Laos native slain on last day managing Bangkok Palace in Oakland
By Harry Harris, STAFF WRITER
Sonethavy Phomsouvanhdara
OAKLAND — Monday was supposed to be Sonethavy Phomsouvanhdara's last day managing a Grand Lake district restaurant owned by family friends.
It turned out to be his last day alive.
Phomsouvanhdara, 29, who hoped to own his restaurant someday and was picking up the needed experience, died Tuesday morning from a gunshot wound he received during a robbery at Bangkok Palace, 3300 Grand Ave.
Police said Phomsouvanhdara had managed the restaurant almost since it opened about a year ago.
He and a few other employees were in the process of closing just before 10 p.m. Monday when a robber appeared.
Police Sgt. Lou Cruz said a man with a gun entered the restaurant through a back door, confronted Phomsouvanhdara and the others and demanded money.
The robber shot Phomsouvanhdara before fleeing with several hundred dollars, Cruz said. The other employees were not injured.
"Obviously, the motive for this crime is robbery, but I am still not sure why (Phomsouvanhdara) was shot," Cruz said Tuesday.
He said Phomsouvanhdara was a loyal employee known to work 10-hour days.
"It's sad," Cruz said. "He's just a guy who is working every day. That's supposed to be the right thing to do, and this happens to him."
Phomsouvanhdara's 21-year-old wife of three years, who asked that her name not be used, said he was "a great husband, there is no doubt about that," in an interview Tuesday afternoon in the living room of their East Oakland apartment, where several relatives and friends had gathered to mourn.
"He was a very hard worker, he was understanding, he cared. He would be there for you. He was very loyal. You could depend on him," she added.
He had brought his father to Oakland last summer from their native Laos and planned to bring his mother and siblings, too.
His father fainted when told his son had been shot, the wife said.
"He thought America would be a good life, the land of opportunity, and all this happens to his son."
Monday was to be Phomsouvanhdara's last