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Darth Lin
Ha, to be honest, I've never had a girlfriend before in my life.

I am now 24 years old.

Since I was 14 years old, I've been trying to ask girls out.

During the last ten years, I was rejected 7 times by 7 different girls.

Why?

I don't understand, is something wrong with me?

I think I'll be single for live.

And I do get so jealous when I see a guy and girl holding hands, I wish it could be me...

Who cares, so I'll be single for live, I don't care anymore.



Wooh, it's good to let out rants and raves like that..... laugh.gif
jason76
damn dude, your definately doing something. unless you smell really bad, have no cash or no car or too fussy perhaps?
tafc1
u should ask more then 7 in 10 years for sure!



and also where do u ask them?
jason76
buy a doll

shame shame shame you aint got no game
Darth Lin
A good thing about being rejected so many times is that. I don't feel bad about being rejected anymore.

It's like you keep on failing exams. There is a point where you just don't care if you fail anymore, yet you still write exams even though if you fail, but you don't really expect to pass anyway.

I feel that way right now.

I am numb to fear of rejection. Muhahahha icon_twisted.gif
tafc1
thats good tho be brave ask many more girls out until u realise what works for u




most guys on here who moan about no girls dont even ask any out!
Darth Lin
Nothing will happen anyway. I will just ask so I know that I am at least trying.

Who cares about been rejected, I haven't lost a piece of flesh yet because I've been rejected.

Maybe something is just wrong with me, but I don't care anymore.
wRiter Reverie
Well, it's nice to see that you've got determination. Cheers beerchug.gif

Take a break! Relax. You're still young.

Even if you pass 30, don't think that you're too old for love.
tafc1
u might be asking at the wrong times? u tried in a club?




try being chatting and cheeky with girls i find that works best for me, like u dont even have to ask them out just talk alot and read their reactions and u'll be able to feel if their interested!
IniTiaL V.
u should try and use a pick up line
SevenEighthsAsian
QUOTE(Darth Lin @ Jul 20 2006, 09:14 PM) [snapback]2069660[/snapback]

Ha, to be honest, I've never had a girlfriend before in my life.

I am now 24 years old.

Since I was 14 years old, I've been trying to ask girls out.

During the last ten years, I was rejected 7 times by 7 different girls.

Why?

I don't understand, is something wrong with me?

I think I'll be single for live.

And I do get so jealous when I see a guy and girl holding hands, I wish it could be me...

Who cares, so I'll be single for live, I don't care anymore.
Wooh, it's good to let out rants and raves like that..... laugh.gif


Don't Worry Daniel. U'll be fine. Trust me. Ur probably too good for them. U'll meet the right girl soon enough biggthumpup.gif
blushbloom
Hey Darthy, good to see you again. There's nothing wrong with you, you're a decent guy and you know it. Don't push things and it'll happen naturally and eventually.
havythoai
rejected 7 times by 7 different girls. You probably hurt so much, don't you?

check yourself, do you have something that makes them reject you. Ask your girl friends to help you out

P.S: Thank rehotchili biggrin.gif
Jessy306
Darthy, its okay, those gals obviously dont know what a nice person u are.....the right gal will come along, just wait and see biggthumpup.gif
rkeoman23
u should build her a cake or something
Jhangora
Try 8th time.
ABC in NYC
Cud be a number of things going wrong---

1. Do u have a bad lisp ?
2. Do u stutter alot?
3. Do u look like George 'the animal' Steele?
4. Smell funny?

Maybe ur gay....and not made out to get girls.

QUOTE(Darth Lin @ Jul 20 2006, 07:14 AM) [snapback]2069660[/snapback]

Ha, to be honest, I've never had a girlfriend before in my life.

I am now 24 years old.

Since I was 14 years old, I've been trying to ask girls out.

During the last ten years, I was rejected 7 times by 7 different girls.

Why?

I don't understand, is something wrong with me?

I think I'll be single for live.

And I do get so jealous when I see a guy and girl holding hands, I wish it could be me...

Who cares, so I'll be single for live, I don't care anymore.
Wooh, it's good to let out rants and raves like that..... laugh.gif

Jhangora
QUOTE(ABC in NYC @ Jul 20 2006, 09:15 PM) [snapback]2069773[/snapback]

Cud be a number of things going wrong---

1. Do u have a bad lisp ?
2. Do u stutter alot?
3. Do u look like George 'the animal' Steele?
4. Smell funny?

Maybe ur gay....and not made out to get girls.



In that case he should try a guy who is gay.
Adee
That's pretty normal imo. You can't expect 100% success all the time.

Maybe you're just happen to ask the wrong girls out. Also luck has to do with it as well.
Nathan Rahl
you seem to have some kind of personality issue, join the club biggthumpup.gif
Jhangora
Hi dude with superior CCP skills.U gay too....j/k icon_smile.gif.
tafc1
QUOTE(Jhangora @ Jul 20 2006, 01:21 PM) [snapback]2069808[/snapback]

Hi dude with superior CCP skills.U gay too....j/k icon_smile.gif.



who u mean? CCP?
Jhangora
Nathan.He's got superior Cut,Copy,Paste skills.U have them too Tac?
Nini_Kya
omg you are back biggrin.gif and let me take care of you genius.gif
Jhangora
I am desperately in need of a GF Nini.Gimme a hug.
Nini_Kya
no
Jhangora
I've been rejected 99th time in my life.Guess I'm gayer than the dude who started this thread.
YoungOne
QUOTE(Jhangora @ Jul 20 2006, 02:33 PM) [snapback]2069872[/snapback]

I've been rejected 99th time in my life.Guess I'm gayer than the dude who started this thread.


Only 99? I would have expected more
Jhangora
U are wrong icon_sad.gif.
minthe
Maybe it's the way you ask...?
PervertBurger
You're worrying about 7 times? I've been rejected over 20. So come on dude geesh.
JMAC
so how do u approach girls when asking them out darth?

QUOTE(PervertBurger @ Jul 20 2006, 09:19 AM) [snapback]2070057[/snapback]
You're worrying about 7 times? I've been rejected over 20. So come on dude geesh.
cuz you're a perverted librarian who preys on studious girls Talktohand.gif
PervertBurger
icon_wink.gif mmmm...books...cute girls...studies..klsy kiss.gif

Don't hate JAMAICA (JMAC) embarassedlaugh.gif
JMAC
QUOTE(PervertBurger @ Jul 20 2006, 09:35 AM) [snapback]2070118[/snapback]
icon_wink.gif mmmm...books...cute girls...studies..klsy kiss.gif

Don't hate JAMAICA (JMAC) embarassedlaugh.gif
it ain't true? embarassedlaugh.gif
ellenej
Perhaps you may be reaching a little too far out of your league? Try asking a girl who may be less than your ideal, and perhaps you won't be so lonely on Friday nights... Good luck!

(Is this Bosco?)
JMAC
QUOTE(ellenej @ Jul 20 2006, 10:08 AM) [snapback]2070235[/snapback]
Perhaps you may be reaching a little too far out of your league? Try asking a girl who may be less than your ideal, and perhaps you won't be so lonely on Friday nights... Good luck!

(Is this Bosco?)
no hes not



oh its jennelle icon_redface.gif long time no see icon_redface.gif
ellenej
QUOTE(JMAC @ Jul 20 2006, 09:11 AM) [snapback]2070247[/snapback]

no hes not
oh its jennelle icon_redface.gif long time no see icon_redface.gif


Hi Jmac, been back for a couple weeks, now...

But I remember you being a male... icon_redface.gif
Jessy306
embarassedlaugh.gif I dont think anyone is really sure about his sex yet shifty.gif
Jhangora
QUOTE(Jessy306 @ Jul 20 2006, 11:38 PM) [snapback]2070346[/snapback]

embarassedlaugh.gif I dont think anyone is really sure about his sex yet shifty.gif


Jessy you are a genius biggthumpup.gif .
Jessy306
Jhangora - u seem to always find me icon_smile.gif
Jhangora
QUOTE(Jessy306 @ Jul 20 2006, 11:41 PM) [snapback]2070358[/snapback]

Jhangora - u seem to always find me icon_smile.gif


Maybe coz I've been rejected 99 times and wanna try atleast once more biggrin.gif .
han2
Maybe you just haven't met the right girl...anyhow, askin them out for coffee usually works out fine, after that both parties can decide whether to pursue it any further, so to speak, lol... icon_smile.gif
miszkx
yo darthlin! biggrin.gif

..im sure the right girl will come along beerchug.gif
YellowCommie
How's your self esteem? Also do you used any pick up lines? How do you appreoach girls? Where do you meet/commune with them?

b-man
maybe the girls you are asking is outta of your league..........

on a scale of 1 to 10, you better be a 8 if your going after a 10

either work on yourself or look towards a different gals
msz_baller
Are you coming on too soon?? Or are you coming on in an awkward way??

Those are definatly some things that I know turn me off. I don't like a guy coming onto me really fast saying hey how are you and then let's go on a date an hour later.
hakseng
QUOTE(blushbloom @ Jul 20 2006, 11:41 AM) [snapback]2069699[/snapback]

Hey Darthy, good to see you again. There's nothing wrong with you, you're a decent guy and you know it. Don't push things and it'll happen naturally and eventually.

damn most of the chinese girls that are born / grew up in aussie are hot !!

anyway darthlin do you talk like this ??
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wGR4-SeuJ0
jinp0ssible
Well, I don't know you, so I won't be able to tell you what you're doing wrong. So yeah, tell me how you're asking these girls out...? and what motivates you to. Also, what relations do you have with these girls?
Jaimu-Jaimu

Rub my back....then I will help you. icon_redface.gif
kunomchu
QUOTE(Darth Lin @ Jul 20 2006, 07:14 AM) [snapback]2069660[/snapback]

Ha, to be honest, I've never had a girlfriend before in my life.

I am now 24 years old.

Since I was 14 years old, I've been trying to ask girls out.

During the last ten years, I was rejected 7 times by 7 different girls.

Why?

I don't understand, is something wrong with me?

I think I'll be single for live.

And I do get so jealous when I see a guy and girl holding hands, I wish it could be me...

Who cares, so I'll be single for live, I don't care anymore.
Wooh, it's good to let out rants and raves like that..... laugh.gif



set your standards a bit lower each time. lol
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