
Ku selalu membanggakanmu
Kaupun selalu menyanjungku
Aku dan kamu - darah abadi
Demi bermain bersama
Kita duakan segalanya
Merdeka kita, kita merdeka
Tak pernah kita pikirkan ujung perjalanan ini
Tak pernah kita pikirkan ujung perjalanan ini
Tak usah kita pikirkan akhir perjalanan ini
anak baek
Apr 2 2006, 04:02 AM
Deskripsiin sahabat terbaik dalam kata?
Bisa dibilang salah satu harta terbaik yg Tuhan beri. But do not misuse them. Friendship is not a mean you utilize to get somewhere. Friendship is an end. Itu kata Kant ama KoC. Kalian setuju ato object?
Aku punya banyak kenalan dan casual friends, tapi untuk yg namanya sahabat aku sangat picky. Not my intension to be picky though. From my father I inherit the analytical observer skills while from my mother I got the intuitive observer traits. So when I meet people I could instantly decide wether I like them or not. Part obvious reasons, part guts feeling. Most of the time I never fail reading people. So when one I call a friend, they really are.
Beruntung sekali aku punya beberapa sahabat baik (di luar emak aku sendiri). Lebih dari keluarga. Soulmate abis. Bener-bener saling ngerti. We could talk to each other with just our eyes or gestures. Oftenly we say things our best friends r meaning to say.
On particular time I would have the urge to go online & in second after I log in I would hear the buzz of my messenger saying that one of my best bud is on too. We log in at almost the same time. This lil things happen alot between me & my best buds. Ikatan batin.
purple
Apr 2 2006, 04:08 AM
^ sometimes at the end of a long day, when one of my close friends says something, or tries to say something that is not an ounce bit coherent (u know those days where u can't even construct a simple sentence).. and i say.. 'u know what (insert her name here).. what u said made no sense whatsoever.. but i understand u 100%' or sometimes before she even says what she wants to.. i say.. 'i know what u are about to say, and i agree with u' and i always get it right. we are always thinking the same thing.
i also tell her really embarrassing things that i wouldn't even dare right into my diary. she has been inside my brain. i tell her EVERYTHING. only when i need to speak to someone though.
i think everyone needs to talk to someone like that. otherwise we'll all go nuts.
she is not exactly like me though. we are two very different people.
gula_jawa
Apr 2 2006, 04:36 AM
to have some2 u trust and someone to exchange throughs and advice.. its a gr8 feeling.
its good to have a best friend...it makes me feel conected and give me a sense that i belong.
Best friend is someone who accpet u as u r.. and u do not feel lame when ur around dem.. and u dunt care how u act when u around them.... i love my best friends.
anak baek
Apr 2 2006, 04:51 AM
Bener banget Purp.
I oftenly find my lovers got jealous of my best friends because of what I'm sharing with them. There are parts of me that I do not share to anyone but my real close friends.
e_vaholic
Apr 2 2006, 04:58 AM
i have so many close friends...but i haven't found my best friend yet...
a friend that lasts forever...
RuthinJpn
Apr 2 2006, 05:14 AM
i have a best friend. i first met her on the first day in high school.
she was my classmate on the first year only, and we didn't sit at the same desk.
i met & talk to her only during our waiting for the school gate was opened.
i seldom spent time with her on weekends or holidays.
well... we sometimes went out together but with some other friends too; not only two of us.
after we had graduated from high school, she moved to another city.
yes... most of the time we are not together... not at the same places... cities....
but, she is the best of my best friend.
we tell each other everything!! yes, everything!! though by internet or telephone only.
we trust each other & care about each other.
she's my best friend, my sister,... and i hope our friendship would be an everlasting one
Aranadhel
Apr 2 2006, 02:05 PM
Alhamdulilah syukur ke hadrat Ilahi karena memberiku best friends yg bener2 baik .. I owe them dunia akhirat.. May Allah swt bless their souls. Amin. They know who they are.
Majapahitans
Apr 3 2006, 11:41 AM
Best friend is someone who in their strange and wonderful way, can comfort your heart.
Someone who gave you that warm and happy feelin, when out of the blue, they call you.
Just with their simple 'hello' will brighten your day.
Somehow you'll finds hole in your heart, if you were drifting apart.
Someone that allow you to shed your pretense mask and skin of conformity, and make you comfortable to be yourself.
Someone who accept who you are...., unconditionally.
Someone whom you gladly shed tears, and bears wounds with.
Good Friend is rare, but Best Friend is one in a million.I have two best friend in HS. One girl and one boy.
Once we're drifting apart, leaving shining memories.
One is exiling and cutting our ties over a mistify past.
Thanks to internet I can search and reach for them.
I got gang in HS, but now one by one are consumed with their new life,
well..., C'est la vie....
I got two best friend from college, we're still in touch.
I even become friend to their wife and childs (Auch.... ketahuan tuanya gue....

)
Most of my best friend are male. Well actually I had a female one, but I tend to destroy it by unexpectedly turn it into a complicated romance. Too much things come between us, and we end up hurting eachother.
So cherished your bestfriends, coz they're gift from God.
furansizuka
Apr 4 2006, 09:38 PM
QUOTE (Majapahitans @ Apr 3 2006, 11:41 AM)

Best friend is someone who in their strange and wonderful way, can comfort your heart.
Someone who gave you that warm and happy feelin, when out of the blue, they call you.
Just with their simple 'hello' will brighten your day.
Somehow you'll finds hole in your heart, if you were drifting apart.
Someone that allow you to shed your pretense mask and skin of conformity, and make you comfortable to be yourself.
Someone who accept who you are...., unconditionally.
Someone whom you gladly shed tears, and bears wounds with.
Good Friend is rare, but Best Friend is one in a million. So true. You've just described my very bestfriend. She's one in a million
e_vaholic
Apr 5 2006, 01:45 AM
QUOTE (furansizuka @ Apr 4 2006, 09:38 PM)

So true. You've just described my very bestfriend. She's one in a million

she's one in the million, she's one in a life time..ohhhhhh...
anakjakarta84
Apr 5 2006, 01:51 AM
Bayangkan ku melayang
Seluruh nafasku terbang
Bayanganku menghilang
Semua tanpamu teman
furansizuka
Apr 5 2006, 11:31 PM
Today I got SMS from my bestfriend and it made me happy. We haven't met for 2 days, lol..
jason76
Apr 5 2006, 11:56 PM
best friends are overrated...its good to have friends though!
....anyone?? :P lol You can have my lunch money for a year
haqine
Apr 6 2006, 07:52 AM
I'm touched with the describes that all u guys make about 'best friend'
Semoga persahabatan kalian bisa awet selamanya
QUOTE (jason76 @ Apr 6 2006, 11:56 AM)

....anyone?? :P lol You can have my lunch money for a year

2 u r very good best friend

@majapahitans :
Mas welcome back
Sudah lama tidak terdengar dongengan sejarahnya
Majapahitans
Apr 6 2006, 12:22 PM
QUOTE (haqine @ Apr 6 2006, 07:52 AM)

@majapahitans :
Mas welcome back

Tengkiyu....
Makasih hagine....
han2
Jun 19 2006, 10:57 AM
I used to have a best friend where I could share anything with him and he wouldn't judge me, but after getting married to my wife, she's now my best friend.
cathy_taryoto
Jun 19 2006, 11:05 AM
my best friends is those who get my jokes and my dry humor...

but most of all, who always believe in me no matter what others say about me.. (jadi kangen.. hikshiks

)
Astromantic
Jun 19 2006, 11:06 AM
QUOTE(han2 @ Jun 19 2006, 05:57 PM) [snapback]1968281[/snapback]
I used to have a best friend where I could share anything with him and he wouldn't judge me, but after getting married to my wife, she's now my best friend.

Where did he go?
doodlicious
Jun 19 2006, 11:11 AM
i used to have a best friend waktu SD, but now we dont even talk to each other. hehe.. now i only have some really close friends..
han2
Jun 19 2006, 11:14 AM
QUOTE(Astromantic @ Jun 19 2006, 10:06 AM) [snapback]1968315[/snapback]
Where did he go?
He still lives somewhere in New Jersey...it's just that after I got married, and then him, we sort of gradually drifted apart. I hope this doesn't happen to most people.
doodlicious
Jun 19 2006, 11:16 AM
i hope so, but i think it happens to all ppl. for me yang namanya "friends forever" itu gak nyata. hehe
Astromantic
Jun 19 2006, 11:18 AM
Friends Forever? I think it does happen. My dad's got a friend and his daughter has a friend since they were in primary school, and now they graduated university. They live together now, in DC, with my dad's friend's family.
han2
Jun 19 2006, 11:18 AM
QUOTE(doodlicious @ Jun 19 2006, 10:16 AM) [snapback]1968354[/snapback]
i hope so, but i think it happens to all ppl. for me yang namanya "friends forever" itu gak nyata. hehe
LOL...are you sure you're only 14 yrs old, you sound like you're already 24 here...

/jk
Astromantic
Jun 19 2006, 11:19 AM
I'm also 14.
doodlicious
Jun 19 2006, 11:20 AM
huh? i sound 24? kejam!!
abisnya.. okeh deh kalo temenan biasa forever, tapi best fren-an tu gak bisa forever, u meet new friends or move to another place u wont be sedeket dulu sama ur old friends
QUOTE
I'm also 14.
i thought im the only anak kecil here
Astromantic
Jun 19 2006, 11:21 AM
I think if you try, you can make it

. But I know it's pretty rare!
han2
Jun 19 2006, 11:24 AM
QUOTE(doodlicious @ Jun 19 2006, 10:20 AM) [snapback]1968370[/snapback]
huh? i sound 24? kejam!!
abisnya.. okeh deh kalo temenan biasa forever, tapi best fren-an tu gak bisa forever, u meet new friends or move to another place u wont be sedeket dulu sama ur old friends
i thought im the only anak kecil here
I actually meant it as a complement
Because I wasn't that wise back when I was 14 years old...
doodlicious
Jun 19 2006, 11:30 AM
wise? lol. did i say anything that sounds "wise"?
han2
Jun 19 2006, 11:34 AM
QUOTE(doodlicious @ Jun 19 2006, 10:30 AM) [snapback]1968408[/snapback]
wise? lol. did i say anything that sounds "wise"?
Well, what you said above about best friends pretty accurately reflect what happens to most people in real life, apparently...
When I was only 14, I thought best friends were forever, which actually rarely happens for most people.
haqine
Jun 20 2006, 04:58 AM
Find friends are easy thing, but hard to find best friends, even just one...
doodlicious
Jun 20 2006, 05:02 AM
yup thats true. i have some realllyyyy close friends but i cant find the best..
Astromantic
Jun 20 2006, 05:03 AM
So far I ain't got no best friends

...
doodlicious
Jun 20 2006, 05:05 AM
i think my best friend is God. the only one that knows everything, i still keep some secrets from my frens
cathy_taryoto
Jun 20 2006, 06:17 AM
QUOTE(doodlicious @ Jun 20 2006, 05:05 PM) [snapback]1971539[/snapback]
i think my best friend is God. the only one that knows everything, i still keep some secrets from my frens
i envy you....
doodlicious
Jun 20 2006, 06:25 AM
QUOTE
i envy you....

why is that?
cathy_taryoto
Jun 20 2006, 06:28 AM
QUOTE(doodlicious @ Jun 20 2006, 06:25 PM) [snapback]1971736[/snapback]

why is that?
because if u think that god is ur best friend, it means that u'r very close to Him.. whilst me... i sometimes forget about Him... ups jadi curhat..he3
doodlicious
Jun 20 2006, 06:35 AM
i somtimes forget about Him too.. but still He's the only one who knows all my secret so He's my best friend.
cathy_taryoto
Jun 20 2006, 06:37 AM
QUOTE(doodlicious @ Jun 20 2006, 06:35 PM) [snapback]1971763[/snapback]
i somtimes forget about Him too.. but still He's the only one who knows all my secret so He's my best friend.

yup!! and u can rest asure that He won't tell anyone no matter what!!!
doodlicious
Jun 20 2006, 06:39 AM
^ haha, thats why i trust Him
cathy_taryoto
Jun 20 2006, 06:44 AM
QUOTE(doodlicious @ Jun 20 2006, 06:39 PM) [snapback]1971777[/snapback]
^ haha, thats why i trust Him
i should try to make Him my bestfriend then, so that He's always on my side.. that would make life much easier
doodlicious
Jun 20 2006, 06:48 AM
and the good thing about having God as a bestfren is you dont need to tell Him what you feel or what problem you're having, it saves time
cathy_taryoto
Jun 20 2006, 06:51 AM
QUOTE(doodlicious @ Jun 20 2006, 06:48 PM) [snapback]1971801[/snapback]
and the good thing about having God as a bestfren is you dont need to tell Him what you feel or what problem you're having, it saves time
good point! that 100 points for doodlicious!
purnomor
Jun 27 2006, 08:37 AM
Best friend out of your circle of friends/acquintances is like 1:20
cathy_taryoto
Jun 28 2006, 09:35 AM
what do u mean?
purnomor
Jun 28 2006, 11:48 AM
^ if you make 20 new friends, you'll find maybe one "sahabat" out of them..
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