QUOTE(nimbus @ Sep 4 2006, 09:03 PM)

desi guys on this forum seem to always say that indian girls are stuck up, arrogant, spoiled, etc...i wonder why

it really depends on how u approach the girl...the bottom line is, if a guy acts like a moron, the girl will blow him off...sorry, but that's how it is with any girl, not just desi girls.
as for the original question asked, some chinese guys are attractive, and some are not...i know desi girls that say they r not attracted to asian guys in general, but then find themselves attracted to a few. whatever the case, i've seen desi girls dating asians plenty of times, and that's in america.
You know what? Desi guys complain about how conservative Indian girls are, but when they meet a liberal one.....they do a total 180.
This Desi guy that liked me (and I liked him too) was complaining about how uptight and conservative Indian girls are. I asked him if he was liberal, and he said yes. After 2 weeks of conversing with him on the phone, he then told me that only a Sudra (lowest Hindu caste) would want a girl like me, that I'm too "blunt", and that he wanted a submissive wife. WTH? I've seen this happen too many times.
As for Desi guys that complain about girls not approaching them-Trust me, I've done this before. You're a whore for approaching them and asking for their number, but you're a stuck-up prude for not talking to them. You can't win.